Yes, have had to do the arching tongue thing too - I have a strong tongue now!
But yes, I agree it is totally disrespectful - they think because they are paying for it they can do what they want, but there and boundaries and the nice ones have respect and want us to enjoy it too.
Wish I had some false teeth and super glue when they do this - try explaining that in A&E (and to the wife!) x

I just take their hands off my head and tell them nicely I cant do deapthroat. I provide GFE not PSE and I dont advertise I do deepthroat.
They never try again.

push my head down whilst doing a bj. f off

It seems that "PSE" means "does things that other women find humiliating and/or painful."

I was thinking about the deep throat/gagging/face fucking thing last night because I got a text from someone wanting to know if I DT. I don't. He replied "the gagging is the part I like." Gagging is a thing in porn. It indicates that the woman is uncomfortable and going beyond her boundaries. And that's what they're getting off on.

I also think porn conditions men to find things attractive. Like, they click on a porn link - already horny - and they're wanking and then things start to happen and the men become conditioned to find those things attractive. If every porn video had a thing where a german shepherd walked into the frame just before the money shot, pretty soon men would develop a fetish for fucking with a dog in the room.

I do offer deep throat and 99% of my clients ask before hand if they would like to push my head and for me to hold it. Ihave no problem with this, I make it clear to them that I can't breath during DT so they have to respect when I want to come up for air.

As for gagging, I provide this too. When you gag, your throat muscles massage the tip of their cock, this is one of the reasons why men like it. I am also sub, gagging is part of the excitement of bdsm for obvious reasons.

If you don't do DT, gagging and skull Fucking, then just discuss oral at the beginning of the booking to make your boundaries clear.

Now, lol, the thing that annoys me, is when a client wants you gagging to the point of wretching and bring up!
I had a client do this and encourage this the other week, luckily I had an empty stomach! Why on earth he hadn't explained his fetish and ask before the booking piss's me off! After I explained I don't like that he kept pushing me to achieve it. Fucking boundary pushers! Should of kicked him out, but I didn't, thought Fuck it, I'll give it ago, I'll try most things once. But no, no no no! Didn't enjoy being covered in my own spit , eugh! Saved as messy gross guy and blocked! Haha xox

Skull fucking - holy crap.    But, I guess if you can bear the gagging stuff etc. you may as well market Roman showers properly, with the price tag attached. If a guy is prepared to pay - what ?500? ?700? 1k, to be barfed on, why not.  Next time a guy pushes your head down on his cock, just tell him to get his wallet out again.

Hahahahaaaaa! I didn't know it had a name! Roman showers ay! Lol, luckily like I said, no food in my stomach, so was Fuck loads of stringy gooey sticky saliva, and he took great pleasure in rubbing it all over my body, gross!

But for those prices you've mentioned, I'll gladly supply it, its not the worst thing to provide! Haha

Yeah I don't mind skull Fucking as long as they respect when I need a breather, if they don't and ignore my pushing away, then they lose the privilege of booking me again for that service. Simple. Lol xox

Yeah, I don't do water sports or hardsports, but for 2k I'd make the exception!

The only thing I wouldn't do for any amount of money is BB, but I think that goes without saying, and then also anal, but that's because it's, sadly, painful for me, so that's different. Watching some guy eat my shit isn't physically painful,lol.

Though when you get the odd tosser asking for BB, they also want it at a discount, not offering more money! No logic in that! One sure way to get themselves blocked! Eugh! Lol xox

What's skull fucking?! Been in this business a long time but never heard of that one, what is it??
Another thing clients do to annoy; slag you off on a punter-forum when you're on your period, feeling sensitive and
hormonal, and potentially ruin your business that was already slow lol
(Sorry, I've been bangin on about the same thing on a few threads, I'm aware of that  And I'll stop now!)