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Escortx

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want to quit
« on: 09 May 2020, 12:41:34 pm »
I really hate sex work and having time off during lock down has made me realize. I need to save about £6000 then will stop. Just finding it hard to stay motivated and thinking about going back i don' want to.
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Jadebear

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Re: want to quit
« Reply #1 on: 09 May 2020, 01:23:44 pm »
If you really really really don't want to then maybe don't. Won't be good for your mental health? Or keep going as you have a goal in mind.

Would webcamming be suitable for you? Good way to make money on the side x
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DarcyLady

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Re: want to quit
« Reply #2 on: 09 May 2020, 02:48:25 pm »
Webcamming really saved me. I don't do alot of escorting, only when I absolutely have to x
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peaches_xx

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Re: want to quit
« Reply #3 on: 19 May 2020, 01:28:36 am »
Quote from: DarcyLady on 09 May 2020, 02:48:25 pm
Webcamming really saved me. I don't do alot of escorting, only when I absolutely have to x
I've heard camming is really saturated and only the top % of girls make decent money. Seems like more work anyway, I can only imagine it's a frustrating as people who keep you on the phone for ages.
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lillybliss

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Re: want to quit
« Reply #4 on: 19 May 2020, 09:00:02 am »
You don't know if you're going to be busy on cam until you try .
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Justine

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Re: want to quit
« Reply #5 on: 19 May 2020, 11:36:29 am »
I was so curious about webcamming a couple of years ago so tried it for a few months. I loved it at that time and the money just poured in. It was in addition to meeting real time clients which I did during the day and the camming at night.

Quite simply I got bored with the cam work. Horses for courses and to the OP I would say give it a try or to put another way suck it and see.  ::)

Meeting men for real and hating it is not good from any perspective but luckily there are alternatives but hoping one of those suits you.
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analuluiza

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Re: want to quit
« Reply #6 on: 19 May 2020, 01:25:50 pm »
I’m in the same boat as you. I tried webcamming whilst in lockdown but  it bored the hell out of me. Don’t do something if you hate it, it’s not good for your mental health. I’m finding a civvy job in an area I have experience in and might enjoy. Going back to sex work after this makes me anxious and it makes me ill to think about it. It won’t be the same money of course but you might feel better about yourself.
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Escortx

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Re: want to quit
« Reply #7 on: 19 May 2020, 01:31:14 pm »
I'm going to retrain but will need to carry on with sex work for a couple more years. I think if I take more breaks it will help. Also I've taken 15 mins off my profile as I realized it was attracting losers. Also I've redone my whole profile and im growing my vag hair out because I hate shaving lol. Also I've gone to basic gfe I can't be bothered doing anything kinky or the weirdos it attracts who often need more attention and effort. I know some people do well with kinky things but it's to much hard work.
Can't see how my profile will do until I take bookings but I've already had some enquires with uploading new pics. Deleted loads as I've lost a few stons.
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amy

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Re: want to quit
« Reply #8 on: 19 May 2020, 06:20:57 pm »
Quote from: Escortx on 19 May 2020, 01:31:14 pm
I'm going to retrain but will need to carry on with sex work for a couple more years. I think if I take more breaks it will help. Also I've taken 15 mins off my profile as I realized it was attracting losers. Also I've redone my whole profile and im growing my vag hair out because I hate shaving lol. Also I've gone to basic gfe I can't be bothered doing anything kinky or the weirdos it attracts who often need more attention and effort. I know some people do well with kinky things but it's to much hard work.
Can't see how my profile will do until I take bookings but I've already had some enquires with uploading new pics. Deleted loads as I've lost a few stons.

I found that stopping services I'm not comfortable with and dislike made a massive difference to my stress levels when working (reverse oral being the main one) and whilst I've never felt that I had to look a particular way, I can only think that you'll feel a lot better for just being yourself and not trying to mould yourself or your services list into what you think punters like. That way you're more likely to get the punters who like you too :).
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