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Rosesugar

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What do you message to no shows ?
« on: 21 March 2018, 05:56:23 pm »
I had a guy not even bother cancelling or letting me know today , I'd fallen asleep and luckily set the alarm and leapt up got ready quick .. no call  :FF
I just text booking now cancelled .
What do you tend to say to them
How long do you give b4 cancelling their booking ?

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #1 on: 21 March 2018, 06:03:19 pm »
If they have obviously just not shown up I usually do nothing except block them for future calls etc. Depending on my mood I may text them with some very short and non swearing or abusive message. Telling them they should do something better with their time or something along those lines.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #2 on: 21 March 2018, 06:32:02 pm »
Sometimes they get text: Did you get lost? If no reply i would block them & save number as NO SHOW T**T or something like that then i will send number to my escort friend in case he just booked her or messed her around too.
Sometimes i would text: Thank you for wasting my time. Mostly I don't bother with them. Move on and accept another booking.
I don't have many no shows.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #3 on: 21 March 2018, 06:32:47 pm »
i ignore! i do not spend my phone credit for them even a text. they wasted already my time.
no energy to spend more on them.  ;D

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #4 on: 21 March 2018, 07:22:18 pm »
Phone credit isn't an issue for me because I'm on a contract with unlimited texts, but I agree: they get no more of my energy.

I sometimes will call them at, like, 2 minutes past the time. I'll say "Hey - just wondering if you're finding my location OK." The ONLY acceptable response is "Yeah, I'm just looking for a parking spot." A few have said "I'm just leaving the office" or "I'm stuck in traffic."  UNACCEPTABLE! They knew they were late *before* they were actually late and were too rude to call? Fuck them - I tell them "Unfortunately, it will be too late to start as I have another booking shortly after."

Often, they don't answer at all.

Block as "No Show" and share the number with my friends so they can avoid the timewaster.

But, no - I don't give them the satisfaction of knowing they got to me.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #5 on: 21 March 2018, 07:50:48 pm »

I make them confirm an hour before which wheedles out a lot of the noshowing idiots because they just don't confirm but if I do get one who doesn't appear I usually send out a 'Are you on your way?' if they aren't here 5 mins after start time because I don't want to start doing something else if they are running late.

If no reply after another 5 I text Your booking is now cancelled. And that's it. I don't engage if they come back. If they can't be arsed to tell me they are running late then they are not polite people I want in my flat and who knows what other boundaries they might disrespect. Save them in phone as a No Show. Never speak to ever again.

On occasions, when in a very bad mood I might be really rude- but I don't suggest that at all as a tactic!

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #6 on: 21 March 2018, 09:47:53 pm »
I try not to say anything, particularly if it was a same day booking that didn?t turn up. They obviously did it to get a reaction so I don?t want to give one. This week though I had someone I?d seen once before not turn up. I text at booking time saying ?are you coming today then?? Then got on with Netflix.

45 mins later (it was a 30 min booking) he said oh sorry couldn?t get out of a meeting, can I come now? I?d already left negative feedback as soon as they booking time was over, he said it was harsh he was sorry and reliable (clearly not!) ?I promise I?ll make it up to you, is there no chance we can rearrange?

Any chance he?ll pay me for the missed booking? Nope!!! So no second chance. Literally no excuse for not letting me know

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #7 on: 21 March 2018, 10:03:57 pm »
If a client is late like {15 mins} then i text and say are you near???? if i don't hear then i take the next booking if I hear that hey are in traffic then I wait and tell them to stay in touch after all they may be travelling a while...

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #8 on: 21 March 2018, 10:33:04 pm »
I used to send 'Thanks for the no show.Is it really that difficult to ring or text to cancel?' But then I realised that alot of these guys do it to get a reaction so I don't text at all.I really wouldn't bother giving creeps like this airtime or energy,just make a note of the number so you can avoid them.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #9 on: 21 March 2018, 10:57:58 pm »
On the rare occasion I have a no show I text " you're a sad small man" then save their number under c***.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #10 on: 21 March 2018, 11:01:59 pm »
I have only snapped on two occasions and sent a very rude text. Once was a guy who had previously cancelled but this time booked a week in advance and also messaged me two days before to say how much he was looking forward to meeting. AW booking request and everything, 2 hour booking. On the day not only did he not confirm when I asked, he must have blocked me because I was unable to email him. I mean WHY? I was fucking fuming. So he got a very rude text from me.

The other was a guy who I had cammed with and had previously booked and cancelled twice. Now when he booked this time i never thought he'd go through with it but he didn't even have the courtesy to cancel this time. So he also got a very rude message from me, he was quite drippy and pathetic so I went down the route of shaming him for lost income, very disappointed in him etc etc. He had wasted none of my time because I knew it would never happen but I was so fucked off.

But generally I say nothing! Honestly. This only happened twice. As Rag N Bone man says, we're only human after all. I like to think that both the ones I texted here at least got the point they wasted my time and cost me money, perhaps they'll think twice before they do it again.

Thinking from a different perspective, all the time we keep our gob shut, they will just carry on no showing, maybe not even realising how upset we are and they cost us money.

I don't know. Maybe it's best to remain professional (and I am most of the time) but if they don't get told, they'll never know. I'm sure some do it on purpose but I doubt all of them do, some are probably forgetful, busy etc. I bet some have no clue they have fucked up our day. Maybe we should be telling them.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #11 on: 21 March 2018, 11:57:28 pm »
I just ignore them and save their number. No point expending any energy on them.

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #12 on: 22 March 2018, 05:53:12 am »
I ignore and save their number and then they often book again. I accept the booking but if somebody else asks for their time I double book them with the other guy and prioritise the other guy.

To be honest though that only applies if I?m in an area where I operate the appointment system. These days it?s mostly first come first served for me.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

Rosesugar

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #13 on: 22 March 2018, 06:29:20 am »
I'm not going to bother messaging back they don't really deserve any consideration  and 2nd booking chances . If they did it first time the  likely hood is they will do it again ,I'm not desperate or guliable,

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Re: What do you message to no shows ?
« Reply #14 on: 22 March 2018, 06:56:46 am »
Phone credit isn't an issue for me because I'm on a contract with unlimited texts, but I agree: they get no more of my energy.

I sometimes will call them at, like, 2 minutes past the time. I'll say "Hey - just wondering if you're finding my location OK." The ONLY acceptable response is "Yeah, I'm just looking for a parking spot." A few have said "I'm just leaving the office" or "I'm stuck in traffic."  UNACCEPTABLE! They knew they were late *before* they were actually late and were too rude to call? Fuck them - I tell them "Unfortunately, it will be too late to start as I have another booking shortly after."

Often, they don't answer at all.

Block as "No Show" and share the number with my friends so they can avoid the timewaster.

But, no - I don't give them the satisfaction of knowing they got to me.

I do exactly the same.