Oh my WORD, so I've seen this bloke twice who I decided I'm too impatient to deal with again, because he's an uber irritating, emotionally unstable, rude moron, ugh. He's been trying to meet up this week, so I made up excuses all week because I just DIDN'T want to see him.

So, he says he has a present to give me which he will have to throw away if he can't see me. I don't care mate, go and screw with someone else's brain.

"But I REALLLLLLLLY want to give it to you, when are you free for me to drop it over?" he says

I'M NOT FREE AT ALL.

"What, not even on friday before your exam?" (which I made up just to get him to stop hassling me)

NO.

"What time are you leaving for your exam on Friday though?" he whines

So I snap: 8.30am, so too early for an appointment or anything at all in fact, sorry.

And the absolute FUCKER turns up at my door with a bottle of champagne at 8.15 this morning, when I have blatantly just gotten out of bed and thrown on a dressing gown thinking it is my boyfriend popping over for breakfast.... I am clearly not about to leave the house for the exam I lied about, and I am definitely not expecting mr.nobcheese to be at my door. It was so mortifying and awkward- that was SO out of order!!!!! Nob. Am contemplating buying a big bitey dog, or failing that a grizzly bear, to unleash at people who are unable to understand the word no.

On a better note, saw the cutest sweetest shy newbie today and gave him what I hope was the time of his life, so feeling very happy and selfless this evening after wanting to twat this morning's visitor!

It takes the bloody biscuit, is what it does!
Ive had it happen THREE times this year. Once my boyfriend answered the door(thank goodness he knows what I do!) and one time I was with a client. Had to make up some cobblers about it being a delivery as he kept ringing the intercom. Grrrrr!

been trying to meet up this week, so I made up excuses all week because I just DIDN'T want to see him.

Excuses...you know how I feel about excuses   

Showing up un-announced is out of line but atleast he's being nice. Honey I could use me a bottle of champagne not just yesterday, but all week long  Whats to complain about that! Some people are obsessive and maybe he felt giving you the gift would make him happy or something I dont know. With obsessive people, excuses only make them more aggressive. Make up an absolute dear john-ish type letter conversation and tell him you're not interested for a good cause. Or chase him. Men boys always lose interest once they know you like them  Eventually it'll stop, but unless he knows you're not intersted he's just going to keep taking those excuses as a sign of interest; from you.

But honey; I know how it is to have to deal with things like that! but really if you just tell him what's so then (hopefully) it'll go away. Excuses just leaves the door open

As Brandy and Jenny said! He sounds like a bit of a nutcase (not that you didn't already notice that!) and should be kindly but firmly gotten rid of. *Definitely* think about calling the police if you have ANYMORE trouble - I hate to think of a woman being harassed and I think that no matter how smart and strong you are, things like that can really chip away at your confidence and leave the sanest person a quivering wreck.

So the police method might sound a bit dramatic for this loon but don't forget that your safety and wellbeing really, really is important.

The other thing to consider is what if another guy was turning up at the same time, or your Dad/brother even (i.e. giving you a lift to your exam)? I suppose he would be happy to meet another guy on the doorstep, possibly someone he may know from another area of his life.

Guys really don't think and rules about not turning up unanounced are there for their safety, discretion etc as well as yours.

The problem is, that either it doesn't seem to matter to this gent, or it just doesn't occur to him to maintain some sort of discretion when turning up at an escort's house uninvited. I would be more concerned that it might put off a genuine client who might've turned up for an early morning booking at the same time. If I were a bloke I know it would put me right off visiting again.

And the fact that Carla thinks he's emtionally unstable is even more scary. This job really attracts some strange people.

Oh...see Carla I thought the guy was just some boy who had a crush on you that you met from school or something; I didnt realize it was a client! Yeah, that is wild I would have told him off on the spot for showing up unannounced.

Get 2 pitbulls!

I know you are joking but I watched a programme about dogs last night. It would put you off getting any dog like that, for life.

Pitbulls are also banned over here.

Actually, I dont care for those type of dogs like pits and rotts. I call them ghetto dogs because they are the prime choice in the...ghetto LOL.


Pits and rotts have a tendencie to be dangerous, but there's other breeds that are also very protective, but arent banned. Dobermans, Akitas, Preso Canarios (looks like a pitbull but heavier and dangerouser) and great danes/german shepards are also pretty dangerous and can easily rip off a couple limbs LOL.

I would also be tempted to use words like 'harassment', 'stalker' and 'police'.