Interesting question..

I have learned that escorting is not a golden mine 

Before I started I had this very naive and stereotypical idea that I will be flowing in cash.

Quickly I found out that even this CAN be a profitable job, don't take me wrong; but reality is far far away from my pre-escorting hopes and conceptions.

I've learnt that men don't like rejection at all, whether it is from an escort or a random girl.
I've let many many clients down gently either because they don't for my requirements or because their feedback is iffy or I have a bad feeling and I would say a good 60-70% of the time I get a bitter email back something along the lines of "Bitch" or "Your a hooker you don't have a choice" or an offensive racist term.

This isn't just in escorting though just yesterday a guy tried chatting me up through FB inbox and I didn't fancy him at all I'm also very happily single and I said very nicely "thanks for the lovely compliment but I'm not interested in going on dates with anyone right now I'm happy single have a good night"

The reply I got back was disgusting so shocking I laughed that anyone could be that cruel because they got rejected. The reply consisted of insulting my race calling me every name under the sun and wishing AIDS on me lol! So I've learnt men do not like rejection and now when I let someone down I block them soon after to save the abuse!!!

I've learnt that there's many more "weird" out that than I could have possibly ever imagined.

Where to start - lol

I think the most surprising thing is just how much men want and depend on sex, even when they get older. Also how many of them prefer sex with an escort instead of with their partner. It's not only the ones that aren't getting it at home. That was a surprise, and it took me a long while to understand why.

That's interesting. 95% of my married clients have a very unfulfillling sex life at home. I believe I've only heard: "I have a great sex life with my wife" ONCE in my 17 year career.

That the feedback on AW is complete BS. Feedback  just indicates the likelihood of whether the person will show up.

I used to feel sorry for old men and since being an escort,  I don't.
I honestly believed prior to being in this industry that the older gents around 60+ would be the easiest to entertain but in my experience, anyone past the age of 60 has proved problematic.

I never realised how many submissive men are around, and how many love being shagged up the arse with a strap on!! I'd never heard of straight men having that done to them before I started escorting, I'd average around a third of the clients I see want that in some form or another.  I'd also never heard of rimming until I became an escort.

Or hardsports!!! wtf!


And I certainly didn't lead a sheltered life, I've always been very sexually active, but mostly it was guys wanting to just feel me up, tits, fanny and shag me, the odd blow job here and there, 3 somes now and then, watersports was a very kinky thing to do, now its mainstream (excuse pun lol)  etc,  Maybe its not escorting though that's brought about all these 'weird' things, I think things have just moved on with all the extreme porn easily available, and because we work as escorts, these guys seem to think that we're all porn stars!