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Mirror

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4455 on: 10 December 2024, 12:24:10 pm »
Man books outcall. I made it clear that I charge extra £20 if the distance is over 45 minutes long. He has been on all the map apps, and sending me details about how it's only 40 minutes to get to him. I said that's fine, but if there is traffic, he will need to pay the extra. He has paid a deposit, but is telling me not to leave unless I can agree not to charge the £20. I give up.

I've had potential clients tell me locations are only a short distance, tell me "15 minutes from such a town", I know it's twice that. I figure it out myself and tell them the fee, if they don't like it I won't accept the booking. If theres serious congestion or road closure I may decide to not accept the booking, advance bookings I just set off early but dont charge any extra. If simply wouldn't leave for someone who is arguing.

How suggesting you take anything over the 40 minutes travel time off his booking, and again for the journey back?

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« Reply #4456 on: 10 December 2024, 12:56:46 pm »
I've had potential clients tell me locations are only a short distance, tell me "15 minutes from such a town", I know it's twice that. I figure it out myself and tell them the fee, if they don't like it I won't accept the booking. If theres serious congestion or road closure I may decide to not accept the booking, advance bookings I just set off early but dont charge any extra. If simply wouldn't leave for someone who is arguing.

How suggesting you take anything over the 40 minutes travel time off his booking, and again for the journey back?

I charge extra because I know that I'm potentially missing an hour's booking either side. The guy is still getting shirty. I took my dogs out and have returned to messages that demand his deposit back, and then ask politely if he can come to me. Weird.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4457 on: 13 December 2024, 10:46:19 am »
Client came yesterday, and spent the entire time asking if I'd imagined doing this job as a child  ??? and when I planned on retiring. He came really bloody quickly too, so I imagine he was just trying to deflect from his embarrassment by asking stupid questions...

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« Reply #4458 on: 13 December 2024, 11:08:37 am »
Client came yesterday, and spent the entire time asking if I'd imagined doing this job as a child?.
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That is a seriously dodgy thing for a client to say. Creepy in the extreme. I've heard of 'just making conversation ' but urgh. A child wouldn't know this job exists.

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« Reply #4459 on: 13 December 2024, 11:26:58 am »
That's what I thought. I spoke to a friend after, and she just said how weird and creepy it was too. She thinks he was trying to make me feel ashamed, but he needs to try alot harder than that.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4460 on: 30 December 2024, 06:29:43 pm »
The fact I have "I DO NOT ANSWER CALLS. TEXT ME PLEASE" on all my ads 1st line, yet they'll spam call me and act oblivious when I pull them up on it

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4461 on: 02 January 2025, 05:02:35 pm »
When they tell you they're "new to this", as if it's going to get them special treatment.
There is such a thing as a stupid question and there is not a first time for everything.

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« Reply #4462 on: 02 January 2025, 05:40:44 pm »
I've been getting lots of contact referring to an advert on Erobella. I am not on that site, and don't know why my profile is appearing there, but I'm getting tonnes of requests for BB from it. Really annoying. They ask for creampies and BB, which I do not offer  :FF

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« Reply #4463 on: 02 January 2025, 07:16:34 pm »
Why do they say they are new or this is their first time? I could believe it if they were very young 20/21 but the others I'm like... okay so?

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« Reply #4464 on: 02 January 2025, 09:25:47 pm »
Why do they say they are new or this is their first time? I could believe it if they were very young 20/21 but the others I'm like... okay so?

I'm pretty sure it's special treatment they think they can get. I just ignore it.

I have seen some clients that say it and towards the end of the booking they say they once saw an escort X years ago. Yeah well you're not new to this then, are you?

There is such a thing as a stupid question and there is not a first time for everything.

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« Reply #4465 on: 03 January 2025, 05:59:19 am »
Why do they say they are new or this is their first time? I could believe it if they were very young 20/21 but the others I'm like... okay so?

I think some are genuine, but it's interesting when 'I haven't don't this before, I'm new to this' have 2 years worth of warning reports. ::)

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« Reply #4466 on: 03 January 2025, 09:32:07 am »
It's the 'This' which irritates me. Like what they're doing is so disgusting that they can't bring themselves to say punting or prostitutes or even some crap euphemism like 'seeing escorts'. I ask them whether that's what they mean or is it that they never had sex before.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4467 on: 03 January 2025, 06:46:55 pm »
I've been getting lots of contact referring to an advert on Erobella. I am not on that site, and don't know why my profile is appearing there, but I'm getting tonnes of requests for BB from it. Really annoying. They ask for creampies and BB, which I do not offer  :FF

Yes me too, it's likely they have lifted part of your AW profile assuming you have one? Which is the case with me.
I did get a message a while ago from Erobella saying unless personal details were supplied for verification purposes I assume, then the advert would be removed, obviously I have no intention of supplying them and was looking forward to the lifted content being removed but annoyingly it hasn't happened yet.
Another rude text from a punter off there today, "You available now" followed by ???? when no response was given .... charming.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4468 on: 03 January 2025, 07:07:15 pm »
It's the 'This' which irritates me. Like what they're doing is so disgusting that they can't bring themselves to say punting or prostitutes or even some crap euphemism like 'seeing escorts'. I ask them whether that's what they mean or is it that they never had sex before.

I had an experienced punter saying 'I am new to this' when he was paying a deposit, in this case I think it was because he had never made a bank transfer previously - possibly to anyone. It still reminded me of the 'new to this' saying, for some it seems almost like a mantra to use.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4469 on: 03 January 2025, 07:22:05 pm »
Yes me too, it's likely they have lifted part of your AW profile assuming you have one? Which is the case with me.
I did get a message a while ago from Erobella saying unless personal details were supplied for verification purposes I assume, then the advert would be removed, obviously I have no intention of supplying them and was looking forward to the lifted content being removed but annoyingly it hasn't happened yet.
Another rude text from a punter off there today, "You available now" followed by ???? when no response was given .... charming.

I'm so glad that I'm not the only one. I haven't had any contact from Erobella at all, and I did have a sneaky look, but couldn't find my supposed profile on there. It's very strange, and bloody annoying. Whatever they have there doesn't advertise my actual services either, or people wouldn't keep asking for BB. I don't get it.  :FF