Wow what jerks! Narcisstic personality disorder springs to mind! I loved your replies to his messages though! Haha.
Worst I've had is a client who is mid 40s, fairly attractive, wanted to keep me exclusive to him (I'd be well paid) but couldn't grasp the fact I actually enjoy my work and would rather be meeting new people than committing to him 3 nights a week!
So he books me anyway last monday and the whole time lectures me! Actually lectures me on sex health and if I were exclsuive to him I wouldn't have a problem etc etc. I told him I'm screened regularly and I've so far never had anything as I'm very careful with protection! He still goes on! Anything I say he doesn't listen to. "I'm right you're wrong attitude!"
Ahhh what got me was the 20 minute lecture on how I should declare my income. I am an accountant, I have been for the last 5 years. I plan on declaring it, I keep all my receipts and write everything down, get taxi's to give me recipts etc etc. I told him this, serveral time. Still he says I need to declare it. Always wanting the last word!!
So we finally get down to it, after his unattractive behavoir I can't get any arousal from myself (usually not a problem), can't even face kissing this man as he's kiSsing me so I switch off. Then he doesn't want to wear a condom.
Now you have to be fucking kidding me. I said fine call me a taxi I'm leaving. In the end he did what he needed to do, I was probably a shit lay yet still he wants to see me 'every night I'm free' I have to text him if I don't have bookings and he will see me.
I, Thank god, do have bookings pretty much every night as I'm quite popular on aw and have my regulars but even if I had no work for a week I wouldn't see him again!
At least he wasn't rude to me but these men have such a sense of empowerment they think they own you, have a right to belittle you.
Then you get the lovely ones who treat you like a princess and are just happy you've agreed to see them again
it all balances itself out.
I hope I havnt gone on! Just venting and relating I guess!
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