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fallen angel

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3390 on: 28 March 2021, 03:33:30 pm »
My fear of restricting showers ( especially before the session) is the very high probability of SAABS (smelly arse and balls syndrome)....Taking a shower at home doesnt guarantee there wont be fart particles and sweat lingering ..... bad smells traumatise me ....... ;)  i cant take the risk

I don't restrict showers, I actively encourage one on arrival but guys who think the time they have booked will be wholey taken up with sexual activity, especially when they only book 30 mins,  then assume showers go into extra time are rude and unrealistic.
Personally I don't give a damn if they don't have one before leaving.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3391 on: 30 March 2021, 05:33:13 pm »
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3392 on: 30 March 2021, 11:00:43 pm »
On one of my last bookings the client said at the end, does this job pay you well? And if I ever need any money just to call him  :FF :FF first of all I’m never going to tell you if my job pays me well and even if it does or it doesn’t the last person I would go to would be a client, never mind someone Iv known for one hour!!

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3393 on: 31 March 2021, 12:51:54 am »
This is less of an "annoyance", more just weird. I went to a booking and he had his laptop open with my adultwork page on display. He'd placed his computer on the couch with it turned to face the door, like he wanted me to see it when I walked it. He made no mention of it either. Really strange...
I stopped seeing him because he was showing signs of passive aggressiveness/manipulation so I think maybe this was one of his tactics, but I don't quite get what it would achieve other than confusion on my end? Haha

I'd also be wary of something like that in that he may be filming.
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3394 on: 31 March 2021, 01:28:55 am »
I'd also be wary of something like that in that he may be filming.

My thoughts exactly,  open laptop facing the door ....very dodgy indeed

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« Reply #3395 on: 31 March 2021, 08:11:54 am »
On one of my last bookings the client said at the end, does this job pay you well? And if I ever need any money just to call him  :FF :FF first of all I’m never going to tell you if my job pays me well and even if it does or it doesn’t the last person I would go to would be a client, never mind someone Iv known for one hour!!

Had someone last night say 'this job must pay well' to which I replied 'well yours must do too' as he was an Engineer. I really hate when they ask intrusive questions and make comments.

I'd also be wary of something like that in that he may be filming.

Yes I wouldn't have been happy with this.
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3396 on: 31 March 2021, 02:05:24 pm »
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3397 on: 31 March 2021, 02:49:38 pm »
This is less of an "annoyance", more just weird. I went to a booking and he had his laptop open with my adultwork page on display. He'd placed his computer on the couch with it turned to face the door, like he wanted me to see it when I walked it. He made no mention of it either. Really strange...
I stopped seeing him because he was showing signs of passive aggressiveness/manipulation so I think maybe this was one of his tactics, but I don't quite get what it would achieve other than confusion on my end? Haha

This is his way of making you know he has read your profile, and he knows what services you offer, so don't be telling him you don't do XYZ because it's right there on your profile!  ::)

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3398 on: 31 March 2021, 06:51:48 pm »
The thing is with showers, why would you expect that time to be outside of any time booked? I don't turn up for an hour long appointment at my therapists expecting him to give me ten minutes extra? My time is paid for, anything outside of that is me losing money!
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« Reply #3399 on: 01 April 2021, 12:33:42 am »
This regular rings about tomorrow such and such time, then half talks to himself about the cheaper option-'but I want rather more...services', I'm silent, as he's got a rep for moaning about my fee recently and deciding his day's too busy to fit me in.

He'll call tomorrow 'when he sorts out his day.' I got shit to do and a sunny day to enjoy tomorrow. So I tell him I'm unwilling to be on standby for his grand entrance. He's done this several times before and I'm not up for being on his waiting list. I tell him not to call me again.

His reply...'I accept I've been rather indecisive. I have guilt problems. I'm sorry'.
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fallen angel

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3400 on: 01 April 2021, 08:31:21 am »
The thing is with showers, why would you expect that time to be outside of any time booked? I don't turn up for an hour long appointment at my therapists expecting him to give me ten minutes extra? My time is paid for, anything outside of that is me losing money!

Exactly, when I book a massage the therapist will finish 5 mins before the time is up to allow for dressing before leaving but for some reason there are guys who think they are being shortchanged if we do the same thing.

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« Reply #3401 on: 01 April 2021, 05:33:17 pm »
Exactly, when I book a massage the therapist will finish 5 mins before the time is up to allow for dressing before leaving but for some reason there are guys who think they are being shortchanged if we do the same thing.

Because they don't look at us charging money for sex as a serious job so the rules do not apply to them of normal business practices. They suddenly become self entiltled and apply a mindset of not taking our time as anything professional or serious.

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« Reply #3402 on: 01 April 2021, 07:19:11 pm »
Because they don't look at us charging money for sex as a serious job so the rules do not apply to them of normal business practices. They suddenly become self entiltled and apply a mindset of not taking our time as anything professional or serious.

Best explanation ever!

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3403 on: 01 April 2021, 08:01:45 pm »
The thing is with showers, why would you expect that time to be outside of any time booked? I don't turn up for an hour long appointment at my therapists expecting him to give me ten minutes extra? My time is paid for, anything outside of that is me losing money!

Oh I can’t stand clients that think they’re entitled to stay over their time they’ve paid for, this also goes for clients that think I would want to spend any time with them or stay in touch with them out of work. Most clients don’t understand that we’re just very good at our job which is to make them feel good about themselves in the specific time paid for!

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3404 on: 01 April 2021, 08:09:24 pm »
Because they don't look at us charging money for sex as a serious job so the rules do not apply to them of normal business practices. They suddenly become self entiltled and apply a mindset of not taking our time as anything professional or serious.

Exactly, they don't see it the same as any other paid service at all. I've said before, I hate how escorts get accused of being clock watchers for keeping to time in bookings.

Never, when I've paid for a service elsewhere, has the session run over.