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Fallingstar

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Well ive never had this one before
« on: 28 July 2009, 07:38:40 pm »
Went to an hours outcall at clients hotel yesterday (he booked through agency)
He had said an hour but might extend to one. I asked for the money when i got there and was told by him that  he hadn't committed to a time yet! i suggested that he pay me for first hour and when that time was up we would take it from there (cue strange looks from client who was staring at me like i had just beamed down from planet Vulcan :))
He then asked me if i would like a drink (3 wine bottles on bedside table) i said just a very small glass of wine please as it was only 2pm in afternoon (cue more odd looks,verging on utter confusion)

Next question,would i like a line? I played dumb and asked 'a line of what?' he said coke. I explained that i didn't take drugs and would prefer it if he didn't either when i was in his company (now the confused expression turned into complete incomprehension,eyebrows waggling like 2 caterpillars on a trampoline)

He then asked why i didn't take drugs? all the escorts he has booked before have apparently been over the moon to get totally off their trolleys with him. I explained that i like to be in full control of my faculties whilst working and consider getting hammered unprofessional (i then had to catch his jaw as it dropped to floor and rolled across the room)

So at the end of 20 minutes he asked me to leave. Apparently he just 'cant relax and have a good time' if he isn't taking drugs and drinking with the girl he has booked :o

But hey at least i got paid for the hour eh ? Anyone else had an experience like this,it just struck me that if a man wants you to be out of control when on a booking then theres a reason for it and he should be avoided like a dose of the clap.

Fallingstar

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #1 on: 28 July 2009, 07:41:24 pm »
Or might extend to 2 i should have said,its been a long day!

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #2 on: 28 July 2009, 08:17:10 pm »
The closest thing to that I have had happen to me was when I offered a glass of wine to a client and he accepted, then told me after he drunk it that he never drinks and that was the first time he had ever had wine. He was completly snookered after the one glass and wanted to stay for another hour. I just said that I had to go out as I had uni (I am not a student its just a line I use) and sent him on his way.

imho I don't like being around guys at all who have had a drink or drugs because a normal, nice guy can turn if he is intoxicated or just be a plain pain in the bum.

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #3 on: 28 July 2009, 10:28:33 pm »
I know this must have been a tough for you, but I rolling on the floor, with your descriptions. But I can understand your discomfort with a gentlemen using drugs. I think I am one of a few ladies who actually like the "crack-heads" as I call them. I am very use to them for the Amsterdam window scene. I kid you not, if I turned away gentlemen on a Saturday who had a wee bit of the white powder up their nose, I would have gone home with no money! If one came in who wasn't stoned on something, I was worried! basically, those that are getting high, like company, and there is a way to fake this, and make loads of money doing it. It is all about perception.

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #4 on: 28 July 2009, 11:09:01 pm »
In my experience, cocaine use can become a serious problem at an agency, whether among girls or clients.  I left an agency because of the wide usage of cocaine amongst the girls and the clients.  I got very bored of explaining to clients that I was not a "pharmacist" , and very very very sick of being expected to work for drugs in lieu of cash.  The agent always was very supportive of my refusal to deal with these cokeheads, and were generally very very very nice people to work for, but I couldn't afford to damage my reputation.  If this happens again, I'd devise an exit strategy.
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Fallingstar

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #5 on: 28 July 2009, 11:39:38 pm »
I know this must have been a tough for you, but I rolling on the floor, with your descriptions

Honestly Violette if you could have seen his face! If i had possessed a camera i would have taken a picture to record it for posterity.

Cocaine and excessive drinking seems to be getting quite widespread at my agency,especially amongst the younger girls (late teens,early twenties) sometimes i will be working incall with a girl watching her sink a bottle of wine and getting progressively drunker. I worry for them,one day somebody will get a bad client in and something very unpleasant will happen.
Honestly i feel like the mother sometimes (at the grand age of 30) I'm always trying to tell them not to be smashed when working because of the dangers involved. Plus i worry that if something does go wrong i will be called upon to deal with it cos I'm the more mature lady.
Ultimately i feel that they need to alter their state of mind to deal with the work and it concerns me what effect this is going to have on such young girls in later years.

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #6 on: 28 July 2009, 11:46:49 pm »
i totally agree with you colette and also they can't understand why you dont want to drink or have some thing else with them

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #7 on: 28 July 2009, 11:53:22 pm »
i totally agree with you colette and also they can't understand why you dont want to drink or have some thing else with them

KAT

Got it in one Kat,im considered a bit of a novelty i think because i wont indulge in such things when working.

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #8 on: 28 July 2009, 11:57:06 pm »

Got it in one Kat,im considered a bit of a novelty i think because i wont indulge in such things when working.

same here but i take this as any other job and if you worked any other job and did that you would be fired
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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #9 on: 29 July 2009, 06:29:31 am »
Kat and Colette you are bang on with treating this like any other job, and maintaining a professional demeanor. I can't tell you how many clients I have gone out to dinner with in the beginning who would get upset because I didn't drink, or refused a line, until some more mature ladies took me in line and showed me a few tricks, The Drinking But Not Drinking Trick. Have the client pour the first glass of wine, toast and pretend to take a sip, pretend to take periodic sips. Even hold the wine in your hand as you talk, this prevents the waiters from coming up and pouring. Keep an eye on the clients glass, as it gets lower, you start to pour the wine, the man likes it, as he is being served by a beautiful woman and pretty much from that point you have control of the bottle. I try to stop them from ordering another one, as I find drunk guys more difficult to handle than the coked up ones.
The coke heads, are a different story all together, cocaine is the one drug I find turns perfectly nice men into egotistical, narcissistic jackasses! Their dicks become bigger, they are the best lover, and they can screw all night. Of course none of this is true, it is the drug unlocking the Mr. Hyde side of the personality. My favorite technique I use for the cokeheads, is distraction. Whenever I am offered a line by a client, I don't accept it, nor do I decline it, I just give them something else to focus on.
But as I have learned in escorting, drugs are an unfortunate part of the scene. It is something you learn to get use to quite quickly.Working in Amsterdam has taught me how to deal with all manner of drug users, from guys on Weed/Hash, Estacy, Mbma, Coke, Crack and Alcohol, and OMG, let's not get started on the various cocktails people  will invent using all of the above and some over the counter prescription stuff as well.  :o
Funny story, when I was working for an agency in the beginning, we had a guy who would call up and order several ladies at a time, and the girl on the phone would tell us when we were going to this particular guy, "you are going to so and so, bring the party pack"- this meant packing as much lingerie as you could carry, because we would have to model for him, and the more you had the longer you stayed. I proudly hold the record- 10 hours! He was coked to the gills, but for some reason he liked having half naked ladies parading around his rather nice penthouse apartment overlooking the Amstel River, as he played with his shrunken and limper than spaghetti dick. Go figure.

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #10 on: 29 July 2009, 12:18:38 pm »
Cocaine is a class A substance and as such if you witness a client using it you are committing a crime.  If I see it , I leave, and if a client claims to have it, I tell him to keep it out of my sight.  That said, a lot of clients make shit up about having taken cocaine when all they've had is a couple of pints of cider. 

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #11 on: 29 July 2009, 12:33:14 pm »
The most dangerous aspect is not knowing how it will change someone's behaviour I think- you can't rely on your instincts when someone is all do-lally on drugs, because they behave irratically, and you can't predict what they might do if you say no to something or don't want to do something- it makes me feel a bit scared actually because I'm constantly on high alert mode.

Was at a party once though when I was new to all of this, where by the time I arrived, the man was sitting there going "nuuuugh" and just staring into his lap snorting air like a pig, sitting naked in the corner. That was pretty easy money to make! I am sure he felt lovely the next morning. I felt rich.

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #12 on: 29 July 2009, 12:49:14 pm »
There are plenty of reasons to avoid coked up clients, but I really think you're mistaken here:

Cocaine is a class A substance and as such if you witness a client using it you are committing a crime.

Do you have anything to back that up, or is it just an idea that you have?

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #13 on: 29 July 2009, 01:32:05 pm »
There are plenty of reasons to avoid coked up clients, but I really think you're mistaken here:

Cocaine is a class A substance and as such if you witness a client using it you are committing a crime.

Do you have anything to back that up, or is it just an idea that you have?

You are correct with regard to the UK.  In the USA you would be liable. 

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Re: Well ive never had this one before
« Reply #14 on: 29 July 2009, 01:50:08 pm »
What's the reasoning? You're expected to report any drug activity and if you don't it's considered collusion?