Hi All

Quite a large percentage of the clients I see are married which I don't have a problem with and obviously I am given allsorts of reasons as to why they are 'using an escort' lol again I don't feel i need to know or care why they are using an escort, but I had a client a few weeks ago who I feel really was a twat, let me know what you guys think.

He was staying close to the area I am based staying in a hotel  as his wife was in hospital for 5 weeks having chemotherapy as she had cancer !!!!

IMO I thought bloody hell that's the pits, talk about only thinking of his owns needs (I wonder if there's any element of guilt he has ?)

Have been in the business over 20 years and know there are all different issues but I personally thought this one was 'the pits' for god sake she could die !!! whilst he's sorting his own needs out.

Thing is we all judge at some points in our lives, even if its not liking the outfit someone is wearing or not liking a singer on 'X Factor' and I am judged for what I do, we all are, if we wasn't then we wouldn't feel the need to hide our true job from our families and friends, we could call ourselves a prostitute or escort to our accountant/bank rather than a therapist ! we could show out faces on AW

I am totally of the opinion live and let live, who am I to judge anyone, I just thought that was one hot 'below the belt'

One of my clients told me his wife was battling cancer - he was trying to hold the family together through the difficult time but that doesn't mean sexual needs disappear. He was feeling sexually frustrated but was not going to pester his ill wife so booked an escort so he could take care of it and get back to caring for his family. He said he did feel a level of guilt because he was cheating in her time of need but ultimately the lack of sexual outlet was making it harder for him so he thought this was the best option.
I thought it was a decision I could understand and felt sorry that he was in such a difficult position. Not that I pass comment anyway, I just listen if a client needs to talk and offer sympathy.

I think some men deal with stress and grief with sex in the way a woman might stereotypically go for chocolate.

Maybe he met you to distract himself. I think they pay us so much money not to get judged, that's all

I had a client ages ago, only seen him that one time who kept checking his phone and seemed a bit edgy......he then says he needs to keep checking his phone as his wife was in labour.

I thought that was awful 

OMG, I had a similar client before Xmas. Whitish hair and French/Swiss.
I felt so bad after seeing him exactly because of what you mentioned. He even showed me a photo album that his wife created for him with poems and very personal messages. I felt so disgusted
Sometimes I believe guys want to freak escorts out bc why would you even tell such a terrible truth?
By now I started doubting that everything this men tell us is true and real (remember how many crazy stories you have told guys--do you really think they're any different?).
Once a guy told me to give him a BJ while he called his girlfriend.
Seriously, I had the feeling he rather wanted me to feel bad and somehow think ?"oh men are soo terrible creatures" and I believe it wasn't really his girlfriend. Some men seem to have such a bad feeling of disappointment attached to escorts(women just never give them what they want for free) that they want to destroy their belief in men (just the way they have lost their belief in women) so they make themselves look very bad on purpose.

Some might be really that but I have realized that too many think they can play the same game that we do to get some sort of control.
Some stories might be true?.but don't believe everything.

Maybe he met you to distract himself. I think they pay us so much money not to get judged, that's all

Totally agree.