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Guiltypleasure

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #1755 on: 11 June 2017, 10:07:14 am »
I expect they are just making conversation but they sometimes ask 'So how many do you see in a week?'.  It is a bit like saying how much do we earn.  We don't ask them but I don't think they mean it to sound like that lol.
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I just say " that's interesting , how much do you earn with a smile" if they say , I might say oh that's unusual most people don't talk about their income" end of doesn't mean Ill answer back plus I'm excellent with pause gaps its my forte and changing the subject " Wow that's extremely intrusive " ha !

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #1756 on: 11 June 2017, 10:52:11 pm »
When they arrive saying they have read all your reviews on forum so they came to see how good you are, then promptly start saying what they like (boundary pushing at its finest) thinking your going to be frightened to say no because they might put a negative on forum..You know the types you have to refuse liver licking and kidney sucking to even though their last wonderful service provider did it...  :FF their few and far between but I get so agitated by them

These type tend to be deterred by having to pay more. Since putting my rates up from 140gfe 200pse  to 200gfe 250/300pse I have had much less of this and if a client starts pushing boundaries I send them home. I think some guys just see escorts to write reviews and tell others about it. I do have some nice clients that use forums but imo it's a bunch of guys, trying to get as much for there money as possible, and not caring about how the sp feels during the booking as long as they get what they want. These types that tell me they want to do everything in a short amount of time for example an hour then proceed to tell me about reading reviews and having high expectations of me, do not get to see me. More hassle than it's worth and mentally exhausting. I think that they also use reviews as a way of trying to get you to do more. I had a lot of customers do this. All of whom are now banned. I have literally turned into the pickiest fussiest whore ever. But i can't risk my own mental health or wellbeing for the sake of anybody. My life is too precious.
Sometimes I think that I could die from an overdose of satisfaction. -Salvador Dali

sweetmilf

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #1757 on: 12 June 2017, 06:45:19 pm »
Sounds more like cutting their umbilical cord haha!

Definitely, I do think they get attached.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #1758 on: 15 June 2017, 04:26:21 pm »
Several texts from different guys when I politely ask them to phone. They say my speakers broke.  It used to annoy me now I smile inside thinking how pathetic these creatures are. :)

They keep reminding me that I have made the right decision. :)

Yeah.!! I'm crossing over baby so clients can keep up thier fuck wit behaviour.:)
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #1759 on: 18 June 2017, 02:36:48 pm »
So funny....

One spoke to me before phoned me asking to come at 4am in the morning. I politely declined.

Yep that is it not long now keep it up because I don't need them nobs.


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« Reply #1760 on: 20 June 2017, 03:26:10 pm »
These ones who try to pick an argument out of nothing grate on me. Guy today said he wanted to go for a walk, so I said OK if there's time when we have finished. I could sense him being a potential time piss taker. Saw him once before & I got that inclining. It turns out we had 10 minutes remaining so I suggested the walk because I was going into town anyway. He offered to buy me an ice cream so I politely declined because I have food intolerances.
He then said "how is a guy expected to date you when you cant do this cant do that."
So I instantly shot him down & telling him not to be so rude. That was  way below the belt.

Within the booking he started slobbering around my ears, this is something I hate for several reasons. So I asked him to stop. Apparently I ?told him off? the first time he saw me for touching me. {wtf} He seemed quite childish & a bit odd. Brought pictures of the cod he caught on his last fishing trip {yawn}. I find this shitty churlish attitude jarring. He told me he ?has issues with girls? from childhood so he thinks he can pay sex works & insult them as some sort of Karmic payoff it seems.

I thought at first it may be the start of a sub fantasy, being told off but he mentioned a few other escorts who he can no longer seem to get an appointment with. I told him straight, it?s his passive aggressive attitude & he needs to look at that.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #1761 on: 20 June 2017, 03:39:53 pm »
Yeah quite a lot of clients just have no social skills or are just plain rude or feel bitter towards women if they have not had much luck in their life with women.
They then take it out on us or have the attitude I'm paying I do what I want.

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« Reply #1762 on: 21 June 2017, 09:40:11 am »
He told me he ?has issues with girls? from childhood so he thinks he can pay sex works & insult them as some sort of Karmic payoff it seems.

I thought at first it may be the start of a sub fantasy, being told off but he mentioned a few other escorts who he can no longer seem to get an appointment with. I told him straight, it?s his passive aggressive attitude & he needs to look at that.
 

This is so funny.  The whole post made me chuckle.  It seems that it's a man's thing, offering ice cream to a woman they fancy.  I'd put "clingy, p/a client, see if desperate" .  :)

sweetmilf

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« Reply #1763 on: 21 June 2017, 09:43:12 am »
Yeah quite a lot of clients just have no social skills or are just plain rude or feel bitter towards women if they have not had much luck in their life with women.
They then take it out on us or have the attitude I'm paying I do what I want.

I had seen one or two like this (so far as I remember).  I don't tolerate rudeness too well so may have seen more but blocked them.  Luckily, I see much older guys as I'm older so luckily I don't need to deal with men (wusses) who annoy women, get rude and unable to pull. 

Emma_C

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« Reply #1764 on: 21 June 2017, 10:59:31 am »

It's not an age thing sweetmilf. I find some most worse with age & often have issues with rudeness & boundary pushing with the over 60's, like the guy I mentioned in my previous post, he's in his 60's.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #1765 on: 21 June 2017, 03:54:09 pm »
Yes I find a lot of the rude ones are older and seem to have a chip on their shoulder and attitude problems

sweetmilf

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« Reply #1766 on: 21 June 2017, 06:11:58 pm »
It's not an age thing sweetmilf. I find some most worse with age & often have issues with rudeness & boundary pushing with the over 60's, like the guy I mentioned in my previous post, he's in his 60's.

Really?   :o :o :o  In his Sixties?  I'm afraid that he has no hopes.....lol

sweetmilf

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« Reply #1767 on: 21 June 2017, 06:16:52 pm »
Yes I find a lot of the rude ones are older and seem to have a chip on their shoulder and attitude problems

 :o :o  Mind you, my screening is rather vigorous.. ::)

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #1768 on: 22 June 2017, 02:38:04 am »
I said to a client who wanted tonight that I couldn't see him as will be meeting a friend for a coffee. He asked where is it I told him it is private not on an out call.

Then he asked if he can meet me after there to walk back for a booking. I poliety said sorry not tonight when really I meant no fuck off you cunt. :)

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« Reply #1769 on: 22 June 2017, 08:25:22 am »
I do just find that so many guys have the inability to concede to a woman when she makes a factual statement that doesn't fit his needs.  It's like the rules shouldn't apply to them:

Him: Hi can when's your next available appointment?
Me: I can fit you in at 5pm
Him: Can't you see me any sooner?

No?  5pm is my first available appointment???  :FF :FF :FF

Him: Hi, what time do you finish?
Me: Normally between 6pm and 8pm though I can work as late as 10pm with an advance booking though AW
Him: But I wanted to see you at 1am when I finish work?

Ooooooooooookay, well wanting and getting are not the same things?

Or mid-booking

Him: Can we do Bareback?
Me: No, I don't do bareback
Him: Oh go on!

You know what?  As a result of that well presented counter argument, I changed my mind! BB it is!!!

I've also had messages saying things like "I'd love to come and see you but I have family in your town"... I'm not entirely sure what I was supposed to do with that info, though part of me was tempted to reply with "I can give you the number of a good hit man who can take care of that problem"  ;D

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