I find that being in certain cities, areas means that you get a high proportion of certain types /race of clients
So places like Birmingham , London Leicester west midlands area I find I get a lot of black ,Asian clients
I know that a few escorts won't see black ,or Asian clients, where as I do,so I generally do very very well in these areas
But on the phone they can come across as slightly off putting sometimes in the that they can talk ( generalising here ) so if your massively picky on the way someone speaks /accent then It would affect your business
Yes, and I am still learning to hear the cues I want. That is, I want to get the feeling that they're happy and sane and respectful. If they have a different cultural way of expressing themselves, I may not recognise all the cues. I know how people similar to myself, similar to the people I have associated with, sound when they are happy, sane and respectful. But we can't count on specific cultural/class mannerisms for everyone. Therefor, being called "babe" isn't necessarily a bad thing. Where they're coming from, it's not necessarily an indication that they're ignorant sexist twats. A middle-class white guy talking like that? Then something is wrong!
Nah plenty of middle class white guys talk like that (IME ) they think they are cool , hip , trendy
I have a lovely client, he is a lawyer , works in the city degree from Cambridge ,but he is all babe this , babe that drives me nuts. It's that nails on blackboard screeching kind of thing
but I ignore it because if being called babe is going to put me off seeing a client I wouldn't see very many clients
It is surprising how many 'professionals' do write very simple emails - no introduction, 'are you available', text speak etc. You would not think they had received the training they have done.
Their profession doesn't always mean they are reliable either.
For me if someone can agree to a definite time, is prompt then I don't mind what they write or how they sound. If they can't do that then they aren't for me.
I recently had someone who wrote a lovely email, explained his circumstances, but then through deletion of emails forgot confirmation instructions and lost my number. He was emailing at the last minute.
Another well spoken person who said he was nervous, insisted he was 'genuine' then didn't read the directions text I sent............
Very difficult, but if someone phones and says 'ow much 4 a fuck' in an agressive manner then we probably aren't going to meet.
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