I can relate.  I was talking to an ex once (who I Used to sleep with on and off) and he said something like "I know things about you that you might think I don't know."
 He wouldn't tell me what and it pissed me off and confused me because I didn't think he would be the kind of guy that would ever ever accept this job. I still don't know to this day and I don't think I want to.

If you want to shag your ex go for it! I use mine as recreational sex and when I'm feeling lonely or a bit fed up he's there. Do you want to get back with him?

You could always ask him outright if he knows?

Quote from: Shewolf on 30 March 2016, 08:15:22 pm

I agree. I'll tell him to f off.

I ran into an ex in the pub who I hadn't seen for a good few years. I soon found that he had heard the jungle drums when he loudly asked across the length of the bar whether he ought to go for an AIDS test now .

I would have  loudly replied from the other end of the bar that what he needs to get is a lobotomy, not an AIDS test.

(insert laughing emoticon here)

Keep it in the front of your mind why he is an "ex"