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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #690 on: 25 October 2015, 11:06:50 am »
The continuous emails asking me to meet them on days I'm not available then getting annoyed because I don't get back to them
I'm part time I'm not a 24hr tesco !

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #691 on: 25 October 2015, 11:25:01 am »
Sending super long essays with what they want. How are we supposed to remember if we were to see them? Keep referring back to their messages? lol
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #692 on: 25 October 2015, 01:04:10 pm »
Sending super long essays with what they want. How are we supposed to remember if we were to see them? Keep referring back to their messages? lol
Yes I get this long email describing the booking I would have to keep looking at this stupid email if I took his booking

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #693 on: 25 October 2015, 04:06:25 pm »
I don't mind if they are vague asking about a certain day (i.e. are you available tomorrow) I'll just reply asking what time they were thinking. However, asking for the week/month etc is just TW tactics.
The thing with me is that when they ask if I am available tomorrow and I respond with "Yes, what time would you like to come see me?" They usually never respond. Probably because they did a copy and paste and sent to various other escorts and someone else responded  before me. But common sense would say, "I want a same day booking so perhaps I should call her as she may not be sitting round on her computer waiting to respond to emails" Either that or they just do it for kicks. I don't bother replying to them now, especially if I know that I am not free as I get the odd cow that don't bother acknowledging responses regardless if you say you are free or not.  I even had one client ask me what time I was free today, I told him that I am free all day, he then replied, so what time are you free? again I said all day.We went back and forth like this about four times. Perhaps I need to work on my responses? To me, free all day means anytime is good and suggests that you can pick anytime you like to come around. Maybe I'm wrong> ??? Someone help me here

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #694 on: 25 October 2015, 04:29:39 pm »
I do the same as midsstudent and most of the time they reply with a time (the ones who have feedback anyway). I ignore 0 feedback guys to save time. I learnt very quickly only around 1/20 turns into a real booking and I didn't want to keep wasting my time.
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #695 on: 25 October 2015, 04:31:35 pm »
I even had one client ask me what time I was free today, I told him that I am free all day, he then replied, so what time are you free? again I said all day.We went back and forth like this about four times. Perhaps I need to work on my responses? To me, free all day means anytime is good and suggests that you can pick anytime you like to come around. Maybe I'm wrong> ??? Someone help me here

Suggest a time to 'close' the sale, I'd say. I've had it happen before that they also have a very open schedule and want YOU to suggest a time. The worst case, you realize they are faffing about. Best case scenario, you avoid email ping-pong and set an appointment.
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #696 on: 26 October 2015, 07:13:26 pm »
Yes I also find the emailers who ask for same day bookings rarely come to anything but I answer still and normally say I am and would they prefer afternoon or evening.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #697 on: 01 November 2015, 05:54:35 pm »
'Are you available for a booking on Friday?'
'I'm sorry but I'm not available on Friday.'
'Are you sure?'

'Are you available at xx:xx on Tuesday?'
'Unfortunately I can only do from/before xx:xx'
'Are you sure you can't do xx:xx?'

YES, I'M FUCKING SURE. I can't stand these idiots. Under what circumstances would I not be sure? Has the answer ever been 'Nah, you're right. I'm lying in order to not get paid.'

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #698 on: 01 November 2015, 06:12:58 pm »
'Are you available for a booking on Friday?'
'I'm sorry but I'm not available on Friday.'
'Are you sure?'

'Are you available at xx:xx on Tuesday?'
'Unfortunately I can only do from/before xx:xx'
'Are you sure you can't do xx:xx?'

YES, I'M FUCKING SURE. I can't stand these idiots. Under what circumstances would I not be sure? Has the answer ever been 'Nah, you're right. I'm lying in order to not get paid.'

Had this recently. My availability was on my profile but he still asked when I was free. I typed it all out again for him, then he asked for a tyme I had just listed as not free. I said, 'As I said, I'm not free at that time. Can do from x time on that day.' His response: 'I would really like an earlier time than that. Can you not make an exception for me?'
So he genuinely thought that when I said I was not free at that time, that I was planning to just lounge around and do nothing, turning down bookings for lolz. It never occurred to him I might actually be busy or, god forbid, already booked! As it happens I was on a training course on that day and he was really surprised when I told him that.
Another thing about that message was, 'Can you not make an exception for me?' Change my existing plans for someone I've never met, who already sounds like a demanding, disrespectful fool? Sure, why not?!   :FF :FF
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #699 on: 01 November 2015, 06:27:20 pm »
'Are you available for a booking on Friday?'
'I'm sorry but I'm not available on Friday.'
'Are you sure?'

'Are you available at xx:xx on Tuesday?'
'Unfortunately I can only do from/before xx:xx'
'Are you sure you can't do xx:xx?'

YES, I'M FUCKING SURE. I can't stand these idiots. Under what circumstances would I not be sure? Has the answer ever been 'Nah, you're right. I'm lying in order to not get paid.'

Had this recently. My availability was on my profile but he still asked when I was free. I typed it all out again for him, then he asked for a tyme I had just listed as not free. I said, 'As I said, I'm not free at that time. Can do from x time on that day.' His response: 'I would really like an earlier time than that. Can you not make an exception for me?'
So he genuinely thought that when I said I was not free at that time, that I was planning to just lounge around and do nothing, turning down bookings for lolz. It never occurred to him I might actually be busy or, god forbid, already booked! As it happens I was on a training course on that day and he was really surprised when I told him that.
Another thing about that message was, 'Can you not make an exception for me?' Change my existing plans for someone I've never met, who already sounds like a demanding, disrespectful fool? Sure, why not?!   :FF :FF

Exactly. I sometimes do incalls and advertise the dates on my profile. I always, without fail, get guys who can't be bothered to read when I'm available. What really annoys me though are the ones who ask if I can make an exception for them  ::) One time I explained to a guy that I don't conduct them from my home, but I book somewhere and therefore can only offer incalls on the dates I have booked accommodation. His response? 'Can you please make an exception for me and let me come to your house?'. I didn't bother texting back.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #700 on: 01 November 2015, 06:29:25 pm »

Another thing about that message was, 'Can you not make an exception for me?' Change my existing plans for someone I've never met, who already sounds like a demanding, disrespectful fool? Sure, why not?!   :FF :FF

Oh I hate that crap. I think people just assume this is the only thing you do full time and that you have a full weekly schedule free to play around with. I'm a student so I keep my bookings to weekends so I have the week to attend and get work done and all the time people ask me to do things on a weekday and not in the evening they want it in the middle of the day then I say I don't work on weekdays because I'm busy with other things and they get all patronising like "I'll give you an extra ?10 I think we can make this work for both of us"

Because ?10 is so important to me that I'll skip Uni just to run after them. I'm already turning down my fee to not book at a time that suits them ?10 won't make any difference nor does it impress me.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #701 on: 01 November 2015, 08:05:12 pm »
Yep I hate these sort of guys too.Had someone the other night who asked if I was available at around 8pm (I only work until 9pm anyway but had finished earlier due to other commitments).I explained I wasn't around to then get the same text 10 mins apart (I'd ignored the first text)saying that he was only in Leeds for one night and had been looking forward to seeing me and was there anything we could do to make it happen?I replied if he had been so looking forward to seeing me and wanted to know how to 'make it happen' why not try giving me abit more notice?Oddly I got no reply..silly sod!

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #702 on: 01 November 2015, 10:34:29 pm »
I had this too a few weeks ago. He text me about a booking at 11am. I told him I couldn't do anything until 1pm, a few messages were exchanged about location at which point I repeated the fact I wasn't free until 1 and then I got 'how about 12?' when I didn't reply I got a message about 10 minutes later saying 'can you let me know asap please'.

The thing is as I had told him, I was working. Clients don't like it when we text through bookings with them, but when we're not with them do they expect us to text during our bookings?
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #703 on: 02 November 2015, 02:34:35 am »
I totally agree... my bugbear is when someone asks me "What is the earliest time you would be available on (e.g.) Wednesday?"

I reply "The earliest time I would be available on Wednesday would be x o'clock".

Inevitably, I get the response "Can't you do any earlier?" Well no, as that would be what earliest means!

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #704 on: 02 November 2015, 10:19:16 am »
I had a guy ask for a 15 min quickie and I told him the earliest I could do was 2pm he agreed to that but then texted asking what time could he see me?!?I repeated 2pm.He then asked if I could do earlier I said no.He then turned up at 1:30 rang and asked if he could see me...at which point I told him to forget it.I always think if they are that pushy on the phone they are going to be as pushy face to face.