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What do you like and dislike about your job
« on: 31 May 2015, 08:42:48 pm »
I know I'm new on here but have used it as a guest for a while, so have quite a lot to say.
I was wondering what other escorts like and dislike about there job.
For me obvious is the money i don't enjoy the sex that much, but there are a few i enjoy it with.
I do like satisfying a punter, and gives me a lot of satisfaction when they return.
I also enjoy dressing up for bookings with heels, hold ups and wearing p.v.c.

My dislikes are sitting about in between bookings, time wasters, the phone going for relative questions, especially texts, and hate some of the uniforms i have, especially the schoolgirl 1, as 9 times out of 10 it's usually a old creep that's booking me.

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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #1 on: 01 June 2015, 05:52:19 am »
If you don't enjoy the uniforms then don't do role play.  Simple.  Only tick the likes and do the activities you actually DO enjoy as life is too short.  That wa the job will be more rewarding and satisfying.

I enjoy the sex, the attention I get, I feel like I am constantly pulling, no management or 9 to 5 trap to be in - and the money is handy.  Some of the punters are really interesting people too.

The main pifalls are the money can be quite variable, it is hard to totally plan although with effort it can work out ok if we set weekly targets/goals and try to achieve providing they are realistic.  I also find the job quite socially isolating but with effort I arrange activities outside of the job to offset the loneliness.  In addition leading a secret life can be a strain at times but a few carefully chosen friends know so that helps no end.

All in all it gives financial independence and freedom from an employee grind which I have had enough of as I lived that way for over 20 years first...!

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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #2 on: 01 June 2015, 06:49:55 am »
The lovely genuine clients and fun I have with them on their bookings.
dressing up role-plays I can really get into that. pvc fetish bookings.
touring new cities. 8)
 as its also been mentioned, the unfortunate side of the job is the timewasters, the quiet days   :-[

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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #3 on: 01 June 2015, 06:55:46 am »
The same as the above, I enjoy spending time with the lovely clients but I limit my likes list to offer only what I am happy to do. I echo Lushblossom on life's too short to do things I don't enjoy. Being self employed I like the money and the independence but I not the financial uncertainty.

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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #4 on: 01 June 2015, 08:33:06 am »
I love most things about the job. The one bit I hate is regulars messing with my schedule. Thankfully, I don't get much TWs so dealing with them isn't a massive pain. I tend to prioritize regs and make concession for them so when they mess my schedule, I get doubly upset as I may have turned down other bookings to fit them in. And I can't get pissy at them because they've been good business.

There was this one recently who booked an incall slot and after some faffing about, he finally confirmed the night before. To which, I turn downed another booking for him. In the morning of booking, I woke up to find a text saying that there might be a slight possibility he would not be able to make it and that if I had another booking to take it. No sorry was even uttered!!!! It drove me right up the roof and I was really pissed, especially to have started the morning so badly. Nonetheless, I remained reasonable and texted back saying I was disappointed and that he should have told me last night as I had turned a booking down. A few minutes later he said he rearranged his schedule so he could meet. But couldn't he have done it in the first place and saved me the grief. Jeezuz!  :FF :FF :FF


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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #5 on: 01 June 2015, 10:13:04 am »
I'm fairly new to this myself but so far.....


My Likes: Working for myself, not having to sit in an office for endless hours a day....freedom to go out for a walk, into town etc. when I feel like it....although the phone always rings when I do?

Setting my own hours of work and choosing who I see.

Dislikes: Agree with others, timewasters, but my main top dislike above anything is men who turn up and are not clean Yuk, luckily I have only had a couple who were really bad, the last one was so bad I had to say I would not continue the booking. I state very clearly on my profile and when I speak to them that they must be clean but obviously my idea of clean and theirs is very different.

Overall though it is much more positive than negative. So enjoy.x



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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #6 on: 01 June 2015, 10:22:49 am »
I give my clients the option of a shower,most don't take one, but are happy to use it afterwards.
So it's okay to go home to there partners smelling fresh but not with me. :FF
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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #7 on: 01 June 2015, 12:43:39 pm »
I give my clients the option of a shower,most don't take one, but are happy to use it afterwards.
So it's okay to go home to there partners smelling fresh but not with me. :FF
if they didn't take shower when I offered there is no fcking way I'll let them shower afterwards  ::)

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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #8 on: 01 June 2015, 03:00:41 pm »
I love that I can work the hours I want, when I want and if I want. I've been relatively lucky and the majority of the people I've seen have been lovely and really interesting :-)

I massively dislike people who phone up and ask, "where are you, how much do you charge". I don't know why exactly but in addition to generally being tw's, they also set my radar going off too...

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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #9 on: 01 June 2015, 03:24:07 pm »
I like being self employed and the freedom it gives me, the money is the only reason I do this for a living, I like polite no fuss clients. I dislike the obvious time wasters, abusive guys, isolation and I loathe the false impression the general public have of sex workers, that we are all abused drug addicted victims x
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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #10 on: 01 June 2015, 03:27:25 pm »
I love most things about the job. The one bit I hate is regulars messing with my schedule. Thankfully, I don't get much TWs so dealing with them isn't a massive pain. I tend to prioritize regs and make concession for them so when they mess my schedule, I get doubly upset as I may have turned down other bookings to fit them in. And I can't get pissy at them because they've been good business.

There was this one recently who booked an incall slot and after some faffing about, he finally confirmed the night before. To which, I turn downed another booking for him. In the morning of booking, I woke up to find a text saying that there might be a slight possibility he would not be able to make it and that if I had another booking to take it. No sorry was even uttered!!!! It drove me right up the roof and I was really pissed, especially to have started the morning so badly. Nonetheless, I remained reasonable and texted back saying I was disappointed and that he should have told me last night as I had turned a booking down. A few minutes later he said he rearranged his schedule so he could meet. But couldn't he have done it in the first place and saved me the grief. Jeezuz!  :FF :FF :FF
My advice is never rant at them, as much as they have pissed you off just be cool, I would never ever give a client an inkling that I'm annoyed, I just block and move on, x
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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #11 on: 01 June 2015, 05:06:42 pm »
I love that I only need a couple of bookings per week to keep solvent. I HATE the number of TW's that phone me each day. I'm not over keen on the sex-bit either anymore..but I can Act my way through that one-for short spells at least :-\

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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #12 on: 01 June 2015, 05:16:33 pm »
The other dislike i have is guys wanting a shower, after seeing me but not before.
When they do this i turn the hot water of as it's a cold shower that they get for doing this, and i reply with something like sorry babe but was warm earlier maybe you should have had one when you arrived,
Shower of bastards.
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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #13 on: 01 June 2015, 05:20:42 pm »
The other dislike i have is guys wanting a shower, after seeing me but not before.
When they do this i turn the hot water of as it's a cold shower that they get for doing this, and i reply with something like sorry babe but was warm earlier maybe you should have had one when you arrived,
Shower of bastards.
hilarious!
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Re: What do you like and dislike about your job
« Reply #14 on: 01 June 2015, 07:02:16 pm »
The other dislike i have is guys wanting a shower, after seeing me but not before.
When they do this i turn the hot water of as it's a cold shower that they get for doing this, and i reply with something like sorry babe but was warm earlier maybe you should have had one when you arrived,
Shower of bastards.
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