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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: sadie x on 23 May 2012, 03:44:07 pm
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I never used to mind a customer coming as many times as he wanted in an hour or twice in half hour,infact it used to be a bit of a selling point..
But im really getting fed up of guys just expecting it on half hour bookings!
i dont mention on website that im willing to..
if a guy come very early,then i will always try again,because they have paid for the time.
but the last 2 days,every guy thats seen me(about 7 men)have said "how many times are you going to make me come?"all im thinking is for fuck sake!
Ive gone over time every time they asked for it and been late for every booking..
im no walk over and i will saywhen times up,but by the time there dressed,im 15 mins over time!
And its bloody draining,wanking floppy cocks,when there just trying to get moneys worth..
IM considering saying NO to twice orgasms on half hours UNLESS they come in first 5 mins..
And a few of them,have said "i come really quick"can i do it twice"then still havent 20 mins later!
what do you all do???
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I don?t think it?s necessary to put in a clause like that. I would say in a 30 minute if by the last 5 / 10 minutes it?s not happening, you need to start getting dressed and clearing the room ? i.e subtly telling the slow coach in question it?s time to bugger off!
I offer 30 minute appointments but as they?re ridiculously expensive, I can count on one hand how many men have booked this.
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I often get calls from guys saying "how many times can i cum in half hour"?, to which i reply" how often do you usually cum in half hour"? saying they dont know . yea right !
Those that arrive for the 30 min bookings can only manage do it once and then dress and leave !!!
I get wrist cramp in the past for breaking the wank speed limit trying to get them to shoot more than once if they have an hour booking, it will work but its hard work
Orchid
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Omg Sadie...you just got me into trouble!...I?m playing online bingo and mistakenly I pasted in the reply I just wrote to your question....I meant to say WDW!....Oooooopssss lol
Think I need to close my account on there... ;D
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If someone books a half hour they have booked a half hour.If they come once good but they are going to have a half hour. Too many clients don't want you to take the piss with their time.I also do not want them taking the piss out of my time. If they want to come X amount of times book extra.
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They pay for the time at the end of the day so I don't ever rush them or try on purpose to get them out 5 or 10mins early. And because I don't ever do back to back bookings I don't have to worry about going slightly over time. I don't let anyone take the piss either, but of course I will always try for a second time. You are right though some guys are not really that bothered they just do it on purpose because they want to see you work for you're money and want their 'money's worth' not very nice. If you pay someone hourly to do a job for you say cleaning for example and they finish a little early you still pay them the same and don't say ''keep scrubbing until it's dead on time!''
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I just go with the flow! if they think they can cum more than once ill indulge them...9/10 they dont cum again and i never run over on bookings waiting for repeat performance! ;D they all get the time that they have paid for and usually if they dont cum twice they always book again and makeit their mission to show me they can :P
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Omg Sadie...you just got me into trouble!...I?m playing online bingo and mistakenly I pasted in the reply I just wrote to your question....I meant to say WDW!....Oooooopssss lol
Think I need to close my account on there... ;D
Sorry!whats wdw?i never know what these shorten words mean!!
i have to do clients sometimes back to back when on tour,cus im spending big on out goings..
if i was working from home 15 mins over wouldnt be too bad,but time is money,when im away..
and every 15-20 mins over messes my next bookingup..x
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That's fair enough I'm just saying even if I was on tour personally I would still need a good hour or more in between. I'd find it too stressful.
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That's fair enough I'm just saying even if I was on tour personally I would still need a good hour or more in between. I'd find it too stressful.
Your rite!never felt so stressed!
constantly been on this forum,as to not crack up..x x
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I have no problem with them coming as many times as they can, but not if it goes way over time. I had a guy today who was really lovely, and after he came about 55 minutes in, we were chatting on the bed, he got hard again within a few minutes of coming and asked for a round two, which I politely declined. No way this guy could have managed to come again in 5 minutes, so we talked for a few minutes, he got in the shower and left about 10 minutes over the hour which is fine. Just because he was bloody fit doesn't mean I'd let him stay for at least another 30 minutes to come again ;)
Do you ladies ask them in the beginning of the appointment if they want to come more than once? If they get close to coming and want to last longer they ask me to slow things down which I don't mind, I'm fine with however they want to spend their time with me. However I had a guy on Monday, fairly young, maybe a little lack of social skills but very pleasant. I assumed he wanted to come twice in the hour as I find the younger ones usually do (generalisation, I know :P) When he came after what I thought was round one, 25 minutes in, he got dressed and left. I did say he had more time left and offered a massage, but he wanted to leave. Not sure if I should have handled things differently? He didn't give me any indication he wanted me to slow down or was close to coming and no mention of that he could only come once, I just feel he didn't get his moneys worth and feel bad.
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Omg Sadie...you just got me into trouble!...I?m playing online bingo and mistakenly I pasted in the reply I just wrote to your question....I meant to say WDW!....Oooooopssss lol
Think I need to close my account on there... ;D
lmao....fantastic:-) I've only ever done that on yahoo chat when I've been talking to more than one person at once...and that was soooo embarrassing!
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However I had a guy on Monday, fairly young, maybe a little lack of social skills but very pleasant. I assumed he wanted to come twice in the hour as I find the younger ones usually do (generalisation, I know :P) When he came after what I thought was round one, 25 minutes in, he got dressed and left. I did say he had more time left and offered a massage, but he wanted to leave. Not sure if I should have handled things differently? He didn't give me any indication he wanted me to slow down or was close to coming and no mention of that he could only come once, I just feel he didn't get his moneys worth and feel bad.
I find the younger ones do this alot! once they are done, they are done, and up off the bed and out the door like a shot!? god knows why...not all I have to add but Id say 80%. So i take it a little slower and ask them to set the pace and tell me faster slower or move onto something different
i wouldnt worry its not like you kicked him outta bed and out the door lol his choice to go, maybe its a bit real if they hang around and chat or cuddle up whilst recharging their batteries, could feel guilt if they are with a partner, who knows? xx
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This is something thats been bugging me too!
I let them cum twice if they actually CAN but bookings end up going over.
If its by 5 minutes I don't mind but anything more and I start getting peed off!
A client wanted an hour then changed his mind to half hour and at 25 minutes he wanted to come again I said not enough time you'll have to pay extra so he gave me an extra 30 to stay the extra 15 minutes which I didn't mind as it was my last job of the day.
I have to say though, younger clients and foreign clients are the worst for wanting their moneys worth and a free date and personal number..(and how can i forget most foreign clients want MARRIAGE :/ ) ! The old married business men are the best! But then I cant complain as recently had some lovely respectful younger clients :)
I feel bad if a client is ready to leave early.
I do worry though, I think what if they are really quick and want round 2 or what am i going to do for the rest of the booking. or are they going to take forever that if we spend too long chatting etc we wont have time to finish him off? Usually is always the first one though!
Think I am going to start offering massage at beginning of appointment or offer it at the end if we have the time to spare.
I'd rather them stay and get there hours worth as long as they dont take the p1$$ x
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Well it isn't really about coming twice is it, it's about playing for extra time with no intention of paying for it.
I sympathise with Sadie re the touring - I normally try for 45 minutes or an hour's break between bookings but it rarely works out that way, and it's often a half hour. If I have a punter coming who I know to be reliable I book them in with a half hour gap after, and that's shot me in the foot before when they've got stuck on the Tube or looking for parking or whatever.
To me, what matters is whether they're clearly taking the piss. Anybody who isn't is welcome to a few more minutes (and I don't work that much at home, so if I'm there I can afford it a bit more easily) but if it's obvious they are I'll politely ask if they want to extend, and if not then the booking is over. I had one like this in Belfast who got all moosey-faced when I said it was time to wrap up at five minutes over, so he then spent 15 minutes in the shower and drenched the whole bathroom and I had to put back my next booking anyway for twenty minutes whilst I sorted the mess out.
I know these types couldn't care less about treating us like crap, but I do wonder if they give a damn about the other punters they're fucking things up for? I doubt they can think in that many steps, mind.
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Sorry!whats wdw?i never know what these shorten words mean!!
lmao....fantastic:-) I've only ever done that on yahoo chat when I've been talking to more than one person at once...and that was soooo embarrassing!
Oh well it got a few raised eyebrows from the people in chat, on the bright side thank bloody god it wasn?t the response to ?how many men have you slept with...?
Ps: WDW means well done winner x
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I must disagree, I prefer back to back and busy busy busy unless a client is late of course! I normally have 30 min gaps when busy x
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I had one like this in Belfast who got all moosey-faced when I said it was time to wrap up at five minutes over, so he then spent 15 minutes in the shower and drenched the whole bathroom and I had to put back my next booking anyway for twenty minutes whilst I sorted the mess out.
I know these types couldn't care less about treating us like crap, but I do wonder if they give a damn about the other punters they're fucking things up for? I doubt they can think in that many steps, mind.
What a fucking Dickhead! Lol
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I had one like this in Belfast who got all moosey-faced when I said it was time to wrap up at five minutes over, so he then spent 15 minutes in the shower and drenched the whole bathroom and I had to put back my next booking anyway for twenty minutes whilst I sorted the mess out.
I know these types couldn't care less about treating us like crap, but I do wonder if they give a damn about the other punters they're fucking things up for? I doubt they can think in that many steps, mind.
What a fucking Dickhead! Lol
Gawd, even the toilet roll was soaked through - it was like a war zone. Fortunately the nice man who had booked half an hour afterwards could wait a bit longer (and if he couldn't we would have had to cancel, so everybody loses) but I had to just mop up as best I could with the wet towels, throw them in the bottom of the wardrobe and call it good >:(. When they make a mess like that I always wonder if they do it at home?
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I had one like this in Belfast who got all moosey-faced when I said it was time to wrap up at five minutes over, so he then spent 15 minutes in the shower and drenched the whole bathroom and I had to put back my next booking anyway for twenty minutes whilst I sorted the mess out.
I know these types couldn't care less about treating us like crap, but I do wonder if they give a damn about the other punters they're fucking things up for? I doubt they can think in that many steps, mind.
What a fucking Dickhead! Lol
Gawd, even the toilet roll was soaked through - it was like a war zone. Fortunately the nice man who had booked half an hour afterwards could wait a bit longer (and if he couldn't we would have had to cancel, so everybody loses) but I had to just mop up as best I could with the wet towels, throw them in the bottom of the wardrobe and call it good >:(. When they make a mess like that I always wonder if they do it at home?
He was clearly just a vile man who did it on purpose because he was sulking. You should have asked him what the hell he was playing at?
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When a guy pays for my time and asks how many times he can cum my answer is always as many as your body will allow in the given time. If I am doing half and hour and it runs over slightly no big deal, if he wants to cum twice, three times again no big deal it is about delivering a service in the time frame allowed. If the session starts to turn from half and hour to 45 minutes or an hour then a polite reminder is given and the option left to him to decide. In all honesty most half an hour sessions if they cum twice is is usually in quick sucession and they are all satisfied. I have had some half an hour session turn into 1 hour session and the fee been paid for the 1 hour session.
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If the session starts to turn from half and hour to 45 minutes or an hour then a polite reminder is given and the option left to him to decide. [...] I have had some half an hour session turn into 1 hour session and the fee been paid for the 1 hour session.
Yes, I think that giving them the friendly option to either pay more to extend their booking or to stop now (i.e. 5 mins over time) is the best option the majority of the time. Of course, if you're not able to offer an extension then you can just say, "I'm really sorry, I would love to offer you the option to pay to extend your booking but I have [to meet a friend /another client] very soon so I need to get ready now. I'm really looking forward to finishing what we started next time, though!"
Presenting an option of either paying for more time or finishing now means that whatever they choose should be agreeable to you, and it should also be agreeable to them because it was their choice. Better than an "either you can eff off or you can eff off" sort of option, anyway - I can't think of any escort who'd want to potentially cause sulkiness or upset like that on purpose! Being firm is one thing (and definitely be firm in those two choices that you offer), but that awkward situation where you've gone over time and he's pushing for more sex and you understandably aren't able to offer a bunch of free extra time but aren't sure what to say? Yes, that's best avoided!
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if they ask me that on the phone i say - i dont know, how many times can you come ;D
i mean if anyone is going to know how many times that he can cum then its going to be the guy not the escort
but i think what most of them want to know is if i come within 5 mins are you going to say thats it clear off, because a lot of girl do this so they are often checking thats not the case
So its easy to say its a half hour appointment IF you can come twice then thats fine by me, but as i said its only 30 mins so if you really really want to be sure to cum twice and you know you can then i would book an hour
its often just a case of setting up the boundries clearly on the phone
Im happy to let guys come twice in half an hour if they can, but if they havnt come within say 20 mins then its only going to be the one time . while im not a clockwatcher or rush people out the door
if they have paid for half an hour then thats what they have paid for so i make sure that they get that But if they have come once and its 20 - 25 mins into the appointment then i simpy offer them a sexy back massage for a for a minutes to let them wind down and then offer them the shower
i tend to base a half hour appointment as really being 40 mins ( 10mins for after)
i use a ipod with playlists for 30 mins - 45mins and 1hr and they are all slightly longer than the set time so i damm well know that they are getting there slightly over there time
its also far easier i find to fuck them the first time and then if they want to come again either do it by a blow job or hand job because often its hard to get it hard if you see what i mean for full sex the second time especially in half an hour
i tend to leave 30 -40 mins between each appointment though even when im touring and as i dont take advance booking with more than an hours notice im never stressed about working back to back all day
I never used to mind a customer coming as many times as he wanted in an hour or twice in half hour,infact it used to be a bit of a selling point..
But im really getting fed up of guys just expecting it on half hour bookings!
i dont mention on website that im willing to..
if a guy come very early,then i will always try again,because they have paid for the time.
but the last 2 days,every guy thats seen me(about 7 men)have said "how many times are you going to make me come?"all im thinking is for fuck sake!
Ive gone over time every time they asked for it and been late for every booking..
im no walk over and i will saywhen times up,but by the time there dressed,im 15 mins over time!
And its bloody draining,wanking floppy cocks,when there just trying to get moneys worth..
IM considering saying NO to twice orgasms on half hours UNLESS they come in first 5 mins..
And a few of them,have said "i come really quick"can i do it twice"then still havent 20 mins later!
what do you all do???
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if they ask me that on the phone i say - i dont know, how many times can you come ;D. i mean if anyone is going to know how many times that he can cum then its going to be the guy not the escort, but i think what most of them want to know is if i come within 5 mins are you going to say thats it clear off, because a lot of girl do this so they are often checking thats not the case
i use a ipod with playlists for 30 mins - 45mins and 1hr and they are all slightly longer than the set time so i damm well know that they are getting there slightly over there time
I think this is great! Yes, they can only cum as many times as they can cum and yes, I agree, they may think that they won't be 'allowed' to cum more than once. Frankly, I would think most guys can't come twice in that space of time and as you say, a nice massage is probably the best 'round two' they can hope for/manage.
I LOVE your iPod idea!!! I noticed as I went thru my first weekend that I couldn't easily and discreetly take note of what the exact time was that they arrived - so I've bought a little bedside digital clock with huge numbers (my eyesight is awful, can't see the time on my mobile and don't want it lying around really), and hope I will do better with this!
I may well do some timed playlists - that's bang on good idea that is - you are a clever sausage aren't you!
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by saying that - your not putting pressure on yourself to perform miracles - your saying that your willing to let him cum twice if he can within the time that he has booked not that your a super woman and your going to make him come half a dozen times within 30 mins
you can say it kind of jokey as well so that they it dosnt sound offish
For the ipod playlist 7 standard songs is rougly 35 mins
10/11 songs 50 mins
13 songs 65 mins
15 mins is 4 songs ( if you do fifteen minutes
it dose depend of course on what songs you have on your playlist but i dont have anything that really really long
its a great way of know where you are in the appointment and when to wind it down without having to look at the clock /watch
i always have a mine over the actuall time booked because that way i know they cant say that they didnt get the time booked or i cut them short of time ( not that i would do tha but just in case )
if they ask me that on the phone i say - i dont know, how many times can you come ;D. i mean if anyone is going to know how many times that he can cum then its going to be the guy not the escort, but i think what most of them want to know is if i come within 5 mins are you going to say thats it clear off, because a lot of girl do this so they are often checking thats not the case
i use a ipod with playlists for 30 mins - 45mins and 1hr and they are all slightly longer than the set time so i damm well know that they are getting there slightly over there time
I think this is great! Yes, they can only cum as many times as they can cum and yes, I agree, they may think that they won't be 'allowed' to cum more than once. Frankly, I would think most guys can't come twice in that space of time and as you say, a nice massage is probably the best 'round two' they can hope for/manage.
I LOVE your iPod idea!!! I noticed as I went thru my first weekend that I couldn't easily and discreetly take note of what the exact time was that they arrived - so I've bought a little bedside digital clock with huge numbers (my eyesight is awful, can't see the time on my mobile and don't want it lying around really), and hope I will do better with this!
I may well do some timed playlists - that's bang on good idea that is - you are a clever sausage aren't you!