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Title: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: sexy eyes on 31 May 2015, 08:42:48 pm
I know I'm new on here but have used it as a guest for a while, so have quite a lot to say.
I was wondering what other escorts like and dislike about there job.
For me obvious is the money i don't enjoy the sex that much, but there are a few i enjoy it with.
I do like satisfying a punter, and gives me a lot of satisfaction when they return.
I also enjoy dressing up for bookings with heels, hold ups and wearing p.v.c.

My dislikes are sitting about in between bookings, time wasters, the phone going for relative questions, especially texts, and hate some of the uniforms i have, especially the schoolgirl 1, as 9 times out of 10 it's usually a old creep that's booking me.

Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Lushblossom on 01 June 2015, 05:52:19 am
If you don't enjoy the uniforms then don't do role play.  Simple.  Only tick the likes and do the activities you actually DO enjoy as life is too short.  That wa the job will be more rewarding and satisfying.

I enjoy the sex, the attention I get, I feel like I am constantly pulling, no management or 9 to 5 trap to be in - and the money is handy.  Some of the punters are really interesting people too.

The main pifalls are the money can be quite variable, it is hard to totally plan although with effort it can work out ok if we set weekly targets/goals and try to achieve providing they are realistic.  I also find the job quite socially isolating but with effort I arrange activities outside of the job to offset the loneliness.  In addition leading a secret life can be a strain at times but a few carefully chosen friends know so that helps no end.

All in all it gives financial independence and freedom from an employee grind which I have had enough of as I lived that way for over 20 years first...!
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Erotic flower on 01 June 2015, 06:49:55 am
The lovely genuine clients and fun I have with them on their bookings.
dressing up role-plays I can really get into that. pvc fetish bookings.
touring new cities. 8)
 as its also been mentioned, the unfortunate side of the job is the timewasters, the quiet days   :-[
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: mature helen on 01 June 2015, 06:55:46 am
The same as the above, I enjoy spending time with the lovely clients but I limit my likes list to offer only what I am happy to do. I echo Lushblossom on life's too short to do things I don't enjoy. Being self employed I like the money and the independence but I not the financial uncertainty.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: carachameleon on 01 June 2015, 08:33:06 am
I love most things about the job. The one bit I hate is regulars messing with my schedule. Thankfully, I don't get much TWs so dealing with them isn't a massive pain. I tend to prioritize regs and make concession for them so when they mess my schedule, I get doubly upset as I may have turned down other bookings to fit them in. And I can't get pissy at them because they've been good business.

There was this one recently who booked an incall slot and after some faffing about, he finally confirmed the night before. To which, I turn downed another booking for him. In the morning of booking, I woke up to find a text saying that there might be a slight possibility he would not be able to make it and that if I had another booking to take it. No sorry was even uttered!!!! It drove me right up the roof and I was really pissed, especially to have started the morning so badly. Nonetheless, I remained reasonable and texted back saying I was disappointed and that he should have told me last night as I had turned a booking down. A few minutes later he said he rearranged his schedule so he could meet. But couldn't he have done it in the first place and saved me the grief. Jeezuz!  :FF :FF :FF

Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: cassiea on 01 June 2015, 10:13:04 am
I'm fairly new to this myself but so far.....


My Likes: Working for myself, not having to sit in an office for endless hours a day....freedom to go out for a walk, into town etc. when I feel like it....although the phone always rings when I do?

Setting my own hours of work and choosing who I see.

Dislikes: Agree with others, timewasters, but my main top dislike above anything is men who turn up and are not clean Yuk, luckily I have only had a couple who were really bad, the last one was so bad I had to say I would not continue the booking. I state very clearly on my profile and when I speak to them that they must be clean but obviously my idea of clean and theirs is very different.

Overall though it is much more positive than negative. So enjoy.x


Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: sexy eyes on 01 June 2015, 10:22:49 am
I give my clients the option of a shower,most don't take one, but are happy to use it afterwards.
So it's okay to go home to there partners smelling fresh but not with me. :FF
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: DustedWithSugar on 01 June 2015, 12:43:39 pm
I give my clients the option of a shower,most don't take one, but are happy to use it afterwards.
So it's okay to go home to there partners smelling fresh but not with me. :FF
if they didn't take shower when I offered there is no fcking way I'll let them shower afterwards  ::)
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: justsophie on 01 June 2015, 03:00:41 pm
I love that I can work the hours I want, when I want and if I want. I've been relatively lucky and the majority of the people I've seen have been lovely and really interesting :-)

I massively dislike people who phone up and ask, "where are you, how much do you charge". I don't know why exactly but in addition to generally being tw's, they also set my radar going off too...
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Nia Hope on 01 June 2015, 03:24:07 pm
I like being self employed and the freedom it gives me, the money is the only reason I do this for a living, I like polite no fuss clients. I dislike the obvious time wasters, abusive guys, isolation and I loathe the false impression the general public have of sex workers, that we are all abused drug addicted victims x
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Nia Hope on 01 June 2015, 03:27:25 pm
I love most things about the job. The one bit I hate is regulars messing with my schedule. Thankfully, I don't get much TWs so dealing with them isn't a massive pain. I tend to prioritize regs and make concession for them so when they mess my schedule, I get doubly upset as I may have turned down other bookings to fit them in. And I can't get pissy at them because they've been good business.

There was this one recently who booked an incall slot and after some faffing about, he finally confirmed the night before. To which, I turn downed another booking for him. In the morning of booking, I woke up to find a text saying that there might be a slight possibility he would not be able to make it and that if I had another booking to take it. No sorry was even uttered!!!! It drove me right up the roof and I was really pissed, especially to have started the morning so badly. Nonetheless, I remained reasonable and texted back saying I was disappointed and that he should have told me last night as I had turned a booking down. A few minutes later he said he rearranged his schedule so he could meet. But couldn't he have done it in the first place and saved me the grief. Jeezuz!  :FF :FF :FF
My advice is never rant at them, as much as they have pissed you off just be cool, I would never ever give a client an inkling that I'm annoyed, I just block and move on, x
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Phoenix on 01 June 2015, 05:06:42 pm
I love that I only need a couple of bookings per week to keep solvent. I HATE the number of TW's that phone me each day. I'm not over keen on the sex-bit either anymore..but I can Act my way through that one-for short spells at least :-\
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: sexy eyes on 01 June 2015, 05:16:33 pm
The other dislike i have is guys wanting a shower, after seeing me but not before.
When they do this i turn the hot water of as it's a cold shower that they get for doing this, and i reply with something like sorry babe but was warm earlier maybe you should have had one when you arrived,
Shower of bastards.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Nia Hope on 01 June 2015, 05:20:42 pm
The other dislike i have is guys wanting a shower, after seeing me but not before.
When they do this i turn the hot water of as it's a cold shower that they get for doing this, and i reply with something like sorry babe but was warm earlier maybe you should have had one when you arrived,
Shower of bastards.
hilarious!
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: DustedWithSugar on 01 June 2015, 07:02:16 pm
The other dislike i have is guys wanting a shower, after seeing me but not before.
When they do this i turn the hot water of as it's a cold shower that they get for doing this, and i reply with something like sorry babe but was warm earlier maybe you should have had one when you arrived,
Shower of bastards.
;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Alessandra A on 01 June 2015, 08:01:43 pm
The money is what motivates me, but I also love getting sweet clients, the attention is nice too - always getting compliments.
What I dislike is the guys who are a lot of work and needs lots of attention, like going at it for a full hour straight, that's exhausting I usually need a nap after hah!
Aggressive guys, pushy ones who push you to do things you don't want too, and smelly who refuses shower.
But all in all, I enjoy my job
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: sexy eyes on 01 June 2015, 08:11:17 pm
It's better than a 9 till 5 job sat in a office, seen some girls on here say that they choose the hours they work.
With me it doesn't quite work like that as if i get a call at 9 pm and I'm still half presentable ,I'm not gonna knock back 100 quid for what can be piss easy money, if I'm awake and around i will take a booking.
Usually the guys that arrive late have been home for a shower, and are better turned out than a 5 pm booking, or have seen some guys before there about to start a night shift.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: VioletteUK on 01 June 2015, 08:29:43 pm
What I i love about this job, is the money. Not just the money, but the cash! Cool, hard cash in hand, nothing beats the feeling of caressing those sweet notes. And lord don't let me get a ?50 note, I swear I have climaxed on the spot.  ;) I like the variety of clients that walk through my door, they cover all races and cultures. I love the fascinating conversations with strangers naked on the bed after sex. Just brilliant. I love the jetting about the globe living out of suitcases in various hotel rooms. I love hotel rooms, it means I don't have to clean up, fresh linen and bedding. Yummy! I love playing god on my phone, when some twat annoys me and I block them. I swear I hear lightening and thunder crack.

Annoyances, airport security, delayed flights, clients who don't read a profile, TW-first come first served, unless they came to see me before then they can get a set appointment.(Depends on the market), but my biggest annoyance of all is boredom! God I hate being bored and I hate boring clients.

I am a dedicated ho and haven't any plans to hang up my knickers anytime soon. I have finally hit my stride, ticking over nicely with a steady income stream, best job ever.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: sexy eyes on 01 June 2015, 08:37:15 pm
And lord don't let me get a ?50 note, I swear I have climaxed on the spot.  ;)

You should tour Scotland, as there's ?100 pound notes there, your pussy will be soaking to see one of them  ;D ;D ; ;D




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Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: sherbet_dab on 01 June 2015, 08:44:52 pm
Likes - the independence, getting to meet interesting people, the compliments etc.

Dislikes - the timewasters and the ar**holes!!!!!!  Fortunately there aren't too many of the latter that slip through the net, but as for the timewasters?  Jesus.  Them and the unpredictability of income are the only real things I dislike.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: sexy eyes on 01 June 2015, 08:51:41 pm
I don't see that many arseholes that often probably about 1 a fortnight, but get plenty of time wasters, which lass doesn't.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: VioletteUK on 01 June 2015, 08:52:27 pm
And lord don't let me get a ?50 note, I swear I have climaxed on the spot.  ;)

You should tour Scotland, as there's ?100 pound notes there, your pussy will be soaking to see one of them  ;D ;D ; ;D




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Yes! And Northern Ireland has them too. But my favourite note at the moment is the $1000 Singapore bank note! Lord I do come undone by these.  ;D
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: sexy eyes on 01 June 2015, 10:06:13 pm
Not to keen to work in Ireland, and don't fancy taking my work abroad with me, as we all need a rest now and again.
I like to come back from abroad fresh from my holiday, not shagged out.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Fabulassie on 02 June 2015, 08:05:29 am
I give my clients the option of a shower,most don't take one, but are happy to use it afterwards.
So it's okay to go home to there partners smelling fresh but not with me. :FF
if they didn't take shower when I offered there is no fcking way I'll let them shower afterwards  ::)

I'm tempted to do this, too. To say, "Oh, I'm sorry you can't... you don't have a towel." "You don't have any towels?" "I do, but you didn't want one when  you arrived so now you don't have one."
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Fabulassie on 02 June 2015, 08:07:23 am
And lord don't let me get a ?50 note, I swear I have climaxed on the spot.  ;)

You should tour Scotland, as there's ?100 pound notes there, your pussy will be soaking to see one of them  ;D ;D ; ;D

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Do you tour Scotland or work there often? I'm curious about Glasgow...
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: sexy eyes on 02 June 2015, 08:25:39 am
I give my clients the option of a shower,most don't take one, but are happy to use it afterwards.
So it's okay to go home to there partners smelling fresh but not with me. :FF
if they didn't take shower when I offered there is no fcking way I'll let them shower afterwards  ::)

I'm tempted to do this, too. To say, "Oh, I'm sorry you can't... you don't have a towel." "You don't have any towels?" "I do, but you didn't want one when  you arrived so now you don't have one."
The boiler I have can turn in to cold water very quick, and can be funny hearing a guy scream when it goes cold.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: VioletteUK on 02 June 2015, 01:14:31 pm
And lord don't let me get a ?50 note, I swear I have climaxed on the spot.  ;)

You should tour Scotland, as there's ?100 pound notes there, your pussy will be soaking to see one of them  ;D ;D ; ;D

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Do you tour Scotland or work there often? I'm curious about Glasgow...
I have off and on, my biggest problem with Glasgow is I still after years of visiting there, can't understand they are saying. That is one accent I still haven't mastered. I generally stay city center.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: BBW Joi Parker on 02 June 2015, 08:28:08 pm
Likes: $, sex, meeting new people, being introduced to new ideas/things/places no matter how perverse/taboo they are

dislikes: the risk, bad clients, isolation (even if you have friends you can sometimes have problems asking for advice..I mean who would you call to day work was bad today? Even if you can call on them NOW will you be able to forever?! Will they get mad and use your secret against you...?)
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: fifilondon on 08 June 2015, 07:59:06 pm
likes: money, freedom, good sex, getting dressed up, being able to treat family/friends to lovely things, deciding which days i work, not being stuck in an office, occasional presents from clients, seeing new places and hotels, having time to read/write, go on hols whenever i like

dislikes: bad sex, loneliness/isolation, not being able to have a normal relationship right now, when work is dead, lying to close friends/family
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: scarlettxbx on 09 June 2015, 02:54:25 pm
I am echoing what other have already said, likes; money, freedom, independence, the ability to volunteer, go to college, learn new skills without having to get the 'OK' from a boss

Dislikes; TW, guys who don't read my profile, unclean guys  :-X
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: SelenaLondon on 09 June 2015, 08:59:23 pm
Like: money, outcalls

dislike:everything else.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Lizzie-B on 09 June 2015, 09:41:35 pm
I love the money and meeting guys with some strange fantasies (as long as its safe). I dislike how unpredictable this job can be.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: DustedWithSugar on 10 June 2015, 12:05:36 am
I like money, feeling confident and the fact that I can stay in bed until noon if I want to
I dislike some clients, doing same stuff over again, I hate saliva and rest of body fluids and the fact that I have to be nice and listen to fantasy stories.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Lushblossom on 13 June 2015, 07:20:13 am
I love the independence and it boosts our morale to receive compliments about our looks, skin, figure etc.  It also inspires me to keep on top of my figure and looks and not let myself go.  I have enough money to eat quite well and buy clothes both for the work itself and also for when I socialise.

The main snag for me is nobody to speak to i.e. it can be rather isolating.  However to offset this gloom I keep busy with spiritual interests and piano playing and reading poetry etc.  Hobbies keep us sane I think! :)

Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: sultress000 on 13 June 2015, 10:20:03 am
If you don't enjoy the uniforms then don't do role play.  Simple.  Only tick the likes and do the activities you actually DO enjoy as life is too short.  That wa the job will be more rewarding and satisfying.

I enjoy the sex, the attention I get, I feel like I am constantly pulling, no management or 9 to 5 trap to be in - and the money is handy.  Some of the punters are really interesting people too.

The main pifalls are the money can be quite variable, it is hard to totally plan although with effort it can work out ok if we set weekly targets/goals and try to achieve providing they are realistic.  I also find the job quite socially isolating but with effort I arrange activities outside of the job to offset the loneliness.  In addition leading a secret life can be a strain at times but a few carefully chosen friends know so that helps no end.

All in all it gives financial independence and freedom from an employee grind which I have had enough of as I lived that way for over 20 years first...!
Loved this post, completely agree x
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Lushblossom on 14 June 2015, 05:43:47 am
No paid annual leave is a big drawback as I feel I am constantly working.  Even if I have the odd day off here and there I still feel I am hard at it.

Then again I rarely do more than one meet a day to start with.  I am not good with pressure so I am not able to do too many at once or I easily get sapped and then I can't do any! :(

I like to pace it.

I have to say though if there was one thing I could change it would be to receive payment for time off.  Naturally this is impossible  however .....
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: tvhappiness on 14 June 2015, 11:02:15 am
I like the money, sex and interesting guys. Someimtes it nice to see how different guys have different techniques lol

I hate the waiting, tw's or trying to figure out if the neighbours or hotel know something is going on x
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Mirror on 14 June 2015, 05:37:13 pm
Like: Independence (financial and working hours), wearing lingerie  ;D
Dislike: Safety, lack of access to some financial products/insurances, no sick pay, game players ::)
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Erotic flower on 15 June 2015, 08:13:55 am
the fact that if I don't work I will be really struggling financially  :'(
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: LAC-xox on 15 June 2015, 06:35:07 pm
Like- financial freedom, own boss and all that jazz, also I work with my girlfriend so if we are having a dry patch sexually because of work/uni we see eachother naked in duo bookings and it re ignites the flame!


Dislike- trying to hide what I do from my uni friends. And tbh, the sex side of stuff. I'm not saying I find it disgusting or awful, it just does not give me any genuine excitement. Which has answered a question that has bugged me for years... Am I bisexual or fully gay? If escorting has taught me anything it is that Im more lesbian than the entire cast of orange is the new black  :D
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: KittenCandy on 14 July 2015, 12:33:19 am
Like: money, outcalls

dislike:everything else.

lol same
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: Emma_C on 14 July 2015, 11:23:03 am
Likes, Cash, meeting new people & having open conversations, bit of a buzz having sex with strangers especially when they are hot. The ego massage from compliments, meeting genuinely nice appreciative guys, feeling empowered, outcalls- looking around people's homes for style inspiration, driving through the countryside, wearing heels, making people laugh. Being able to pick up & drop at any time, Longest running profession ? no 0hour contracts/redundancy.

Dislikes; men in general, idiots, no shows & last minute cancellations, dirty homes/clients, boundary pushers, bad sex, isolation/loneliness, feeling judged & looked down upon by society & some narc clients, incalls-feeling like a conveyor belt and sitting around waiting for people. Being expected to jump when they click their fingers, feeling like I'm working in a call centre for perverts who want free sex chat.
Title: Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
Post by: LouDelightful on 23 July 2015, 10:14:38 am
Likes:

I love socialising with my regulars ( i don't get out much secret service  life lol )
Obv Cash
Flexibility to focus on other things
Busy Days


Dislikes:

Timewasters
Quite days
Clients with no mannors