Author Topic: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!! (Read 749322 times)

Daria00 · « **Reply #1485 on:** 10 January 2017, 09:15:02 am »

Today I had cancelation at 8.40am for 10am. All good but I had to wake up at 7 am to have a plenty of time to relax and get ready before. I am angry now because I couldn't sleep last night till 12.30am. I not sure if the topic is right but it really annoying me when they cancel morning appointments after I am nearly ready.

Lucie268 · « **Reply #1486 on:** 10 January 2017, 09:53:17 am »

Quote from: Chatterly on 05 January 2017, 11:12:20 pm

When they sound confident & reasonably intelligent on the phone when they book, but seem to regress mentally when they arrive...

Mr Clueless "you're really pretty you don't need to do this"
Me "what do you mean by that?"
Mr Clueless " you could get a man & a normal job easily"
Me becoming more irritated " well this isn't the 1950's, women support themselves these days & are happy being single etc. What have looks intellect got to do with being a sex worker? There are stunning women working in this industry, you ever seen a porn film? Well a lot of porn stars become escorts. Some escorts even have degree's"

I hate that. So patronising. I had one tell me I should settle down, and that this work 'eats away at your soul'. So... you're eating away at my soul right now then?

It bugs me that men have this attitude but then see escorts anyway. Kind of like the flipside to the guys who see escorts but when they're rejected by one start hurling insults about being a dirty whore etc. Either way they look down on us, but are happy to consume our labour.

TrashAzn · « **Reply #1487 on:** 10 January 2017, 12:43:09 pm »

Quote from: Lucie268 on 10 January 2017, 09:53:17 am

I hate that. So patronising. I had one tell me I should settle down, and that this work 'eats away at your soul'. So... you're eating away at my soul right now then?

It bugs me that men have this attitude but then see escorts anyway. Kind of like the flipside to the guys who see escorts but when they're rejected by one start hurling insults about being a dirty whore etc. Either way they look down on us, but are happy to consume our labour.

They just have the mindset that having a man and being married = happiness, it's funny when I tell them that I have a boyfriend and then they say stuff like "If I was your boyfriend I would support you and not let you do this". Nobody asked your opinion dickhead like my boyfriend is my pimp or something, I can make my own life decisions I don't want some controlling nutcase in my life. They get equally confused when I show ambition saying stuff like I'm a university student and I also work as a freelance graphic designer and illustrator.

I've lost count of the amount of guys who talked about marrying me, like my life would be better living with them in their tiny one bedroom flat staying in all day while they go to work in the factory.

Luciexx · « **Reply #1488 on:** 10 January 2017, 10:14:16 pm »

It's an subject, which might warrant its own thread. Loads of escorts started off at a later life after living in civvies life. Some escorts started off from a very young age and move onto do normal stuff. I wonder if you get this shite more often if you were very young.

Men fall in love easily if they are younger and a bit naive, after seeing young gorgeous escorts. Maybe, they say these things, as a result of poor social skills, bad enough not to get laid for free, having to pay..not out of their choice, hate paying..etc.. They think ..hey, you can give it for free anytime as I'm available and single ! Cock speaks, absolutely no sense whatsoever, but some men can't help themselves, unable to hide stupidity in front of young women. If there's a chance to get regular sex on tap, they will try on .. Really, a real stupid move. Block and move on.

Guiltypleasure · « **Reply #1489 on:** 10 January 2017, 10:52:25 pm »

Quote from: Daria00 on 10 January 2017, 09:15:02 am

Today I had cancelation at 8.40am for 10am. All good but I had to wake up at 7 am to have a plenty of time to relax and get ready before. I am angry now because I couldn't sleep last night till 12.30am. I not sure if the topic is right but it really annoying me when they cancel morning appointments after I am nearly ready.

I had exact same this morning , late night , overlaid in bed up at 8 rushing around but he's coming tomorrow morning sounded plausible and pleasant ..

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #1490 on:** 10 January 2017, 11:21:25 pm »

I had a 6am this morning. Got up at 5.30. Would have been fucking fuming if that one had cancelled! Mind you I had one at 7am as well!
(they both turned up)
Last minute cancellations drive me bonkers. Like at 5 mins to the appointment time I've already run round arranging the room, getting the cat off the bed, locking all my personal shit away, mouthwash etc. At that point it might as well be a no show for the time it's wasted.

I don't mind so much when I'm touring cos I'm always sat in my whore clothes anyway, on cam. I only pack the laptop away when they ring from the car park.

Daria00 · « **Reply #1491 on:** 11 January 2017, 09:04:44 am »

I have another one today for 10 am x told him to confirm at 7.30 to ensure that we are both awake. He is my regular but after yesterday I will check on them before I make a move from bed. Still they may not come or cancel even they confirm but it gives me a litter bit of comfort.

Jill · « **Reply #1492 on:** 11 January 2017, 12:35:20 pm »

I have this niggle which some new men do when they come in. I open the door and greet them nicely and they walk in straight past me and along the hall, their backs are to me and not only that they have walked past the door I want them to go in, the bedroom!
I have to say "stop" and ask them to turn around. It annoys me a lot but have to stay polite and make a joke of it with them.

KittenCandy · « **Reply #1493 on:** 11 January 2017, 01:52:12 pm »

Making me ask for me fee.

this really irritates me. Had a reg do this recently. He usually always sets the money out before heading to the shower but this time he didn't. To me it doesn't matter how many times I've seen you, I want my money first. This is why you are here. To pay me to fuck you. I understand giving me the money first reminds you that I'm not into you and I'm just here for the money but just set it to the side or something you don't have to put it in my hand. I had a reg who would get upset when I asked for the money, he would say I would give it to you in the end, you know I always do. I don't understand why he got upset though. If I wasn't confident enough to ask for my cash, I would angrily and ferociously wank their cock and give a shit service cuz how can you forget to pay? The whole time I would just be thinking about the money I don't have in my pocket, thinking he might do a runner. I'm basically fucking you for free if I don't get money first.

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #1494 on:** 11 January 2017, 02:59:28 pm »

Quote from: Jessica201 on 11 January 2017, 01:52:12 pm

Making me ask for me fee. this really irritates me. Had a reg do this recently. He usually always sets the money out before heading to the shower but this time he didn't. To me it doesn't matter how many times I've seen you, I want my money first. This is why you are here. To pay me to fuck you. I understand giving me the money first reminds you that I'm not into you and I'm just here for the money but just set it to the side or something you don't have to put it in my hand. I had a reg who would get upset when I asked for the money, he would say I would give it to you in the end, you know I always do. I don't understand why he got upset though. If I wasn't confident enough to ask for my cash, I would angrily and ferociously wank their cock and give a shit service cuz how can you forget to pay? The whole time I would just be thinking about the money I don't have in my pocket, thinking he might do a runner. I'm basically fucking you for free if I don't get money first.

I find about 50% of guys get their cash out before I ask for it. To get past the awkwardness, I now have a set phrase. I get them in the door, ask them if they found parking okay, ooh isn't it cold, you can take your shoes off, come on through to the bedroom. Then it's "It was an hour you wanted, wasn't it? That's 120 then please" and then just wait for them to get it out. I never deviate from this. I've only had one guy raise his eyebrows and say "Oh you want that now?" to which I raised my own eyebrows back and said "Yes!?"

Fliss · « **Reply #1495 on:** 11 January 2017, 06:00:53 pm »

When a client tells you 'you are expensive but worth it'.

This happened today and I just had to correct him by saying actually I'm mid-range for this area....

amy · « **Reply #1496 on:** 11 January 2017, 07:03:14 pm »

Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 11 January 2017, 02:59:28 pm

I find about 50% of guys get their cash out before I ask for it. To get past the awkwardness, I now have a set phrase. I get them in the door, ask them if they found parking okay, ooh isn't it cold, you can take your shoes off, come on through to the bedroom. Then it's "It was an hour you wanted, wasn't it? That's 120 then please" and then just wait for them to get it out. I never deviate from this. I've only had one guy raise his eyebrows and say "Oh you want that now?" to which I raised my own eyebrows back and said "Yes!?"

Yes, that's exactly what I do. 'Now it was a half hour wasn't it so that's 80 - why thank you!'

. I do find most pay without need a prod, but it saves messing about.

amy · « **Reply #1497 on:** 11 January 2017, 07:12:44 pm »

My contribution for today is giving you a running commentary while you're trying to direct them, ie talking straight across you when you're speaking so they not only can't listen to or concentrate on what you're saying properly but you can't concentrate either because you're being bombarded with 'I'm just coming past a wall!' and other gems (although that's maybe much harder for me being deaf, since the only ear I have that half works is being bellowed at).

I've learnt to manage it by stopping completely and when they eventually have to draw breath I ask them if there's anything else they want to say, then say 'Good! Now I can speak and we can both hear each other properly!' in the most nauseatingly pleasant and upbeat tone possible

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Jill · « **Reply #1498 on:** 11 January 2017, 07:13:52 pm »

Occasionally a new man will make no move to pay so I politely ask, they smile and say oh yes of course but take their time, making sure they fiddle about putting the jacket on the hanger or untying the shoes first, trying to make me look daft. It does not work as they are the ones not playing the game properly.
I just stand there and wait because until the cash is in my hand they are not getting so much as a kiss.

Jill · « **Reply #1499 on:** 11 January 2017, 07:21:01 pm »

Quote from: amy on 11 January 2017, 07:12:44 pm

My contribution for today is giving you a running commentary while you're trying to direct them, ie talking straight across you when you're speaking so they not only can't listen to or concentrate on what you're saying properly but you can't concentrate either because you're being bombarded with 'I'm just coming past a wall!' and other gems (although that's maybe much harder for me being deaf, since the only ear I have that half works is being bellowed at).

I've learnt to manage it by stopping completely and when they eventually have to draw breath I ask them if there's anything else they want to say, then say 'Good! Now I can speak and we can both hear each other properly!' in the most nauseatingly pleasant and upbeat tone possible .

Yes I get that with new men. Talking over me on the phone and interrupting when I am trying to direct them to park. It is when they answer my question of where exactly they are when the satnav. drops them at the postcode I give them, they reply "next to a house with a fence" or "in Holly Avenue" and they seem surprised when I then ask which direction they are facing so I can tell them where to park or drive to. Being in a particular road is one thing but I need to know if they are facing the right way to help them get to me.

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