Author Topic: What do you message to no shows ? (Read 9697 times)

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #30 on:** 27 March 2018, 12:15:33 pm »

Quote from: Christina_Rose on 26 March 2018, 10:55:50 pm

I message to say they are now blacklisted and then block the number.

Not always a good idea because serial timewasters who really do do it to fuck escorts around will just get another sim card or use another mobile number to do the same thing over and over again.Best thing is not to tell them anything and just block the number or store them as a no show.

MissDee · « **Reply #31 on:** 29 March 2018, 01:01:35 am »

I say nothing I don?t like them to know they?v pissed me off, those of you that send angry texts or phone them up calling them names you do realise thats what some of them want so your giving them exactly what they want and they get it for free with out using a chat line or text back service.

And telling them you?v saved them as time waster or your about to block them doesnt help any of us they just start doing it off another number

I?v always been one to say we all work diffrently and thats fine but i reckon if we all treated time wasters the way i do the majority would get bored so they?d be less of them

I don?t get many timewasters but the odd one slips through now an then as a touring escort in new places i don?t know who the serial twats are lol

Emma_C · « **Reply #32 on:** 29 March 2018, 09:53:18 am »

I'll send a text asking is they need further directions at like 7 minutes past the start time. If I get no reply then I don't bother to send further texts. The only time I will is if they text a lot later asking to come another time, then I'll get snotty.

If they try & book me again persistently, I'll send "I have you down as a no show so unfortunately I can't take your appointment request seriously. Put a booking through on adult work if you want a second chance" Which they never do.

I had one guy admit to being a no show during the booking. He got through on another number. His excuse was that his phone battery went. I did give him a stern word & a partially crappy service so thankfully I've not seen him again.

Lucie268 · « **Reply #33 on:** 29 March 2018, 10:11:07 am »

If a no show is persistent with continuing trying to get a booking I will tell them I need a deposit, fully expecting them to not go through with it. Most of them disappear then.

If they seem genuine but don't want to do a deposit, I'll just give them a nearby postcode and explain to them I won't reserve a slot for them, but they can make their way there and call on arrival on the off-chance I'm free. That way I'm not losing out if they don't show up.

DaisyDuck · « **Reply #34 on:** 29 March 2018, 12:30:58 pm »

Quote from: Miss Delaney on 29 March 2018, 01:01:35 am

I say nothing I don?t like them to know they?v pissed me off, those of you that send angry texts or phone them up calling them names you do realise thats what some of them want so your giving them exactly what they want and they get it for free with out using a chat line or text back service.

And telling them you?v saved them as time waster or your about to block them doesnt help any of us they just start doing it off another number

I?v always been one to say we all work diffrently and thats fine but i reckon if we all treated time wasters the way i do the majority would get bored so they?d be less of them I don?t get many timewasters but the odd one slips through now an then as a touring escort in new places i don?t know who the serial twats are lol

I agree with this approach in general. I sometimes think that some of the stalker/harassing reports have their roots in engaging with arseholes. I really believe that it's best to take the "grey rock" approach.

Funkymonkey · « **Reply #35 on:** 29 March 2018, 12:45:02 pm »

Lucies idea is good, there is new way I am saving another booking space for a time waster but that way therI w a chance they might be able to see you if they?re genuine. I don?t reply to first time no show clients but I will send a message to previous clients. I?ve had a few recently which is annoying because you would think you could rely on them. They still get blocked, I say they have to pay me for the missed booking if they want to see me again and clearly they?re not going to do that.

Lady_Lust_XXX · « **Reply #36 on:** 29 March 2018, 01:14:49 pm »

Quote from: Miss Delaney on 29 March 2018, 01:01:35 am

I say nothing I don?t like them to know they?v pissed me off, those of you that send angry texts or phone them up calling them names you do realise thats what some of them want so your giving them exactly what they want and they get it for free with out using a chat line or text back service.

And telling them you?v saved them as time waster or your about to block them doesnt help any of us they just start doing it off another number

I?v always been one to say we all work diffrently and thats fine but i reckon if we all treated time wasters the way i do the majority would get bored so they?d be less of them I don?t get many timewasters but the odd one slips through now an then as a touring escort in new places i don?t know who the serial twats are lol

Totally agree. The minute they know they have got to you and that is by any form of communication by us then the game has started for them.

Best just to let it go over your head and get on with your day. Yes it's frustrating but getting annoyed is not going to make them change their mind and turn up.

Rosesugar · « **Reply #37 on:** 29 March 2018, 04:14:23 pm »

They know themselves they are timewasters who have no intention of turning up at all.
Email & texters included
Why they try their luck again is may be they have contacted so many of us they lost track or didn't save our numbers .
Calling fromTooting Broadway to somone in Liverpool saying they wil be there in 30 mins is highly likely while wanking indoors . $:-\$
It is true that by not responding they won't have the opportunity to get yet another sad thrill .
Retarded socially inept jerkoffs

ladyofthemansion · « **Reply #38 on:** 04 April 2018, 09:49:13 am »

If it goes a few min after the due arrival time text them and say that you need to know if they are coming because somebody else has called and stated he is five min away and going to turn up on the offchance. Then in another five min text ?Sorry but you are ten min late and somebody else has showed. You have not let me know you are running late and he is here and you are not so it makes sense to see him. If you do show I can see you after him. X?

That way they don?t get to know that they made you lose out.

Rosesugar · « **Reply #39 on:** 04 April 2018, 10:50:10 am »

I tried something similar lady but for me I just go no response

I have a possible fake booking this afternoon.
I e-mailed with my request to contact me prior to the visit ,he's done nothing .
Just sent a text to the number he provided so he can't claim he wasn't contacted .
I just put confirm booking please .it could be anyone but my number is now displated as I'm workimg today .
By 3 if no corresponding I will be leaving negative feedback, I will not contact him again.
I will get aw to remove any feedback he leaves me.

MsLadyV87 · « **Reply #40 on:** 05 April 2018, 10:35:20 pm »

Quote from: mySecret on 21 March 2018, 06:32:47 pm

i ignore! i do not spend my phone credit for them even a text. they wasted already my time.
no energy to spend more on them.

Completely agree with you mysecret. I like to think of creative ways I would reply if I could be bothered and for sure save number with a name suited and then simply ignore and never speak to them again! time is better spent on paying clients

CCB · « **Reply #41 on:** 05 April 2018, 11:26:33 pm »

Nothing.

MsRedhead · « **Reply #42 on:** 06 April 2018, 04:38:38 pm »

Quote from: Christina_Rose on 26 March 2018, 10:55:50 pm

I message to say they are now blacklisted and then block the number.

i know it's tempting, but please don't do this, it encourages them to change their number.

katrina · « **Reply #43 on:** 07 April 2018, 10:50:07 pm »

I just totally ignore no shows, they're just saved as no show (with the name) and their number then given to other escorts that I'm in contact with at that time, and the number blocked.

I do have a little faq on my profile stating that any no shows or short notice cancellations won't be able to make another booking with me, just to clarify because I know that *some* escorts give them second and even third chances!

I'm thinking of introducing a small charge for cancellations, as obviously some are genuine...not sure how much to charge for that yet though...

Rosesugar · « **Reply #44 on:** 08 April 2018, 08:44:12 am »

Katrina, do you think the guys will pay for a cancellation ?
I feel doubtful they would as they can't be bothered to come in the first place can't see them co operating with giving money .

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BibiofLeeds

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