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Sophine88

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #30 on: 21 March 2022, 08:57:07 pm »
Anal 4 or 5 times a day. I’m a trans escort. I don’t think cis women know how lucky they are to have a vagina and not be getting fucked in the ass 4 or 5 times a day.

I actually loathe when clients want to fuck me. It’s the worst part of the whole booking. But I just get on with it.

It has caused me some bowel problems from being penetrated in that area regularly and other things but you get used to it.

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #31 on: 10 April 2022, 05:08:22 pm »
Fake it so that those holding back would just cum already....I don't spare feelings in my civvie life, if I am not there, I am not there, they better work harder  ;D

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #32 on: 12 April 2022, 05:07:13 pm »
Anal 4 or 5 times a day. I’m a trans escort. I don’t think cis women know how lucky they are to have a vagina and not be getting fucked in the ass 4 or 5 times a day.

I actually loathe when clients want to fuck me. It’s the worst part of the whole booking. But I just get on with it.

It has caused me some bowel problems from being penetrated in that area regularly and other things but you get used to it.

Don’t take this the wrong way just a bit of friendly advice.
Perhaps stop offering it for a while and see how it effects your bookings? Do you find there’s a big difference in clients wanting to top or bottom? If I loathe something I wouldn’t offer it, it’s not healthy both physically and mentally.
I prefer anal personally as opposed to vaginal and indulge in this more in both my working and personal life for years. It hasn’t caused my any bowel problems, yet, but I’m sure if it did I’d be less inclined to indulge.

suzi sue

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #33 on: 12 June 2022, 06:23:02 pm »
pml these make me laugh ...

great client  comes fast ( but books n pays long booking )
 gets washed n fucks off after cuming
no cuddling or pillow talk

total opposite of decent bf yet we call it GFE lmao

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #34 on: 13 June 2022, 02:43:09 pm »
Don’t take this the wrong way just a bit of friendly advice.
Perhaps stop offering it for a while and see how it effects your bookings? Do you find there’s a big difference in clients wanting to top or bottom? If I loathe something I wouldn’t offer it, it’s not healthy both physically and mentally.
I prefer anal personally as opposed to vaginal and indulge in this more in both my working and personal life for years. It hasn’t caused my any bowel problems, yet, but I’m sure if it did I’d be less inclined to indulge.

Wow what makes you prefer anal over vaginal ? Do you always need an enema before you do it or can you go without ?
I've personally done anal a few times in my life and always found it horribly painful (never done it with clients though), no matter how well you prepare it, maybe it's a matter of habit or maybe sensitivity of that area varies from people to people

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« Reply #35 on: 13 June 2022, 02:45:15 pm »
pml these make me laugh ...

great client  comes fast ( but books n pays long booking )
 gets washed n fucks off after cuming
no cuddling or pillow talk

total opposite of decent bf yet we call it GFE lmao


ahahah I can relate to this 100% !

Ana66

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #36 on: 13 June 2022, 02:53:08 pm »
Also something I do as an escort that I would never do in civvy life is faking an orgasm. This is the base of our job to fake orgasms but I would never ever pretend to have an orgasm with a civvy guy if that was not the case. In fact, it's extremely rare that a guy manages to give me a real orgasm since I need to have feelings to get one.

Surprisingly I also love dirty talk in my civvy life but I never do this with clients (should normally be the other way round I know) as I find it so awkward and fake when it doesn't "come from the heart"

And finally something I would never do in my civvy life that I do as an escort is morning sex, I've always hated morning sex  :-X
« Last Edit: 13 June 2022, 03:14:38 pm by Ana66 »

Milf-G

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #37 on: 13 June 2022, 03:39:44 pm »
I never fake orgasms with clients. Let them know they're not doing a good enough job. A few times I've actually had to tell them to stop as they're too rough with fingers or tongue.

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« Reply #38 on: 13 June 2022, 03:47:10 pm »
Faking orgasms is definitely up there, especially on cam!  I have had a few clients over the years who have been able to hit the right buttons at the right time but they are very few & far between!

Wearing heavy make up...... On cam I tend to wear really heavy make up (Deep purples/Reds/Greens etc)  My husband says I look a little like a clown  ::) However, it seems to work with the cam clients

Smiling - My god........ When I am working I feel like I have to have a constant smile plastered on my face, simply because my natural expression is more like a resting bitch face that wants to gut you with a blunt knife  :angel: 

« Last Edit: 13 June 2022, 03:54:33 pm by bustybbwsteph »
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Ana66

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #39 on: 15 June 2022, 10:49:46 am »
I never fake orgasms with clients. Let them know they're not doing a good enough job. A few times I've actually had to tell them to stop as they're too rough with fingers or tongue.

wow I don't think I would dare telling them they are not doing a good job (I feel that 100% of my clients have no clue how to pleasure a woman anyway), I would be too scared of ruining the mood as we all know that men can get turned off by literally any tiny little thing. Obviously when they are too rough or hurt me I let them know otherwise when they asked me if I had an orgasm I always say yes aha

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #40 on: 15 June 2022, 11:15:51 am »
IMO, that’s the problem with offering a GFE, you’re having to consider your clients feelings and pride. I don’t, and never have, I just can’t pretend - I am very upfront about the fact it is highly unlikely I will have an orgasm and that I don’t fake it as for me, it would be deception -  I can’t do that just to make them feel great. Thankfully, my clients are grateful for my honesty about this. And maybe that’s the biggest different between escorting and dating for me, I can be far more honest with clients about myself than I ever could be with boyfriends.

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #41 on: 15 June 2022, 02:41:08 pm »
wow I don't think I would dare telling them they are not doing a good job (I feel that 100% of my clients have no clue how to pleasure a woman anyway), I would be too scared of ruining the mood as we all know that men can get turned off by literally any tiny little thing. Obviously when they are too rough or hurt me I let them know otherwise when they asked me if I had an orgasm I always say yes aha

I once faked it with a client who was rubbing my clit like a scratch card and after I pretended to cum he starts doing it again. Guys that say they want me to cum (through penetration) 1st - 75% of women don't cum through sex and I'm one of them. Usually though the RO is good. One bloke sounded like he was a dog lapping up milk and after about 30 seconds asked if I came, I told him, too noisy, too fast, not long enough. I didn't like him so had no qualms.

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #42 on: 15 June 2022, 02:42:44 pm »
IMO, that’s the problem with offering a GFE, you’re having to consider your clients feelings and pride. I don’t, and never have, I just can’t pretend - I am very upfront about the fact it is highly unlikely I will have an orgasm and that I don’t fake it as for me, it would be deception -  I can’t do that just to make them feel great. Thankfully, my clients are grateful for my honesty about this. And maybe that’s the biggest different between escorting and dating for me, I can be far more honest with clients about myself than I ever could be with boyfriends.

I do tell most of them I don't cum quickly. They see this as a challenge. If I'm stressed I almost certainly won't cum, need my mind to be free.

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #43 on: 15 June 2022, 04:18:38 pm »
I don't take orgasms but if they are good at oral then I do tend to cum quite easily and quite a lot with sex too.

I do seem to get a lot of hot guys who know what they are doing so lucky in that respect.

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Re: Things you do as an escort you'd never do in your civvy life
« Reply #44 on: 15 June 2022, 08:12:23 pm »

1. With a party client c..ke and I head to the bathroom to close the door the client says oh no leave it open I like seeing a girl take a shit. So I do my thing while chatting away I'm not going to let the situation hold me back from going as it is a longgggggg night ahead of me.

2. Charging 50quid to 100quid just to fart in clients face who requests for it in the meeting, I get money first then release. In Civvy life we hold in our farts as it is not lady like to fart in front of a male who you like dating etc. These are only with c..ke party clients  ;D

3. Being paid to eat dinner date and only do one time sex end of the meeting or no sex at all as most are full stuffed from food and drink I find these fun ;D

4. Pissing on a client in a wine glass and he drinks it but in civy life when bursting to go mid sex stop half way to go toilet then return to real sex cant piss on the civy guy.