I’ve started seeing a few new clients. Quite a few of them have started asking me what my “real” job is  . They don’t seem to get that this could be my “real” job.
I’m going to start making stuff up like Tightrope Walker or Lion Tamer 😂

I’ve started seeing a few new clients. Quite a few of them have started asking me what my “real” job is  . They don’t seem to get that this could be my “real” job.
I’m going to start making stuff up like Tightrope Walker or Lion Tamer 😂

That's the opposite of my experience, most men who say anything about it think I can only do this. Mind you a fair few just assume I'm at university, which I suppose is probably the same deal as assuming I've got another job? I dunno.

I think a lot of this is them wanting to believe we don't really need the money so they can kid themselves on that we're having sex with them (at least partly) for fun, rather than because we have bills to pay.

There is a whole subsection of deludedness which wants to think we're these horny libertines traversing the fringes of society rather than perfectly ordinary people who want the electric paid and food on the table quickly and easily so we can forget about it and go off to do something else. And to be fair, some marketing approaches do nothing to dissuade them of the idea.

It will forever be an issue but not reading a profile - I am not sure how many times I have to write OUTCALLS ONLY within a profile for them to get the hint that I don't do incalls!

This is the one thing that worries me about getting my own website up & running fully, having to deal with the guys who can't be bothered to read

When they've seen you once before and since then have never booked in advance despite you pretty much always being booked up at the times they want, but message you asking if you have availability and to let them know if you have any cancellations. Bonus points when they literally say they hope you have cancellations. Though if I do become available and let them know, there's no response or suddenly they can't make it. 

Having your own website increases the quality of men, I think. Those that find you through your website have bothered to look and research as supposed to those who just sit and scroll through pages of AW