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Lushblossom

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4365 on: 26 July 2024, 01:38:24 pm »
I let slip recently to a regular that I have a boyfriend. Now he won't stop asking personal questions like does he know what you do, does he mind guys make me cum plus lots more

Clients at times can be so nosey can't they lol!

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4366 on: 27 July 2024, 06:15:50 pm »
Breathing  ;D

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4367 on: 29 July 2024, 03:20:31 pm »
When they make an enquiry and ask if they can discuss things.

I know they're paying a lot of money but in essence it's just a shag for an hour or two, not a life partner.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4368 on: 29 July 2024, 03:26:21 pm »
Some if them are so damn nosey. That's why anything I share with them is a lie!

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« Reply #4369 on: 29 July 2024, 08:04:54 pm »
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I know they're paying a lot of money but in essence it's just a shag for an hour or two, not a life partner.

But surely they're paying for the whole experience as well? otherwise it's just an overdone wank?

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« Reply #4370 on: 30 July 2024, 09:00:20 am »
But surely they're paying for the whole experience as well? otherwise it's just an overdone wank?

Maybe so but I remember a time when there was none of this gfe nonsense.

Even kissing wasn't expected

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« Reply #4371 on: 30 July 2024, 06:49:40 pm »
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Maybe so but I remember a time when there was none of this gfe nonsense.

Fair enough.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4372 on: 30 July 2024, 07:21:57 pm »
Maybe so but I remember a time when there was none of this gfe nonsense.

Even kissing wasn't expected


I remember it too, and I still always did kissing; I don't like bookings without it and never have.

The big change I've found is punters thinking we want to get our rocks off or receive some physical gratification, and I find that tiring and irritating. Previously it was fine to be friendly, welcoming and enthusiastic and do your service without having to pretend you're there for any reason other than the cash and everybody involved was perfectly happy with and aware of that.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4373 on: 30 July 2024, 10:54:10 pm »

The big change I've found is punters thinking we want to get our rocks off or receive some physical gratification, and I find that tiring and irritating.

Lots of clients want me to come. I assume that’s part of the GFE. Maybe they are watching too many cam girls and expect the same for escorting  ::) I don’t mind it but usually I have to make sure my wand is charged up.

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« Reply #4374 on: 31 July 2024, 02:58:07 pm »
Many of my clients expect/want me to orgasm and it's draining to keep faking it. Although it can be a good way to kill time  ;D
Annoyingly when I do occasionally orgasm for real, they're like was that real? You were so quiet  :FF

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4375 on: 14 August 2024, 11:40:34 am »
Kissing me, shoving their tongue down my throat, trying to suck on my tongue, trying to pull me close to their sweaty bodies, thinking I actually like them, asking for bareback, dirty talk.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4376 on: 18 August 2024, 03:06:39 pm »
Over passionate roughness use of teeth with hard sucking when kissing, same with breaststroke as well as grabbing too hard. I am patient incase it's a one off moment, but if continues or gets stronger I tactfully explain. Happens at least once with most regulars over many, many bookings but recently I've had a spate which has left me a little stunned.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4377 on: 19 August 2024, 09:11:25 am »
Kissing me, shoving their tongue down my throat, trying to suck on my tongue, trying to pull me close to their sweaty bodies, thinking I actually like them, asking for bareback, dirty talk.
I think you may be in the wrong job tbh

amy

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4378 on: 19 August 2024, 06:59:12 pm »
I think you may be in the wrong job tbh

Why? Everybody is allowed a bad day and everybody is allowed to not like their job all or any of the time. That doesn't mean they shouldn't be doing it, because their choices and reasons for making them are nobody's business but their own. And we don't know what your job is since you decided on the above as your first post rather than introducing yourself, which some would say was an interesting choice.

Part of the reason SAAFE has a forum is so that people can safely have a rant rather than taking it out on their customers and possibly losing money as a result. Nobody tells an accountant or bus driver or nurse that they're in the wrong job just because sometimes they have a shit time at work, and we don't want people here to feel they have to pretend everything is always great (and I know sex workers sometimes do to avoid everything negative they say being jumped on by the fuckwit abolitionists).

Posters can and should use this thread and this board for the purpose intended, and moaning about work with one's peers is one of those purposes :)

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4379 on: 20 August 2024, 10:24:09 am »
I’m fed up of these nosey fuckers the first time I meet a new client they BOMBARD me with the same questions.
 ‘How long have you been doing THIS ‘ what made you start?’
‘do you have another job’ ‘does anyone know you escort’

It really puts me on the spot. There’s even a section on my website that says avoid personal question.  :FF :FF :FF :FF :FF