Author Topic: This Job and Dating Sites. (Read 18777 times)

Nadya · « **Reply #45 on:** 10 May 2022, 10:33:05 am »

I met someone on POF had coffee with and never saw again, who much later came to see me as a client, the annoying thing was that he did not recognise me at all (WTF? I am totally memorable yo) I remembered him though.

I don't want to do online dating ever again now.

bustybbwsteph · « **Reply #46 on:** 13 June 2022, 03:44:54 pm »

I met my husband through escorting........ He booked me for an overnighter & it went from there, still together 11 1/2 years later. He has never asked me to quit escorting (He sees it for what it is, a proper job)

If anything was to happen & I found myself single again, I don't think I could do this & date, I have had too many clients make comments about 'How amazing it must be to date an escort' or 'I would love my gf to be an escort' without realising it's usually nothing like the fantasy they have dreamed up in their head!

Mel · « **Reply #47 on:** 18 October 2022, 02:02:50 am »

One of my clients has been a dating site guy of mine too. This was quite surreal. I can't believe he didn't recognize me. But he didn't speak one single word about this. He might have been quite shy and uptight.

Jadine · « **Reply #48 on:** 18 October 2022, 07:51:37 am »

I had a guy message me from a dating site yesterday I am still on , I thought he looked nice and I didn't recognise him but i thought he looked familiar, and how I liked the look of him , until a few messages he told me he had seen me years ago through escorting , that ended up to be shortlived and cut the conversation,
With the bad experiences of expunters I had dated I will never see one again , in my experiences none were any good with supporting me moneywise or treated me with anything.

English Green · « **Reply #49 on:** 18 October 2022, 06:23:29 pm »

Quote from: bustybbwsteph on 13 June 2022, 03:44:54 pm

I met my husband through escorting........ He booked me for an overnighter & it went from there, still together 11 1/2 years later. He has never asked me to quit escorting (He sees it for what it is, a proper job)

If anything was to happen & I found myself single again, I don't think I could do this & date, I have had too many clients make comments about 'How amazing it must be to date an escort' or 'I would love my gf to be an escort' without realising it's usually nothing like the fantasy they have dreamed up in their head!

I mainly meet clients that would never want there GF to be doing this from what they say but i have come across a couple that said it would turn them on knowing they were fucking other men for money. Each to there own i suppose.

English Green · « **Reply #50 on:** 18 October 2022, 07:00:56 pm »

Quote from: Jadine on 18 October 2022, 07:51:37 am

I had a guy message me from a dating site yesterday I am still on , I thought he looked nice and I didn't recognise him but i thought he looked familiar, and how I liked the look of him , until a few messages he told me he had seen me years ago through escorting , that ended up to be shortlived and cut the conversation,
With the bad experiences of expunters I had dated I will never see one again , in my experiences none were any good with supporting me moneywise or treated me with anything.

So many clients are on these dating sites too. I don't like it because some of these men spot a escort on there and then go round telling other clients she is on blah blah under blah blah. Where is the mutual discretion? That is something women need to watch out for.

Jadine · « **Reply #51 on:** 18 October 2022, 09:47:35 pm »

English Green
I have noticed a quite a few on there that I have seen not recently but not pleased either , I am trying to get a guy to date seriously not punters off it , and reckon most just after freebies if I be daft to date them who I seen which isn't happening.
Obviously on SD sites it's different but I don't want a punter as a boyfriend having never met one who ever treat me right knowing the work I do , I don't know why they just can't stick on the escort sites instead of trying their luck with escorts on dating sites who may not be offering services.

bustybbwsteph · « **Reply #52 on:** 19 October 2022, 10:37:29 pm »

Quote from: Jadine on 18 October 2022, 09:47:35 pm

Obviously on SD sites it's different but I don't want a punter as a boyfriend having never met one who ever treat me right knowing the work I do , I don't know why they just can't stick on the escort sites instead of trying their luck with escorts on dating sites who may not be offering services.

They probably see it as if you are on a dating site you are 'fair game', you can't possibly charge them if you are actively dating

Some men really do give me the ick!

Rosie13 · « **Reply #53 on:** 19 October 2022, 11:50:47 pm »

I’m sure I’ve posted this elsewhere but some years back a guy contacted me, somehow recognising me from AW and sent me a message with the opening line “hi Lola, how’s the prostitution going?” Then blocked me. A few years later he tried to book me, only once I checked his pic on WhatsApp did I realise immediately who he was, needless to say I told him to GTF.

Jadine · « **Reply #54 on:** 20 October 2022, 05:47:58 am »

Rosie13
I don't blame you lol
I had one on tinder a year back message me only one message ' you won't get any punters on here ' I couldn't see his face on the pic or able to reply back as I was a free member I wasn't paying to reply messages off men I wouldn't fancy , it's none of their business but they have to pass comments , the one I mentioned who wanted to date recently were even asking me what I was going to do about working in escorting still ? I said I carry on doing it , he said he liked me yet hadn't seen me more than once and that was 2 years ago ,

yet trys to say he was hardly a client and I was the only one he saw , yeh right .
Bustybbwsteph
You are right that's how they see it me or anyone else as fair game no charge , I am not giving a punter my pussy free again after the nogood ones I dated .

fallen angel · « **Reply #55 on:** 20 October 2022, 03:09:58 pm »

Quote from: English Green on 18 October 2022, 07:00:56 pm

So many clients are on these dating sites too. I don't like it because some of these men spot a escort on there and then go round telling other clients she is on blah blah under blah blah. Where is the mutual discretion? That is something women need to watch out for.

Yes I've found this too, spotted clients appearing on dating sites which is the reason I no longer feel comfortable using them and also seen instances of them telling each other about escorts using dating sites implying they should be able to get a freebie.
They can't seem to grasp that we only fuck them because they are paying us and have no interest in them outside of that and would be looking for a guy we are actually attracted to when looking to date.

English Green · « **Reply #56 on:** 21 October 2022, 09:25:30 am »

Quote from: fallen angel on 20 October 2022, 03:09:58 pm

Yes I've found this too, spotted clients appearing on dating sites which is the reason I no longer feel comfortable using them and also seen instances of them telling each other about escorts using dating sites implying they should be able to get a freebie.
They can't seem to grasp that we only fuck them because they are paying us and have no interest in them outside of that and would be looking for a guy we are actually attracted to when looking to date.

I know deluded to think they could get a free fuck by contacting her via the dating app when a lot of clients would never be the type you would shag for free.

I do think clients informing other clients that she is on a dating app go look at her face and real name etc is not only poor taste but outing somebody. Would they like us to out them if we had information on them or there linked in profile or there picture somewhere?

A poor woman cannot even escape clients by going on a dating app to meet non clients they are on there outing them. A disgrace.

fallen angel · « **Reply #57 on:** 21 October 2022, 02:02:49 pm »

Quote from: English Green on 21 October 2022, 09:25:30 am

I know deluded to think they could get a free fuck by contacting her via the dating app when a lot of clients would never be the type you would shag for free.

I do think clients informing other clients that she is on a dating app go look at her face and real name etc is not only poor taste but outing somebody. Would they like us to out them if we had information on them or there linked in profile or there picture somewhere?

A poor woman cannot even escape clients by going on a dating app to meet non clients they are on there outing them. A disgrace.

Some of the clients I've seen on there I know to be attached too so most likey just after free sex as an option to having to pay us and don't seem to think we should be entitled to a normal private life because of the job we do.
Problem is if you are to have any luck on dating sites you have to post face pics and if clients spot you they can't seem to help themselves but to mention it.

Mirian · « **Reply #58 on:** 11 March 2023, 09:03:26 am »

In my brief experience with dating apps, I have never met any decent men, just fun and sex. Decent in my expectations, I mean. All my partners, except one, who was a client, I met outside of the apps.

I am a very talkative, open and friendly person, so I have never had a problem meeting people anywhere.

If it happened that they didn't like my work, then I didn't want to continue seeing them either, I didn't need anyone to complicate my life, but to complement it.

Secretsatin · « **Reply #59 on:** 21 May 2023, 10:00:55 am »

I've tried a few dating sites in the past and discovered loads of punters on there. I also found lots of timewasters/ punter type msgs guys just trying to engage in sex chat or one night stands. If you after casual sex then dating site fine but if you looking more for a possible relationship I' d try meeting someone offline. Maybe start joining activities that you like in offline setting so you find someone with common interests.

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