Once in a while I am asked do I have children. I know not all wgs are mothers so the question is not specially bad but it depends who is asking what I answer. It could be just making conversation, who knows? My boobs or belly give no clue if I have produced offspring.
A couple of weeks back one new man said he assumed I am a mother and probably a grandmother. I said nothing to this but then he asked how many children I had given birth to. I said 8 and watched his face freeze. He told me there are always outward signs if a woman has had children and her fanny will be loose. Mine is anything but loose and I am late fifties. I then told him to always look at her feet too. He asked why and I just ignored him. When they start asking arsey stupid questions I lose all respect for them and don't give a toss about doing a good service. These times are rare though so it hasn't harmed my reputation.
(I have not had 8 children by the way)
I don’t have a problem at all if they want to ask if I’ve had children. It was the fact it was mid sex and he had his hand on my tummy and looked down at it whilst asking how many kids I had haha.
Yes you can see I’ve had kids, or potentially lost weight quick, but it’s never been an issue in the many years I’ve worked. (Maybe a few backhanded comments but never so blatent) I’m a size 10 as advertised, go to the gym every 2 or three days, but also state on profile I’m not toned with washboard abs. I’m certainly not loose from what I have been told so I guess some people are just damn rude or ignorant or get off on putting others down.
