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Worried93

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Things going missing.
« on: 09 March 2017, 02:08:13 pm »
I recently had a bottle of perfume go missing from my bathroom after a meet, I didn't notice so I'm not sure who took it. I'd never used it because it'd be a Christmas present and smelt horrible so he'd done me a favour really.

So I was thinking has anyone else ever had anything random go missing after seeing a client?

(Not sure if this has been done before I couldn't find a thread.)

Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Things going missing.
« Reply #1 on: 09 March 2017, 02:15:05 pm »
I once had a guy steal from my bedroom and my bathroom, I put him into a warning section here.
When I was in a flatshare I had a few fancy make up things disappear as well. And that was during weeks I had no clients. One of the reasons I've left that flatshare, I knew it wasn't my flatmate but her "mates" were regularly using my bathroom as well.

I had no problems since then but just in case my most expensive stuff is no longer in my bathroom. And I would notice immediately if something went missing.

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« Reply #2 on: 09 March 2017, 02:24:38 pm »
Rule of thumb should always be : Never have on display in any part of your apartment anything that you don't want to lose.  This works well when touring too when there aren't so many places to hide things and works especially when doing out calls. Always wear cheap jewellery that if you forget or lose won't cause you to lose any sleep or get stressed about.
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Aqua Allegoria

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« Reply #3 on: 09 March 2017, 02:36:17 pm »
And this does not specifically apply to our job.
When at the uni I was giving private classes. You would not believe the number of things (make up, perfume, shoes once) that went missing from mine.
And my students were mostly young girls ffs.

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« Reply #4 on: 09 March 2017, 03:09:01 pm »
I have had the odd idiot who has emptied all shower gels and mouthwash on their shower after service.  Have had knickers stolen on booking.

When I worked in Ireland there were a small number of ladies who had gone to check bathroom after client left to find the twat had shit on the floor.  So now before client leaves I check bathroom quickly saying I just making sure they not left anything behind accidentally.

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« Reply #5 on: 09 March 2017, 03:23:53 pm »
I have had the odd idiot who has emptied all shower gels and mouthwash on their shower after service.  Have had knickers stolen on booking.

When I worked in Ireland there were a small number of ladies who had gone to check bathroom after client left to find the twat had shit on the floor.  So now before client leaves I check bathroom quickly saying I just making sure they not left anything behind accidentally.

+1. Besides I already had guys really forget stuff or leave it on purpose.

95% of my clients leave their clothes in my room, so a guy going into my bathroom naked can't hide stuff.
Very few guys are paranoid or take their clothes and bag with them into the bathroom. Because I start hot water for them and pull the curtain behind them I leave the bathroom door a little bit open. Just a finger space really so that their privacy is respected but the door is not fully closed. I also ask them not to lock themselves in my bathroom but that's common sense for me: if they slip or faint I need to be able to open the door.


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« Reply #6 on: 09 March 2017, 04:29:38 pm »
In my work bedroom I have a set of drawers containing underwear and stockings also jewellery and other bits and bobs but none of the jewellery is worth more than a fiver, I wear cheap bling for bookings. The drawers are very heavy and not easy slide open and close and I have a little trick I use so I know if any have been attempted when I am off to the bathroom or kitchen. There's nothing of value at all in my bathroom but if he wants to nick a worn down lipstick and bar of soap he is welcome to them.

I never leave the room for more than a couple of minutes max and I know it only takes a moment to steal something but I make sure nothing whatsoever with any identification is in that room. I have a second bedroom which contains more expensive underwear and anything I want to keep hidden and no man has ever been able to get in there.  Once though I found a man in my work room fingering some things hanging up on a hook, just babydolls etc and as I came in with his drink he quickly turned to me and said he was "only looking"  ::)

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Re: Things going missing.
« Reply #7 on: 09 March 2017, 05:05:03 pm »
I've not yet had anything stolen apart from cash asked for at knife point.

I don't have expensive perfume or toilettries, I rarely wear perfume, if I do it lasts until it goes off.

I have been accused of taking a client's watch on an outcall. It was years ago and a few days after the booking he emailed asking had I mistaken the watch put down on the bedside cabinet for a present. He told me it wasn't valuable in terms of money, it belonged to a deceased relative so was of sentimental value.

I hadn't even been aware of a watch being put there, and most certainly had not taken it. I could understand him letting someone unknown into his house could bring up doubts in his mind. I always encourage anyone to make sure they know where everything is at all times, no matter who is around. Poor choices in friends at certain points in my life have caused me many more losses than anyone I've come into contact with connected to sex work.

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« Reply #8 on: 09 March 2017, 05:20:21 pm »
Rule of thumb should always be : Never have on display in any part of your apartment anything that you don't want to lose.  This works well when touring too when there aren't so many places to hide things and works especially when doing out calls. Always wear cheap jewellery that if you forget or lose won't cause you to lose any sleep or get stressed about.
lol never put your toothbrush on display either , who knows what someone might do to it

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« Reply #9 on: 09 March 2017, 05:23:52 pm »
lol never put your toothbrush on display either , who knows what someone might do to it

That's a golden rule :) Also combs / hair brushes. No way they can touch that:)

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« Reply #10 on: 09 March 2017, 07:23:09 pm »
Recently had a expensive silk skirt stolen from hotel staff thought it was a client at first . Had panties taken and high PVC boots some one stole 4 bottles of water from my mini bar cost me a tenna on check out grr X

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Re: Things going missing.
« Reply #11 on: 10 March 2017, 12:47:29 am »
The only things that need to be in bathroom for them is one clean towel, cheap shower gel and mouth wash. I keep all my stuff hiden in the bedroom.

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« Reply #12 on: 10 March 2017, 01:02:32 am »
Recently had a expensive silk skirt stolen from hotel staff thought it was a client at first . Had panties taken and high PVC boots some one stole 4 bottles of water from my mini bar cost me a tenna on check out grr X

?10 for water, I would of had a heart attack!!

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« Reply #13 on: 13 March 2017, 05:10:17 pm »
yep, dont leave anything of value in your working bedroom or bathroom you dont want to go walkies-yep, some will go through your drawers while you are stashing the cash elsewhere-and do that -never leave your fee in the same room, ive had cash, jewellry clothes, just to my knowledge disapear.

But just as important, never put youself in a position where you can be accused of stealing, ive had two clients (both nice about it though) one couldnt find his wallet, another his wedding ring, (both later rang me to say the ring was on the pavement outside and the wallet slipped down in the car!)-but its not a nice feeling.

My advice is, if you offer a shower, take cash first and stash somewhere else in the house, telling them you are going into another room so you wont be left alone with their clothes if they dont take them with them ,and to shut the door loudly when they are ready and you will return, finally, when they are ready to leave,do the same again if they shower again, and I always escort them down the stairs making a point of saying, "now then, have you got everything, wallet, phone, keys?"-they physically check-its often then they realise if theyve left a watch in the bathroom etc!
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Re: Things going missing.
« Reply #14 on: 13 March 2017, 05:22:11 pm »
yep, dont leave anything of value in your working bedroom or bathroom you dont want to go walkies-yep, some will go through your drawers while you are stashing the cash elsewhere-and do that -never leave your fee in the same room, ive had cash, jewellry clothes, just to my knowledge disapear.

But just as important, never put youself in a position where you can be accused of stealing, ive had two clients (both nice about it though) one couldnt find his wallet, another his wedding ring, (both later rang me to say the ring was on the pavement outside and the wallet slipped down in the car!)-but its not a nice feeling.

My advice is, if you offer a shower, take cash first and stash somewhere else in the house, telling them you are going into another room so you wont be left alone with their clothes if they dont take them with them ,and to shut the door loudly when they are ready and you will return, finally, when they are ready to leave,do the same again if they shower again, and I always escort them down the stairs making a point of saying, "now then, have you got everything, wallet, phone, keys?"-they physically check-its often then they realise if theyve left a watch in the bathroom etc!
Never had anything stolen and like you I don't like being left alone with their belongings so I go into the kitchen and clatter about until they come out. I also always ask them as they are heading out.."Now do you have your wallet, watch, phone, keys and specs?" I also check they have their flies zipped up as some forget...lol.