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ladyofthemansion

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #45 on: 08 April 2018, 10:41:11 am »
I have had no shows later become really good clients. I also think I?m getting really good at detecting the TWs at time of phonecall. X
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

CandyPop69

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #46 on: 08 April 2018, 02:36:18 pm »
This is super frustrating and even more difficult to remain calm and professional, but I always try o because 1) I believe karma will take of them and 2) if I gob off I believe I'll get bad karma.

So annoying but I think we'll, it wasn't meant to be anyway and maybe he'll have been a d!ck anyway.

We all get it though

Xx

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #47 on: 09 April 2018, 07:14:40 pm »
Block and move on
No need wasting my energy on childish little man  ::)

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #48 on: 10 April 2018, 12:21:40 am »
Hello. We had a booking at (insert time) I understand things may crop up but due to you not letting me know and it causing me some issues with my day I am going to have to tell you  if you do wish to book in future it will be subject to you paying a deposit upfront. I hope that all is well and have a lovely day.
Sometimes I think that I could die from an overdose of satisfaction. -Salvador Dali

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #49 on: 10 April 2018, 11:50:18 am »
Katrina, do you think the guys will pay for a cancellation ?
I feel doubtful they would as they can't be bothered to come in the first place can't see them co operating  with giving money .

To no shows I'll continue to ignore and block. But to the short notice cancellations I'm gonna try ENB's approach "Yes that's fine, if you do wish to book again please be aware that you will have to pay an extra ?20 and upfront before I can accept another booking from you, have a lovely day"  :P ;D

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #50 on: 01 May 2018, 10:14:57 pm »
ignore and save in my phone as TW
Your a young mans fool and old mans darlin x

Rosesugar

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #51 on: 02 May 2018, 10:27:04 am »
I'm now saying if you have not arrived within a given time  I will not message you , you are  automatically cancelled .
I don't now make further contact.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #52 on: 04 May 2018, 12:37:49 pm »
A guy was a no show today after  very genuine phone call so it seemed to me at the time on Wednesday or Tuesday whenever it was.

I was so livid I felt like sending him a text to say I hope his willy drops off in pain.  Then I thought no always be the bigger person in this instances lol.

It was supposed to be a 90 mins booking too.

fion

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #53 on: 04 May 2018, 09:28:11 pm »
I send them a txt. Thanks for wasting  my time. Booking now cancelled. Not to worry as I have given someone else your appt. So not lost out in any money. Have a great day.

When they try to book again in the future i txt them sure ill see u. But my rates are double as u never showed up on last appt and I need the money paid in advance via bank transfer.  Funny enough many insist i have them confused with some1 else. Thats why i have no show dumbass next to your name/ number.

I never take another booking from a no show.

Rosesugar

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #54 on: 05 May 2018, 06:58:43 pm »

I don't give 2nd chances I'm not that kind .
« Last Edit: 06 June 2018, 09:23:53 am by Sugar xxx »

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #55 on: 06 May 2018, 11:53:29 am »
I just don't respond if they haven't confirmed by phone call at the time specified. I'm very strict on it. 5 mins late and I'll contact one of my back ups (if I have anyone else wanting an appt at the same time) and save them as tw in my phone.

Never respond to their fuckery and let them know you were waiting for them or were in any way affected by their timewasting. I swear it's a kind of fetish for some of these men as many are prolific, spending lots of their time contacting sex workers all over the country to get a thrill from knowing they are waiting for them and lost money. They want a reaction that's what gets them off. That's why they keep doing it over and over.
They want any response they can get so if you starve them of that interaction it puts them off trying it again with you.
« Last Edit: 06 May 2018, 11:57:00 am by SW »

Hannaah

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #56 on: 07 May 2018, 03:25:37 pm »
If it's someone I haven't seen before I just ignore completely and block them and never respond to them again when they try and make another booking. If it's someone I have seen before I will text 10 minutes after the booked time and say "Hi I am just checking to make sure things are okay and you still want to go ahead?" Depending on the reason given for not showing determines if they get a second chance. If they don't get in touch they get added to the blocked and ignored list. No one ever gets a third chance.
« Last Edit: 07 May 2018, 03:27:27 pm by Hannaah »

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #57 on: 08 May 2018, 03:58:16 pm »
I've learnt to contain my frustration and anger. Like many have said, I believe also they thrive on it. Within their sad little existence.

I always ask them to reconfirm an hour before by phone call. And to txt when 10/15 mins away.
I only finish preparing once I get that txt saying on way.
Usually time wasters give up on these hurdles. And if they still turn out to be a time waster I don't chase them up, I wait in 15 minutes. Stay gleamed up for half an hour. And then remind myself to keep calm and mark their name and number with a record of what they did. I don't block either.
Unless their rude and insulting and clearly a TW.
Real life sometimes happens. I've once missed a dentist appointment because a boyfriend was causing drama, or missed a beauty appointment because work ran over.
So if they get in touch embarrassed (which some do). I say, not to worry I got taken out for lunch or dinner instead. And if you'd like to re book a deposit needs to be sent.
At end of the day we don't know if wife suddenly turned up and caused havoc with their schedule. Or their child did. Or work and they had to hide their phone.

Kay1996

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #58 on: 16 May 2018, 04:47:10 pm »
I text them an hour before the booking "please text back to confirm xxpm/am"
If they're a time waster, they usually don't reply. If they reply and they don't show after being 5 minutes late, I'll text them "hi, are you near?" If I don't get a response after 15minutes I'll text back calling them a timewaster lol.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #59 on: 21 May 2018, 10:59:17 pm »
I give them 10 mins after the booking time, and if nothing I just block them. I don't bother texting or ringing them at all.