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Alice G

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #120 on: 28 November 2014, 08:35:16 pm »
Yes, have had to do the arching tongue thing too - I have a strong tongue now!
But yes, I agree it is totally disrespectful - they think because they are paying for it they can do what they want, but there and boundaries and the nice ones have respect and want us to enjoy it too.
Wish I had some false teeth and super glue when they do this - try explaining that in A&E (and to the wife!) x

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« Reply #121 on: 28 November 2014, 08:53:41 pm »
My place is open plan except kitchen and spare room so when they call for short notice I have to quickly tidy the lounge although it's full of trinkets and sometimes I chuck things in the kitchen so when I get them a drink I ask them to sit down.  Some do but some ignore and follow me into the kitchen so it's embarrassing if I've chucked things in it. They almost get to see the whole house anyway so at least give me the kitchen to myself! One ages ago once brought some wine and he went into the kitchen and opened the cupboards looking for glasses. He said he was a broker and was very cocky. Hate those types.

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« Reply #122 on: 28 November 2014, 08:54:32 pm »
I just take their hands off my head and tell them nicely I cant do deapthroat. I provide GFE not PSE and I dont advertise I do deepthroat.
They never try again.
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« Reply #123 on: 28 November 2014, 09:00:46 pm »
I do deepthroat and I have no problem with it, but at my own pace and moving my own head thank you very much!
Had one today; "Oh yeah, hold it there", holding my head down with his cock deep down my throat.
Obviously I couldn't breath, swallow and nearly started gagging so I just lifted my head up and asked him how I was
supposed to breathe like that?!  ::)
Apart from that he was a lovely guy lol
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #124 on: 28 November 2014, 09:55:01 pm »
push my head down whilst doing a bj. f off
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Alice G

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #125 on: 28 November 2014, 11:41:26 pm »
I just take their hands off my head and tell them nicely I cant do deapthroat. I provide GFE not PSE and I dont advertise I do deepthroat.
They never try again.

That sounds like the best thing to do and say - I will block those that try to go outside the normal and acceptable  boundaries.  (I don't advertise deep throat - some think they can try) There are the ones that think they think this is ok. It is very rare thing thank God!

Just a note to add - the ones that do this can be bordering on/attempting aggression/controlling behaviour - hope that makes sense. Mutual gentleness and going with the flow with a happy ending is surely the best way? Yes GFE not PSE
Any hint of aggression and a controlling attitude pisses me right off and I think my body language will tell them so. Will definitely take the hands off the head thing if I get into this kind of thing again. X

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« Reply #126 on: 29 November 2014, 08:48:08 am »
It seems that "PSE" means "does things that other women find humiliating and/or painful."

I was thinking about the deep throat/gagging/face fucking thing last night because I got a text from someone wanting to know if I DT. I don't. He replied "the gagging is the part I like." Gagging is a thing in porn. It indicates that the woman is uncomfortable and going beyond her boundaries. And that's what they're getting off on.

I also think porn conditions men to find things attractive. Like, they click on a porn link - already horny - and they're wanking and then things start to happen and the men become conditioned to find those things attractive. If every porn video had a thing where a german shepherd walked into the frame just before the money shot, pretty soon men would develop a fetish for fucking with a dog in the room.

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« Reply #127 on: 29 November 2014, 08:56:46 am »
Well! I have just googled "why do guys get off on gagging" and apparently part of it is they get off on thinking that they're just too damn big for a woman to take all the way in.

That's it: I'm fake gagging from now on!

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« Reply #128 on: 30 November 2014, 01:49:24 pm »
I do offer deep throat and 99% of my clients ask before hand if they would like to push my head and for me to hold it. Ihave no problem with this, I make it clear to them that I can't breath during DT so they have to respect when I want to come up for air.

As for gagging, I provide this too. When you gag, your throat muscles massage the tip of their cock, this is one of the reasons why men like it. I am also sub, gagging is part of the excitement of bdsm for obvious reasons.

If you don't do DT, gagging and skull Fucking, then just discuss oral at the beginning of the booking to make your boundaries clear.

Now, lol, the thing that annoys me, is when a client wants you gagging to the point of wretching and bring up!
I had a client do this and encourage this the other week, luckily I had an empty stomach! Why on earth he hadn't explained his fetish and ask before the booking piss's me off! After I explained I don't like that he kept pushing me to achieve it. Fucking boundary pushers! Should of kicked him out, but I didn't, thought Fuck it, I'll give it ago, I'll try most things once. But no, no no no! Didn't enjoy being covered in my own spit , eugh! Saved as messy gross guy and blocked! Haha xox

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« Reply #129 on: 30 November 2014, 02:14:46 pm »
Skull fucking - holy crap.  :o  But, I guess if you can bear the gagging stuff etc. you may as well market Roman showers properly, with the price tag attached. If a guy is prepared to pay - what ?500? ?700? 1k, to be barfed on, why not.  Next time a guy pushes your head down on his cock, just tell him to get his wallet out again.
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #130 on: 30 November 2014, 02:48:56 pm »
Skull fucking - holy crap.  :o  But, I guess if you can bear the gagging stuff etc. you may as well market Roman showers properly, with the price tag attached. If a guy is prepared to pay - what ?500? ?700? 1k, to be barfed on, why not.  Next time a guy pushes your head down on his cock, just tell him to get his wallet out again.

Hahahahaaaaa! I didn't know it had a name! Roman showers ay! Lol, luckily like I said, no food in my stomach, so was Fuck loads of stringy gooey sticky saliva, and he took great pleasure in rubbing it all over my body, gross!

But for those prices you've mentioned, I'll gladly supply it, its not the worst thing to provide! Haha

Yeah I don't mind skull Fucking as long as they respect when I need a breather, if they don't and ignore my pushing away, then they lose the privilege of booking me again for that service. Simple. Lol xox

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« Reply #131 on: 30 November 2014, 02:56:53 pm »
Most things are bearable if the price is right. I don't usually do hard sports, but a guy once paid me 2k, so I made a HUGE effort to oblige. Watching him eat the stuff was not my favorite memory ever, but who cares for that money.
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« Reply #132 on: 30 November 2014, 03:10:23 pm »
Yeah, I don't do water sports or hardsports, but for 2k I'd make the exception!

The only thing I wouldn't do for any amount of money is BB, but I think that goes without saying, and then also anal, but that's because it's, sadly, painful for me, so that's different. Watching some guy eat my shit isn't physically painful,lol.

Though when you get the odd tosser asking for BB, they also want it at a discount, not offering more money! No logic in that! One sure way to get themselves blocked! Eugh! Lol xox

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« Reply #133 on: 01 December 2014, 09:19:03 am »
Well! I have just googled "why do guys get off on gagging" and apparently part of it is they get off on thinking that they're just too damn big for a woman to take all the way in.

That's it: I'm fake gagging from now on!

LOL - that made me chuckle................it's amazing how it's all about their ego isn't it!

However, fortunately the gift of good acting is a blessing in this job..............!


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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #134 on: 02 December 2014, 02:32:23 pm »
What's skull fucking?! Been in this business a long time but never heard of that one, what is it??
Another thing clients do to annoy; slag you off on a punter-forum when you're on your period, feeling sensitive and
hormonal, and potentially ruin your business that was already slow lol
(Sorry, I've been bangin on about the same thing on a few threads, I'm aware of that  ;) And I'll stop now!)
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