Am I the only one who actually finds regulars harder work?  Don't get me wrong, it's worth the work but sometimes I'm literally scratching my head trying to think of ways to keep it exciting for them.
For example my best regular is a really nice guy and i'm amazed he's stayed with me so long and visits so frequently, but I feel lacking in room to manouever with him!  He only likes me to wear black.  His tastes are fairly mainstream (i've tried to tempt him with a little tie & tease or role-play but he's having none of it!  He knows what he likes!) I know the best thinking is probably 'if it aint broke don't fix it' but I worry.
While someone new knocking on the door brings up other possible issues, at the very least, we know we have novelty value!
New is already fairly exciting in itself!
 

Well even if regulars are hard work, they are paying us good money so hard work shouldn't be an issue! But I disagree, I find being with my regulars......it's much more natural, I can relax and not have that horrid anxiety worrying about the unknown of what's going to walk through my door.

As you said if it ain't broke then don't fix it, it's good that your trying to come up with new ideas all the time as that shows your not mechanical but if your clients like things a certain way even if it is mechanical then just give them what they want providing it's within your boundary's.

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If your client is happy with what he gets and doesn't want it to change why would you?  Surely it is much easier knowing what they want and like.  Knowing they don't expect you to swing from the light bulb?  To me a regular who wants and likes things the way they are is much easier as I know I am pleasing him and it flows much easier as I am not thinking, I wonder if this is enough for him?

all quite right of course.  I'm not bored with him at all - I'm probably over thinking it.  Thinking about it, I was a little worried that his visits could be reminiscent of sex with a wife or something.  predictable and a little mundane.  But actually, he sort of wants the routine and familiarity - without the emotional tie of course. 
thats it i think.
thanks I can see it now 

but i will add that in the case of other regs, i work very hard to excite, surprise and keep it new for them.  much appreciated by most, but i stand by my comment - harder work in a way.  not a whinge or ungratefulness to regulars, just a fact for me.

i'm surprised that I'm the only one who feels this way. again its not a complaint. 

all quite right of course.  I'm not bored with him at all - I'm probably over thinking it.  Thinking about it, I was a little worried that his visits could be reminiscent of sex with a wife or something.  predictable and a little mundane.  But actually, he sort of wants the routine and familiarity - without the emotional tie of course. 
thats it i think.
thanks I can see it now 

but i will add that in the case of other regs, i work very hard to excite, surprise and keep it new for them.  much appreciated by most, but i stand by my comment - harder work in a way.  not a whinge or ungratefulness to regulars, just a fact for me.

i'm surprised that I'm the only one who feels this way. again its not a complaint.

You are not the only one regulars or newbies clients in general can mean to work harder. But they are worth it as longs as treating me with respect and not pushing what don't do. They pay for time and is up to the individual.  Where as some are easier meaning they want less things. It is all about valuing *Diversity* that not everyone is the same it also goes for beliefs. To remember diversity when clients come for bookings even more so. I do this myself also when they phone to inquire. Clients like to know that escorts are easy going.

But all in all it is their money they are parting with. I think you are stressing to much as clients will say if they want different things.  Remember what one client likes the other won't fact as each like different things like we offer different services etc not the same. So throwing in new things might not go down very well.

Let me give you an example... Well this is similar... This hairdresser doesn't do what I ask for she misses steps. Where as the other does exactly like one should be professional doing what I ask for not what she thinks. So now the pushy one lost business as went there often. So this is why it is very important to do what they ask for. Not what one thinks they should do to make happy. As this way made me run in the other direction. Some clients wouldn't like to feel forced or uncomfortable because if so they will run for sure. As the feeling uncomfortable they most likely will associate that being with you so will avoid.

I give clients what the want to make sure they are happy at all times. Who are more likely to be back leaving chuffed from the horny experience. Or if a bad one dought they will even give a second thought.

The only problem I have with regulars is if they turn obsessive... I had what I called a "Pretty Woman" client last year, nightmare! He started off as very nice, but then wanted to see me regularly for dates, er, no. They are not dates, it's a booking. Anyway, he turned really obsessive so I cut him off and told the agency I was working for then that I didn't want to see him again.

I had a few regulars, and they were no problem at all. One of them who used to pick me all the time then moved on to one of the other girls. I spoke to her when she was going in to use the flat once, and I was coming out of it. She told me about my regular and how he grew to obsess over her, wanted to marry her etc. I felt really sorry for her

In essence, I think as long as they are not developing a heavy attachment to you, you should be fine. As Jan said, sounds like he likes you, but don't let it get to the stage like it did with me where he starts an unhealthy attachment!

Some of my regulars have wanted the same thing for years. Others come in and say 'today can we try x'.

Some I genuinely care for, others are a pain in the ass.

but either way, let them direct the session.