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EvelynWho

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3645 on: 11 September 2021, 09:43:50 pm »
Someone this week contacted me via Whatsapp requesting my location, when I suggested he read my tab called "READ WHEN & WHERE" he had the absolute audacity to send the eye roll emoji! If he'd been in front of me I'd have bitch slapped him

What is with that attitude from them? I get those : “can’t you just tell me?” “Just text the details” “I’ve closed the site now” “I’m driving can’t read it”
Okay? And? It’s written in several places already, why do they act like we’re being ‘difficult’ for not wanting to type it all out across 20 messages for them as they start up some q+a back and forth like we’re a free chat-line or something.

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« Reply #3646 on: 12 September 2021, 11:56:20 pm »
Getting arsey when I don't relpy straight away. Had one regular say you haven't replied to me so you won't be seeing me again. Yep you guessed right arsehole.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3647 on: 13 September 2021, 12:28:15 am »
What is with that attitude from them? I get those : “can’t you just tell me?” “Just text the details” “I’ve closed the site now” “I’m driving can’t read it”
Okay? And? It’s written in several places already, why do they act like we’re being ‘difficult’ for not wanting to type it all out across 20 messages for them as they start up some q+a back and forth like we’re a free chat-line or something.

Yes totally agree they want comliance one way. Someone pliable to mess around.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3648 on: 13 September 2021, 09:55:21 pm »
Had a new client book several hours. Was okay at first but he then spent the whole time doing what felt like an interview to be his girlfriend. Despite me telling him on several occasions that I’m not looking to date, he didn’t get it.
After he kept asking for my private number which I told him I couldn’t do. He then replied that he hoped I was interested in him for more than sex.  ???
Words fail me sometimes !

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3649 on: 17 September 2021, 12:24:32 pm »
I'm just getting my prescence back together on one problematic escort website with a new profile. It's not completely done and I haven't activated escort status yet. I went to the chatrooms and went on cam for passive advertising. I've got one decent possible. One who wanted cam work I had some private chats with and arranged for a discussion this evening.

The problem is he couldn't leave it alone and began trying to push in to chats with other people and things slowly went downhill from there. I asked them to stop as I was busy doing other things but the pestering continued including questioning rates information through suggesting I was hard work when someone passed compliments to claiming I wasn't an escort and then demanding I get on Skype now. There were red flags all the way from the moment we first chatted so told him he was cancelled which I was already mulling over. Not only that I was off to the shop so it was a good time to quit the chatrooms.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3650 on: 18 September 2021, 11:15:05 pm »
Ask the "...and what do you like, sexually" question. I got asked this on Friday and I was actually sick in my mouth..
“Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by arseholes.” Sigmund Freud”

Maz

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3651 on: 19 September 2021, 11:10:22 am »
Ask the "...and what do you like, sexually" question. I got asked this on Friday and I was actually sick in my mouth..

I hate this question.  Sometimes I wonder if they ask it because they're stuck for something to say.

It doesn't come up often but I hate when they ask "how old do you think I am?" I feel like saying 'I don't know and really couldn't give a shit.'

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« Reply #3652 on: 20 September 2021, 09:51:38 pm »
I hate this question.  Sometimes I wonder if they ask it because they're stuck for something to say.

It doesn't come up often but I hate when they ask "how old do you think I am?" I feel like saying 'I don't know and really couldn't give a shit.'

“Having you throw the $$ at me, then leave.”

We should get 1 day a year when we can say this stuff, you know? Technically I suppose we could at anytime, buuuuuut….🤷🏼‍♀️
An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉

Tickle

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3653 on: 21 September 2021, 03:47:58 am »
Asking for a bump from an hour and a half to two hours. I said yes because it's been so dry lately. Asking if they could bring some white wine along. I drink red. Phoning up later because they wanted to arrive earlier and bring not one but two bottles of wine. Arriving with two bottles of cheap red wine I wouldn't use for cooking. Red flags all the way I know and there are other things I was unhappy about on a basic compatibility and consent level but the real kicker? After asking if they could smoke when they arrived which isn't a problem pulling out a crack pipe when he had got his feet under the table.

I have since read up on crack and whatever he said about occasional use to chill out it's one of those drugs which can make them impatient for another high and also paranoid.

Another thing is when he was at the in-call he asked if I'd visit him. I'm in a scary situation so just going with it and he says he could pick me up in his car. I don't have to spell out to anyone what was going through my mind at the time about what might be on the other end of the journey.

Obviously blocked and I will be reporting this.

Snow Whitest

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3654 on: 21 September 2021, 07:21:48 pm »
OMFG Tickle, cheap red wine is bad enough but pulling out a crack pipe?! Jesus wept, you really couldn't make this shit up :P
“Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by arseholes.” Sigmund Freud”

Tickle

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3655 on: 22 September 2021, 12:31:27 pm »
OMFG Tickle, cheap red wine is bad enough but pulling out a crack pipe?! Jesus wept, you really couldn't make this shit up :P

It was a bit much wasn't it? I have never watched it but not unlike wandering into an episode of The Wire, I would hazard a guess.

I threw the second bottle of red in the bin. I couldn't drink it. I don't like cheap bad wine and the emotional association was too much ugh.

Maz

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3656 on: 27 September 2021, 02:09:29 pm »
When they ask about precautions you've taken re covid.

I tell them they shouldn't be booking an escort if they want to ask that question.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3657 on: 27 September 2021, 09:12:44 pm »
Oh and clients who go on and on about their married status and how nervous they are, dead giveaway for a time waster. Add to that, is your place discreet? I always say no, there's a massive neon sign above my home saying "GET IT HERE". I also say if you're that worried about being seen, perhaps you need a different hobby?
“Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by arseholes.” Sigmund Freud”

Tickle

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3658 on: 28 September 2021, 09:09:22 am »
Mention in general conversation about cosmetic surgery while initially socialising not to grab and squeeze my boobs if anything like this is done and later have the client grab and squeeze my boobs insanely hard like he was about to fall off a cliff while giving me a rear end.

Maz

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #3659 on: 01 October 2021, 06:59:26 pm »
When they make a booking and don't specify the time.  Have one that has requested next Wednesday, days ago but hasn't said a time yet.

Until then, I'll just keep taking other bookings  ;D