Anyone else found this business to be liberating ? like a steady stream of subjects to experiment on ?

Id say I was quite reserved through my teens and then this well it was like boom what I have I been missing. finding my mojo lol.

Ive been lucky enough to get some experiances and to learn and Id say that back in civvy life im more open and willing to try new things, and feel that relationships are more balanced and open. it thrills me to have an effect on a guy - to get him excited and to please him and please myslef. I know what works for me so well, and an orgasm isnt a stranger no more....

In a sense, yes.  I've sort of had my 'sexual awakening' over the last 4 years but my confidence has rocketed since escorting.  I can struggle with a fear of rejection in my personal relationships, particularly physically (I don't do well with 'I'm too tired' lol).  I've surprised myself with how easy it is for me to be sexually aggressive and confident with clients, and that has 100% spilled over into my personal life

I have a bit of an opposite thing going. I was very into experimenting in my late teens/early 20s, but now I can't seem to find anything that's really "me" anymore. Between losing interest in some of my kinks due to how mundane and routine they are due to work, and life changes that dictated a loss of interest in BDSM subbing, I feel largely devoid of things that make me tick. It's frustrating.

you should try a fun nigh out sometime at a fetish club, good music and company! Like Torture Garden Or Club Antichrist if you are UK based x

Unfortunately, I'm in rural Norway - no such stuff here in the vicinity. I'm also spoken for these days too, though, which makes night clubs are largely off the table unless I could get my partner interested.

I've always been sexually aggressive in normal life but it hasn't been met well w guys, like I'm just some slut or a joke.  I went thru a long stagnant period where I didn't desire sex at all but I'm starting to dabble more in the sex industry and I feel my libido awakening already lol.  I'm excited to get organized and create business out of this.💃

 It had the opposite effect on me. 

Any sexual thought/feeling I had is dead. No idea why because it's not as if i hated sex before and I don't hate this job! but if I never have sex again and only get to masturbate for the rest of my life I won't even miss it.

I end up watching more porn as I do get horny but I don't crave actual sex. And now I think i'm struggling with a porn addiction (which might explain why I don't crave actual sex) 


 I'm not married so good luck to my future husband. I might have to get him to go and see escorts.

I find being sexual with men who are simply gratifying their own needs

I was under the impression that men paid in order to please us  That's what the girlfriend experience is all about.

I've only had one disgruntled customer who said " the booking seems to be about your needs rather than mine"...
well duh 

Sorry I misinterpreted you being tongue in cheek.

I don't know. I'm ill today so everything looks black.