One of my regulars begged me today to get under the duvet on my bed (my only bed, the one I sleep in with my partner). I have had this before from a non-regular and refused for various reasons.
I said no to my regular and he seemed quite disappointed - he said that it felt more intimate for him (he has previously told me that his wife died 2 years ago).
My previous reason for saying no was that I did not trust them to not remove the condom - but I trust this regular. I also think my sleeping zone is somewhat private and business free.
On the other hand, I think I was a bit unreasonable to my regular - why shouldn't I do this. I'm worried that I might have lost a trusted regular who I really need for my income.

Should I invite him back for an under the covers next meet?

Sammy

Yea I prefer on top, I think I would reluctantly go under the covers with them but I've only had one ever ask and by complete coincidence that day I'd just thrown the duvet and a throw blanket over a sheetless bed because i was in a hurry, that was embarrassing!

But yea if it makes you uncomfortable don't do it, there will always be more potential clients but if you start reneging on your boundaries you might feel unhappy in the long term.

I hate it. Only one of my regs ask for this, and I reluctantly do it because it's not my personal bed, but I still feel a little bit weird by it.

If it was my own personal bed, FUUUCCCKKKK no.

I've never been asked but I don't think I would, but I only work from hotels. I think part of the reason for not would be those already mentioned but also any kind of pre cum or juices would be on the sheets I'd have to sleep on. so fuck that! And again, too intimate. I don't do intimacy!

My own bed? Jesus Christ no! Only with a partner and even then a partner who was more than just a fuck buddy.

No way would I allow this, way too intimate for me.

^^ Exactly this for me too.

My bed is sacred!  On top of the covers is fine, but under them is MY space.

Always on top unless it was an overnight booking (which I wouldn’t ever do from my own home anyway).
Had one client who wanted to go under the covers and cuddle up and it just felt far too intimate.

Buy a cheap duvet from Argos or Aldi or wherever along with a cheap duvet cover set and just chuck it on top of the bed over everything else.

When I worked from home in a 1 bd flat I did this. Now I work almost exclusively from hotels and i still have my sam two duvet covers LOL

Had a horrible slobbery old guy with long fingernails once ask for this n he stank of BO. I was fuming. It's my personal bed and I will never do it again.