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amy

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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #30 on: 22 December 2020, 02:21:49 pm »
I concur with the 'Jay' and 'J's. I don't even bother putting my brew down.
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #31 on: 22 December 2020, 05:35:04 pm »
Yes, I concur re. Jay! Also, it never ceases to amaze me how many are called Andy.
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #32 on: 22 December 2020, 09:04:28 pm »
Jays... yeah me too!
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #33 on: 22 December 2020, 10:13:29 pm »
Glad I'm not alone... There's something about Jay! They tend to be the kind of guy that uses this emoji at the end of every message as well- 🙈
Whenever that bloody monkey makes an appearance I'm off!!!
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #34 on: 23 December 2020, 11:31:16 am »
I also get it with Jay, but Adam is the worst for me.
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #35 on: 23 December 2020, 01:39:53 pm »
Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 23 December 2020, 11:31:16 am
I also get it with Jay, but Adam is the worst for me.
Adam is definitely the one for me lol x
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #36 on: 23 December 2020, 02:20:46 pm »
Fuck Adam and Jay.

I have so many of those assholes.
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #37 on: 23 December 2020, 11:53:35 pm »
Quote from: Gina G on 06 December 2020, 07:14:14 pm
Especially when they insist on telling you what a 'nice' guy they are  ::)

And from all accounts, Ted Bundy (famous American serial killer)was a nice guy too🙄. IDGAF if you’re a nice guy.
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #38 on: 24 December 2020, 06:29:02 pm »
Quote from: CelesteManchester on 23 December 2020, 11:53:35 pm
And from all accounts, Ted Bundy (famous American serial killer)was a nice guy too🙄. IDGAF if you’re a nice guy.

And don't forget the classic "I'm not a Timewaster!" Because timewasters let us know that they're timewasters beforehand...
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #39 on: 25 December 2020, 01:03:30 am »
I just saw a video titled 'Did Homo Sapiens really mate with Neaderthals'?  Like it is some bloody question!

What I have learnt is men will fuck a shoe, they'd probably try to fuck a goldfish, they will fuck a pie (American Pie)if nothing else is available, they will fuck anything at all.

That's why this is a job that even keeps some of us moderately busy even during a pandemic.

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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #40 on: 26 December 2020, 12:50:03 pm »
Quote from: Nadya on 25 December 2020, 01:03:30 am
I just saw a video titled 'Did Homo Sapiens really mate with Neaderthals'?  Like it is some bloody question!

What I have learnt is men will fuck a shoe, they'd probably try to fuck a goldfish, they will fuck a pie (American Pie)if nothing else is available, they will fuck anything at all.

That's why this is a job that even keeps some of us moderately busy even during a pandemic.

Exaggeration, but there's a hidden truth. It's the same throughout nature. Look at how some male dogs try to hump anyone and anything. They don't know why they are doing it. It's a basic urge they themselves don't understand. Most men know because they have been told, but there's a broad spectrum of behaviour, and we only see the tip of the iceberg.
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #41 on: 26 December 2020, 03:05:38 pm »
I've learnt that I have absolutely no interested in being committed to any man, ever, and that my relationships with men are a lot, lot, lot healthier and more beneficial to my self esteem, my personal ambition and my bank account when they occur by the hour.
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #42 on: 28 December 2020, 08:29:20 pm »
  • People that sound nice sound nice because they are good at sounding nice, not because they are nice: just because they give the impression of being someone who will follow through doesn't mean they will
  • Body language is a better barometer of whether someone is enjoying themselves than an erection is
  • "I'll call you back" means "never mind"
  • Keeping accurate records for tax purposes is satisfying but also depressing when you have a bad week
  • A good pair of speakers and some coloured mood lighting can turn even the most basic of bedrooms into a sexy environment
And these two are specific to M4M sex work:
  • It's all about the D
  • Most gay men in 2020 are really open minded about sex work (I'm out as a SW to basically all my friends)
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #43 on: 29 December 2020, 12:46:21 am »
Quote from: Alex Oak on 28 December 2020, 08:29:20 pm
  • People that sound nice sound nice because they are good at sounding nice, not because they are nice: just because they give the impression of being someone who will follow through doesn't mean they will
  • Body language is a better barometer of whether someone is enjoying themselves than an erection is
  • "I'll call you back" means "never mind"
  • Keeping accurate records for tax purposes is satisfying but also depressing when you have a bad week
  • A good pair of speakers and some coloured mood lighting can turn even the most basic of bedrooms into a sexy environment
And these two are specific to M4M sex work:
  • It's all about the D
]Most gay men in 2020 are really open minded about sex work (I'm out as a SW to basically all my friends)[/li]
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My male gay friends all know about my work so I agree they're open minded in my experience! Women have tended to look on me with pity or scorn.

Another thing I've learned is that a lot of guys really like sensual massage and it's a popular service in itself.
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Re: Things you have learned through sex work
« Reply #44 on: 29 December 2020, 06:29:41 pm »
Quote from: LottieLuck on 29 December 2020, 12:46:21 am
Another thing I've learned is that a lot of guys really like sensual massage and it's a popular service in itself.

Yeah. I'm rubbish at it but I find that when they are on their front the old "penis brushing against them as I do the massage" quickly distracts them enough to turn it into a fuck.

But I really need to go on some massage courses.
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