Ask personal questions about other girls that you work with, they have already been denied that info from the girl so he thinks he’ll be sly and ask other girls to get the information.
Assume that the girls in your sauna are not colleagues but friends, after all they don’t see our work as real work so they find it perfectly acceptable to tell ‘your friends’ your business!
I’ve said this before but asking if I work everyday, doing a 12 hour shift, this is the most annoying deluded question I get asked and I always say ‘well I have a life like most human beings, I have family and friends and I’m human so cannot handle working every bloody day and especially in this job’, I also ask if they work everyday.