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elainegirl

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #15 on: 22 March 2018, 08:06:12 am »
No..I don't. Its so annonying. I just save their number as no show.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #16 on: 22 March 2018, 12:22:38 pm »
No..I don't. Its so annonying. I just save their number as no show.
Me too

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #17 on: 22 March 2018, 12:39:58 pm »
This depends who it is a new client who's paid a deposit and confirmed hasn't yet not turned up. I would probably send a 'Is everything OK text' a few minutes after the appointment was due to start. No name, no sexiness.

A repeat booker I'd do the same sometimes I ask repeat bookers to confirm, sometimes I leave it as they've made it to one booking so I trust them to let me know if they can't make it.

Unfortunately have recently been stung by this, and he'll have to pay a deposit for next time. The regulars I have after a bit of a prune, are all reliable. It would truly have to be a disaster for them to no show. In which case if I know it's OK to contact them I would, if not I'd leave it until they next got in touch - or I spot the disaster elsewhere. I have found out about sudden unexpected deaths that way.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #18 on: 22 March 2018, 02:22:25 pm »
My most recent no show I think seems to think that I just sit around in my knickers waiting for my gentleman callers, and that I have so much spare time he could just turn up whenever he wants. Mmmm no you're not the only one who wants to see me today!

A cancellation is fine, no showing is just the worst because by the time you know the booking isn't happening it's too late to fill it with somebody else. They know exactly what they're doing!

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #19 on: 22 March 2018, 02:33:31 pm »
I do not send anything at all to no shows, I ignore it and move on
various reasons, but in my mind a no show who doesn't let you know they aren't coming just wants power and control and to waste your time, so by communicating anything at all is playing right into their hands

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #20 on: 22 March 2018, 02:34:53 pm »
One of the ladies at a drop in  in suggested  saying that  I should tell them I travel to the working location and if I've not heard from client I wont head there which seems quite a good idea .
That way some not all  timewasters will be aware your not there if they don't turn up saying that some others  they take the piss anyway and say they are there when not   :FF

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #21 on: 23 March 2018, 06:25:23 pm »
One of the ladies at a drop in  in suggested  saying that  I should tell them I travel to the working location and if I've not heard from client I wont head there which seems quite a good idea .
That way some not all  timewasters will be aware your not there if they don't turn up saying that some others  they take the piss anyway and say they are there when not   :FF

The only problem with this tactic is that guys may think "No need to tell her I'm cancelling as she won't be travelling as I haven't confirmed."
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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #22 on: 23 March 2018, 09:00:41 pm »
The only problem with this tactic is that guys may think "No need to tell her I'm cancelling as she won't be travelling as I haven't confirmed."

Or having cunts confirm just to make the OP travel and then no show on her.
For them the whole thrill is in no showing. So knowing that she traveled just for them while they were sitting wanking on their sofa it's an icing on the cake.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #23 on: 24 March 2018, 08:36:13 am »
Do you write anything in your profile and faq sections.?
I.e. .client non shows etc 
I've not written anything yet should I or not bother just take it as it is expect t wasters as one of the perils this job  :FF
Bed blockers  taking valuable clients booking times up !!

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #24 on: 25 March 2018, 07:31:21 pm »
Do you write anything in your profile and faq sections.?
I.e. .client non shows etc 
I've not written anything yet should I or not bother just take it as it is expect t wasters as one of the perils this job  :FF
Bed blockers  taking valuable clients booking times up !!
It would be utterly pointless as guys who do this for shits and giggles aren't going to read your profile and think 'Oh I'd better not then'.I used to just have a general thing in my faqs called 'Why aren't you answering my calls?' and the answer was something like 'If you have no showed me, faffed me about, come across as rude or flaky or clearly haven't read a word on my profile then chances are we won't be meeting or speaking anytime soon. The other reasons are I may be in a booking or you are ringing from a withheld number or in the middle of the night.'But to be fair it is stating the obvious really.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #25 on: 25 March 2018, 07:52:58 pm »
The only problem with this tactic is that guys may think "No need to tell her I'm cancelling as she won't be travelling as I haven't confirmed."

I often specify that not confirming is not a way to cancel, and  'If you can't make it please let me know ASAP', always interesting when someone says 'Of course I'd always let you know/won't let you down' then does exactly that. Also had that after being promised a deposit, they say they'll do it take details, I ask to let me know if they change their minds (sometimes I've said 'How about you have a think and get back to me?', 'No I'm definite and will do it now/would let you know if I change my mind' to then disappear without trace.

Occasionally they'll try again a few months later, of course something terribly important came up the last time, did you not get my text? Or wasn't able to use my phone.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #26 on: 25 March 2018, 09:59:10 pm »
Nope, not contact from me. They immediately get stored as "ignore" in my phone. I increased the height of my hurdles for clients recently though because I was getting fed up with no shows and general disrespect to my time with late keeping etc. I probably miss out on a lot of genuinely lovely clients through doing this but it means I am not stressed out by no shows any more. And I get to see clients who can perform basic instructions on how to book with me, so the bookings tend to go uphill after that  :D

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #27 on: 26 March 2018, 07:57:23 am »
I shall leave the faq section well alone and just ignore them and not reply when they don't show
.sad fucks getting a kick out of wasting an escorts time  :FF

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #28 on: 26 March 2018, 12:24:10 pm »
All businesses get no shows doctor hairdressers Dentist
Dentist even restaurant booking so i try not to take offence

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #29 on: 26 March 2018, 10:55:50 pm »
I had a guy not even bother cancelling or letting me know today , I'd fallen asleep and luckily set the alarm and leapt up got ready quick .. no call  :FF
I just text booking now cancelled .
What do you tend to say to them
How long do you give b4 cancelling their booking ?

I message to say they are now blacklisted and  then block the number.