A preview from my blog: I've been a bad boy tonight....I was a bit horny because it was a slow day today, no clients. So a guy who had messaged me on the hookup/escort site asked to meet up despite my having an escort ad.

I intially asked him why he was messaging me as he seemed a bit young (28) and that whether he was interested in atleast a massage or something. He said he just wanted to have fun. I agreed, but when he showed up I wasn't THAT attracted to him. Right before things began to heat up...I could not get the thought out of my head telling me "this isn't right. You're giving up for free what other guys on THE SAME SITE have to pay for, even when there may be an attraction there. In addition, the guy KNOWS you're an escort and isn't going to pay you anything afterward. And even moreso, you are in a 4 star hotel supposed to be working as you've got lodging bills everyday that need to be paid, and you're around here messing around for free? What the hell is wrong with me!"

So eventually, I broke down and told him that its unfair to myself and others on the site for you to message my escort ad and get a free service. I have a personal ad, but I wasn't on there tonight. For you to message my escort ad and disregard the fact that Im an escort is HIGHLY unprofessional and makes me feel like a fool. Get the HELL OUT MY HOTEL ROOM MOTHER F***** (ok I didn't say exactly that, but came close enough.

He then had the audacity to say, "you should of told me before I wasted my gas and time." I said, "well you wasting my damn time by not coming in here with money, get your f*cking ass out my hotel room 

Joey, you reap what you sow. If you expect telepathy, you will be disappointed. And why on earth would you put two ads on the same site? Pay or maybe don't pay? Duh?

correction: I do not have my personal ad running in the same city. Its currently down at the moment while Im on tour. I was saying WHEN I DO have my personal ad up and running, thats when Im more likely looking for something casual.

I only have 1 ad up and running on the site which is my escort ad. It wasn't telepathy. He knew I was an escort. But my feelings changed once we were getting into it.

Its happened to me before too, Im sure it'll happen again. Thats just the price you pay when hooking up with someone for cheap, casual sex. And to 'try it on' with an escort is just asking for trouble. He couldn't even acknowledge the fact that Im up for pay. Why the hell does someone think they can message my ad saying $$$ ESCORT $$$ and expect to get a free shag?

Er, J, do you use the same pictures for the personal as you do the work?

No...in fact, I dont even show my face on my escort ad. I have not used the personal ad in the cities I've toured on. This guy was just trying to take his chances and get a freebie. Which is disrespectful. Nevermind the fact that Im advertising, because Im not being taken seriously enough.

Agreed, Danielle. Why the feck you need to have a personal ad I will never know. Cherry pick your clients, hotties with a cock and a wallet come along from time to time.

But the point is you were complaining he had the cheek to ask and then moan at you when you told him to leave.
You cant complain if you chose to do it. Ok you changed your mind as you didnt fancy him but that does not mean you have the right to complain about him expecting a freebie when you agreed to it.

Maybe it is just me or my age or something but I really dont understand you at all

After all, why have sex with men who don't truly care about you as a person through thick and thin for free when you can have sex with men who don't care about you for money?

Exactly! You hit it right on the nail..

The devil should I care about 'etiquette' for? This guy basically just wanted to get fucked and leave. Its ok for clients to not give a shit because they are paying. They are paying to not have to hear about our money issues (makes sense, huh LOL).

But the point is you were complaining he had the cheek to ask and then moan at you when you told him to leave.

I can complain, why not? I would have been willing to do more even if he offered $60 for a massage. How stupid would I have felt to end up with nothing? Again, I didnt find him that attractive, was I supposed to have sex with him regardless ON TOP of the fact that he wasn't paying me? Hell....the mother fucker LOOKED like a client.

My escort sense was picking up that he has paid for sex before, but was trying to get it from me for free. Thus, immediately turning me off and consequently terminatiing the session.

No, you're supposed to say 'sorry, I don't fancy you'. Without '.. but if you pay me, I'd do you' added.

Well I know his cheap ass wouldn't of paid. He should have said, "well sorry, but I have $50 on me"....then maybe I'd be willing to go forward with it.

Like the time a guy came over...I made him buy wine on the way to my place, and then when he found out I did massages, he went to the ATM, came back to my place...I gave him a massage and then we did it...