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katrina

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #75 on: 01 July 2018, 10:01:44 pm »
I completely agree. I think this actually applies in most realms of life. Ignoring someone often makes them feel small and insignificant which can be far more damaging than remarks or name calling, which can have the opposite effect of doing more damage to oneself. Oneself?! Did I just say that? Posh, ain't I?

I agree, and from the past few months I've decided on a blanket policy of totally ignoring any short notice cancellations as well (I've always ignore no shows anyway)

So far, after also sacking off/blocking these energy/time wasters my income has not changed as another genuine client can often fill their slot.  :)

Bella.X

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #76 on: 02 August 2018, 12:11:54 pm »
I don't message them at all, I simply save their number as NO SHOW...99% of the time they always try to rebook, I take the booking but I do not prioritise it so in essence I double book and if I'm with a new client, I keep the no show waiting and say sorry I didn't think you will come as you didn't show the last time and they understand and we both end up happy in the end.
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Starlight500

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #77 on: 12 September 2018, 09:14:22 pm »
I don't do anything except block a no show. Cancellations are annoying but if someone lets me know they get another chance. A no show is just rude and inconsiderate.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #78 on: 12 September 2018, 10:26:20 pm »
At first, I saved them as name and what they had done. My contact list looked insane with an idiot, asshole cannot read etc. So then just added them to existing Tw's. This was great until I added someone genuine. Had to unblock the lot of them.

Never contacted any of them. Why give them the satisfaction of knowing my business. Plus for me, if I text them it's giving them some validation that I needed their cash.

I am discrete and it's known I will not contact them unless I have to cancel or I am having difficulties finding them. I don't want to know about their personal lives. We cannot complain that they want to know about our lives if we want the same back. I wouldn't say anything to a punter if I bumped into them in the street which has happened a few times, including sharing a table on a long train journey, the punter was alone and I was with my bloke! My bloke didn't know and of course, started to chat with him.


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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #79 on: 21 September 2018, 02:14:13 pm »
It's unfortunately going to happen sometimes as it does with many other professions. I just take it on the chin and don't let it get me down. I will save numbers on my phone as No Show 1, No Show 2, etc. so I know not to book them if they ask again.
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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #80 on: 21 September 2018, 02:22:25 pm »
I don't message them at all, I simply save their number as NO SHOW...99% of the time they always try to rebook, I take the booking but I do not prioritise it so in essence I double book and if I'm with a new client, I keep the no show waiting and say sorry I didn't think you will come as you didn't show the last time and they understand and we both end up happy in the end.

I do like this approach... never thought of that and will try it myself. It's like giving karma a little shove.
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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #81 on: 24 September 2018, 08:46:55 am »
I sometimes sarcastically send a text saying 'Thanks for the no show'.  Until the other week when a guy replied 'You're welcome'. ....  The cheek!

Rosesugar

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #82 on: 28 September 2018, 04:35:31 pm »
I let a timewaster book then cancelled him  30 mins before booking scheduled

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #83 on: 02 October 2018, 12:15:11 am »
BLOCK nothing else!

ParisB

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #84 on: 05 October 2018, 09:07:10 pm »
 I never message them and I rarely block them   If I do block them it’s normally for an hour or so to stop them from annoying me the. After that I will unblock them  as I don’t want them to know that they are blocked and then rebook on a different number

 But I rarely get a no show because of the way I work and take bookings
Today I reckon I could have had around 3 no shows but because of the way i Work I didn’t get any ( not that it was busy today 😂


But when I do get them or I get a idiot texting me or bugging me I save them In my phone with the city they are in and the date so Bristol NS Oct 2018. Or something like that
 I also make notes about them in the phone contact  bit if they are particularly annoying or fuck me about to much

The reason I do put block them is because they will 99 percent try to ring and book you again

 I blocked a guy the other day because he was getting on my nerves want f to book 15 Mins fro 2 hrs in advance despite me telling him several times I don’t take advance bookings for 15 Mins

He rang me on another number as he realised I had blocked him but I knew it was him because he wanted the exact same time / duration  bloody idiot
So I have unblocked him on both numbers so that I can avoid him when he calls

Also what I have noticed is that they are rarely orginal and even when they try to rebook you they use the exact same script as before
I have a guy that deliberately NS me in Bristol about 3 years ago
He has changed his number several times since but always try’s to rebook at least once every two months
he always wants a Sunday morning or a Tues /Wed evening around 7.30
He always wants 90 Mins Dom
His name is always Barry Brad or Brian 😂
He Is always ultra polite in the text
Sometimes he wants an outcall and he always lives In either Fishponds or Clifton in Bristol
I know it’s the same guy because the texts are always written in a certain way

Thank fuck for auto text and android phones that keeps all the texts 😂