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Mirror

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4260 on: 19 January 2024, 06:13:39 pm »
I've had a spate of guys texting, but when I reply they ghost me. Like what is the point of emailing/ texting then not replying to my response? It's so annoying.  I end up blocking them. Has anyone else had this?

Do you mean new enquiries or guys you have previously had bookings with?

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4261 on: 19 January 2024, 07:02:19 pm »
I've had a spate of guys texting, but when I reply they ghost me. Like what is the point of emailing/ texting then not replying to my response? It's so annoying.  I end up blocking them. Has anyone else had this?

Yes all the bloody time! I suspect they message multiple women and if someone replies sooner than you they ignore, very annoying!

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« Reply #4262 on: 20 January 2024, 10:22:13 am »
Yes all the bloody time! I suspect they message multiple women and if someone replies sooner than you they ignore, very annoying!

Yep this not really wanting you personally just messaging loads of women to see who responds quick.

I have it lots too and if i give them the info and they blank me i find it rude so i block a lot.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4263 on: 21 January 2024, 02:16:31 pm »
I definately need to up my blocking game  >:D

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4264 on: 29 January 2024, 08:56:26 am »
Changing the booking length by giving me a lower fee, both regulars one told me he'd forwarded his fee by bank transfer as agreed a few days before our booking, the other I was lucky I checked the money left on the side because otherwise I would have assumed it to be the length he booked. I have had similar with cam clients, to the point I've banned a few who treat me like a vending machine.

Recent experience with Escort clients is reinforcing counting up front as well as being clear with booking details.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4265 on: 29 January 2024, 12:37:59 pm »
I've had a spate of guys texting, but when I reply they ghost me. Like what is the point of emailing/ texting then not replying to my response? It's so annoying.  I end up blocking them. Has anyone else had this?

I am getting a lot of this too.
I don't know if it's attention seeking because they are skint and bored or what but it's very annoying.
I too now block if they've asked something specific then read the reply and disappear, just rude, but I find rudeness is becoming more commonplace.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4266 on: 29 January 2024, 12:45:25 pm »
Changing the booking length by giving me a lower fee, both regulars one told me he'd forwarded his fee by bank transfer as agreed a few days before our booking, the other I was lucky I checked the money left on the side because otherwise I would have assumed it to be the length he booked. I have had similar with cam clients, to the point I've banned a few who treat me like a vending machine.

Recent experience with Escort clients is reinforcing counting up front as well as being clear with booking details.

That's very sneaky behaviour especially from regulars.
Maybe a sign of the times, they still want their fun but can't really afford it but it's not on trying to scam you.
I have started to confirm the fee with new clients now and tell them I don't do transfers so they don't turn up with no cash and do count the fee even with regulars now .

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4267 on: 29 January 2024, 03:19:29 pm »
That's very sneaky behaviour especially from regulars.
Maybe a sign of the times, they still want their fun but can't really afford it but it's not on trying to scam you.
I have started to confirm the fee with new clients now and tell them I don't do transfers so they don't turn up with no cash and do count the fee even with regulars now .

The problem is they both have a history of slightly messing me around in different ways, one I had made clear to I wouldn't be messed around again was only just back into trusted mode. So difficult to be understanding.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4268 on: 29 January 2024, 09:22:05 pm »
The problem is they both have a history of slightly messing me around in different ways, one I had made clear to I wouldn't be messed around again was only just back into trusted mode. So difficult to be understanding.
It sounds like you can't really trust either of them.
When it gets to that point it's maybe time to get rid. Difficult in these times I know but with some a zero tolerance policy is all they understand.
I've just had to get rid of a regular for overstepping the mark, that's a monthly visit I've lost but hopefully in the coming months there'll be someone to replace him.
My well being and mental health are worth more to me.
At the end of the day only you can decide.
« Last Edit: 29 January 2024, 09:25:27 pm by fallen angel »

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4269 on: 29 January 2024, 09:37:40 pm »
It sounds like you can't really trust either of them.
When it gets to that point it's maybe time to get rid. Difficult in these times I know but with some a zero tolerance policy is all they understand.
I've just had to get rid of a regular for overstepping the mark, that's a monthly visit I've lost but hopefully in the coming months there'll be someone to replace him.
My well being and mental health are worth more to me.
At the end of the day only you can decide.

That's the annoying thing, much of the time I have enough clients and one of these bookings I could have replaced with a higher value one but the actual money isn't point it's the subversiveness. There was another problem with that booking too. I have it in hand, at least one of them has lost his old rate eligibility.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4270 on: 30 January 2024, 04:07:43 pm »
Changing the booking length by giving me a lower fee, both regulars one told me he'd forwarded his fee by bank transfer as agreed a few days before our booking, the other I was lucky I checked the money left on the side because otherwise I would have assumed it to be the length he booked. I have had similar with cam clients, to the point I've banned a few who treat me like a vending machine.

Recent experience with Escort clients is reinforcing counting up front as well as being clear with booking details.

I have had that happen few times before and i really don't like it. They should honour the agreement of the booking price. If they do this i will do it but they will not get a great time it will be very basic.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4271 on: 07 February 2024, 09:39:17 pm »
When your a Non-smoker and yet they insist on wanting a smoke or to vape refuse even make clear property non smoking. The ones that keep pushing I end booking kick out utter disrespect. I won't be getting any fine from airbnb or booking dot com etc. Plus I hate smoke smell if they cant hold off from smoking for 30mins or 1hour don't bother booking escort  :FF

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4272 on: 08 February 2024, 03:55:54 am »
When your a Non-smoker and yet they insist on wanting a smoke or to vape refuse even make clear property non smoking. The ones that keep pushing I end booking kick out utter disrespect. I won't be getting any fine from airbnb or booking dot com etc. Plus I hate smoke smell if they cant hold off from smoking for 30mins or 1hour don't bother booking escort  :FF
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Yes, I hate this! I often find that the clients that smell like heavy smokers on arrival generally have the worst hygiene downstairs too. That stale cigarette smell makes me nauseous  :-X

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4273 on: 11 February 2024, 01:15:41 pm »
When they live so far away and have no clue as to how long it might take to get to you and haven't bothered viewing your location information. Then say oh your so far away ! :FF

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4274 on: 11 February 2024, 02:18:52 pm »
When they live so far away and have no clue as to how long it might take to get to you and haven't bothered viewing your location information. Then say oh your so far away ! :FF

Over the years I found many would underestimate be it visiting me or me visiting them, some even arguing with me - either to make it seem closer or they'd be quite late.

I am very firm now I tell them how long it will take, some actually do give me chance to do this which is appreciated. Shows me they (a) take attending their booking seriously (b) take me seriously ie are more likely to be considerate during the booking.