Author Topic: What's the most difficult about being a prostitute? (Read 14688 times)

TheLittleMatchGirl · « **Reply #60 on:** 19 March 2015, 12:33:40 pm »

Quote from: Shewolf on 22 February 2015, 01:20:38 pm

'The modern age makes everything confusing,there was a time when men wanted a shag to unload, unfortunately now men seem to want more than just a shag, they want emotional involvement, which is not something that I am happy to provide, even though they are married they are looking for more, even a relationship. to me this is all wrong and i have nothing to do with it'

Hiya, yes I agree, there are a lot of married men now who want a mistress on the side. They do not want to pay for the privilege, however. No, they want her to be in love with them and end up in complete psychological trauma instead due to the cruel nature of the situation. As long as they are adored, they don't give a shit. Men like that are the worst kind of man. Well, they are one of the worst there are plenty more 'types' haha. Being a prostitute, I feel, is a way forward from being trapped in emotional messes with men like that. It is taking control of being used and saying, OK you can use me but in a business sense. You pay for the privilege.

I'm with you on that one. Though I've learnt that even if we don't get it, there are women out there who don't feel this way. All down to experience and perception I guess

Hard Candy · « **Reply #61 on:** 13 April 2015, 09:37:23 pm »

Some absolute tosser lost me a local part time day job a couple of years ago by anonymously informing my bosses of what I did along with posting through my pics and full profile. That was mortifying. I'd only been there six weeks and had two interviews to get it too! The pure evilness of people astounds me n was two months before Xmas so I was really struggling. Just awful. I wondered also if I'd seen the person who did it in a booking before or since. A horrid feeling.

Siorse · « **Reply #62 on:** 14 April 2015, 04:45:47 pm »

Putting on a smile and a cheery face when you feel shit, kiddin on you're horny when the last thing you want to do is have sex with a guy
you don't fancy..

Hard Candy · « **Reply #63 on:** 14 April 2015, 04:50:45 pm »

Yep, having sex when you're not in the mood n just want to chill out alone n not see anyone at all.

Naked Chef · « **Reply #64 on:** 17 April 2015, 01:27:08 am »

For me it's definitely keeping it secret from my family. And having to hide my new purchases from a mother who likes to snoop around my flat.
"Ohhhh that's a nice bag, when did you buy that?"
"You seem to be buying a lot of lovely things in sales, how come I can never find anything in sales?"
"Where are you getting all this money from?"
"Online marketing?? I didn't realise you could make so much money from that"

I am seriously running out of lies now.

Shewolf · « **Reply #65 on:** 17 April 2015, 01:52:15 pm »

Quote from: chloinnyc on 19 March 2015, 01:37:17 am

The most difficult thing for me is feeling lonely and incredibly isolated, as many others have already said. I just don't connect to people anymore, and to be honest I always had problems making connections and feeling like I fit in, so this line of work has made me even more of a loner and recluse. It's very odd to be adored and complimented and worshipped all day but go to bed and wake up alone. I'm fine with it but I don't think it's healthy. It's also hard feeling like I can't ever be 100% myself or show anyone who I truly am (it's illegal where I am) but again I made peace with this a few months in and decided everything I stood to gain was worth not having deep relationships, at least for a while.

Aside from that I love most aspects of the job including dressing up, playing a role and entertaining men on a superficial level. I have never been happier and I feel in control of my finances and future for the first time. I feel empowered after almost every encounter with a client, and the ones that annoy me leave and I still get their money, so it's easy to move past it. The thing that bothers me the most is the horrible sloppy kissers/face lickers. But I'll take them over answering phones and staring at a computer screen for 10 hours a day for pennies any day.

I found your post interesting as I totally agree with it all, that's how I feel. It would help to have a boyfriend, I think. Somebody to act as a reality barometer xx somebody who genuinely cares about you

carachameleon · « **Reply #66 on:** 20 April 2015, 12:41:00 pm »

Wondering if a man could ever love me despite/for what I do. I enjoy being a WG and I have no regrets. I think men can love prostitutes but being in a relationship with one is a whole different matter.

Also, I think that because of escorting, if I were to be in a relationship, I'd become a far more high-maintenance girlfriend which worries me. Being adored and complimented by men on a frequent basis, it'd be hard for a normal guy to match up. And because I know the type of deceit men are capable of, I would be paranoid if he was lying to me. I don't care if he sees a prozzy but I value and demand emotional loyalty. I've (half?) jokingly said that I will require passwords and access to his phone/emails/laptops etc. And that's not the kind of person I want to be.

The money bit is getting a little tricky too as some of my friends have been wondering why I still am able to live comfortably without seemingly having a job. I fob them off by saying I have savings from when I had a day job but soon enough, they might twig.

Siorse · « **Reply #67 on:** 20 April 2015, 12:59:36 pm »

Quote from: Shewolf on 17 April 2015, 01:52:15 pm

Quote from: chloinnyc on 19 March 2015, 01:37:17 am
The most difficult thing for me is feeling lonely and incredibly isolated, as many others have already said. I just don't connect to people anymore, and to be honest I always had problems making connections and feeling like I fit in, so this line of work has made me even more of a loner and recluse. It's very odd to be adored and complimented and worshipped all day but go to bed and wake up alone. I'm fine with it but I don't think it's healthy. It's also hard feeling like I can't ever be 100% myself or show anyone who I truly am (it's illegal where I am) but again I made peace with this a few months in and decided everything I stood to gain was worth not having deep relationships, at least for a while.

Aside from that I love most aspects of the job including dressing up, playing a role and entertaining men on a superficial level. I have never been happier and I feel in control of my finances and future for the first time. I feel empowered after almost every encounter with a client, and the ones that annoy me leave and I still get their money, so it's easy to move past it. The thing that bothers me the most is the horrible sloppy kissers/face lickers. But I'll take them over answering phones and staring at a computer screen for 10 hours a day for pennies any day.

+1 Isolation and loneliness..

I found your post interesting as I totally agree with it all, that's how I feel. It would help to have a boyfriend, I think. Somebody to act as a reality barometer xx somebody who genuinely cares about you

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