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Author Topic: there's gritting ur teeth and bearing it and then there's feeling repulsed/sick!  (Read 9106 times)

tess99

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ugh. Do you all charge extra for kissing? I thought that was just of they were paying for the GFE? Sounds awful

Dani

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I just cannot grin and bare men who drool and slobber on me.  It is not only a turn off it makes me literally throw up so if they start it they get one warning to stop, I do say it as polite as I can at the time basically a I know you are excited but can you keep your saliva in your own mouth please as I don't like it on me and if they do it again the booking ends.  I will not suffer anything like this just for money.  I would sooner give them it back and get them to leave than have to be made to feel this way.

Now I don't mind the normal amount of saliva as in a moist tongue but dribbling and drooling and leaving trails of it on me or heaven forbid in my mouth is just too much.

I used to position my self so that their drool always fell into their own mouths but now I just give one warning as I should not have to spend the whole hour/2 hours trying to avoid someone elses saliva just because they cannot be arsed to swallow.  I have noticed it is normally those guys who don't close their mouths at all when they kiss that have this problem.  If they closed their mouths now and then they would have to bloody swallow
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Pink~Princess

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Theyre disgusting.  I know ive often wondered how they can be so oblivious.  I'm thinking its just more that they don't care.
Like when a guy was jamming his fingers in me so hard I tried to just get on with it ane finish but the pain got too much so i  automatically pulled away anf he was like "howay man!"
What I find harder to deal with is the ones who on the whole are nice enough but its just their style that is painful/disgusting, I know i should be telling them to stop or slow down and I do but then I try to just get on with it  or id be repeating myself every two mins,, I tend to just do halves so 30mins is easier to put up with it

Oh the fingering  :( I hate it, it hurts so much and they always seem to try and dig for gold. Its so uncomfortable I just don't allow it anymore, as soon as I feel the fingers going in, I tell them no.

Have you ever had the guys who come in and scratch and play with the opening of your vagina? I get that quite a lot and I'm thinking what the fuck are you doing? That is not nice and actually painful considering I have sex for a living, your taking off what skin is left  :FF

I am just glad I came across this forum to find there are so many other girls who have the same issues as me. There are a lot of girls in the industry who can handle a lot of the things I moan about without any problems so I was beginning to wonder if it was just me being over dramatic.

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I no longer offer fingering at all.  So many guys just don't have the technique and it was way too uncomfortable so I just put on my profile that I dislike fingering and it hasn't affected bookings.

As for the scratching - I have had this too - what are they thinking???


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There's scratchers!? God I hope i don't encounter this.  I know a few girls dont allow it, I tend to give them a chance and if I cant bear it I tell them to be gentler and that im sensitive there (they do look at me like im the weirdo for not enjoying my vagina being ripped apart, especially if I have to keep reiterating it) if that doesn't help I move to oral...butthats a whole other minefield. If theyre a new client my thighs literally shake  with fear and I tense up, ever since a friend told me about a client who bit her! Literally BIT her! Im scarred just from knowing he's out there.
She chucked him out so im hoping hes a reformed lunatic
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Ah LittleMatch I've had teeth during oral. I try to nicely remind them that they don't like teeth, so neither do I! Fingering is a difficult one for me, some clients don't really bother it while I've had others who try three fingers from the off. I've never shot up my bed so fast in all my life!

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On my second ever booking the client asked me to open my mouth and when I did he spat in it and then later before he came he spat on my face and called me a slut. I could have cried. I didn't know it was something other girls wouldn't have put up with. Only good thing was it was over in fifteen minutes but he had paid for an hour 
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Theyre disgusting.  I know ive often wondered how they can be so oblivious.  I'm thinking its just more that they don't care.
Like when a guy was jamming his fingers in me so hard I tried to just get on with it ane finish but the pain got too much so i  automatically pulled away anf he was like "howay man!"
What I find harder to deal with is the ones who on the whole are nice enough but its just their style that is painful/disgusting, I know i should be telling them to stop or slow down and I do but then I try to just get on with it  or id be repeating myself every two mins,, I tend to just do halves so 30mins is easier to put up with it
I'm the same really and i despise when guys jam their fingers in,i find it so uncomfortable, total turn off.

I know that one but makes it worse when they have sweaty stinky breath or fag breath as for 2 ....I told a guy once that I didnt like kitkats 2 fingers or 4 lol his face was a picture :) ;D

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On my second ever booking the client asked me to open my mouth and when I did he spat in it and then later before he came he spat on my face and called me a slut. I could have cried. I didn't know it was something other girls wouldn't have put up with. Only good thing was it was over in fifteen minutes but he had paid for an hour

I blame the porn industry that's where they get it from

Nikitamids

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On my second ever booking the client asked me to open my mouth and when I did he spat in it and then later before he came he spat on my face and called me a slut. I could have cried. I didn't know it was something other girls wouldn't have put up with. Only good thing was it was over in fifteen minutes but he had paid for an hour

I blame the porn industry that's where they get it from

if thats the way they behave it stands to reason sometimes why they use working girls they could not do that to a girlfriend or the wife  disgusting some of them  :FF

Pink~Princess

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Yes porn is to blame lol. OMG CRINGE I had a guy come in who was very polite on the phone and in person, nice guy but the second we moved on to the sex stuff he developed a full blown American accent (Californian one at that) LOL he was very very loud and was talking dirty in this flippin accent, he was making all they "oh yeah" noises too, I was laughing so much when he had me bent over lol cringe!

He was extremely sloppy with the slobbering and he actually spat on my pussy, tongue in the ear, sloppy DFK, YUCK!!!

Then once it was all over he snapped back into this really nice guy.

Usually when they are cringey and creepy like that, they're whole personality is like that but this guy was only horrible/funny during sex and nice the rest of the time. Don't think I could put myself through meeting him again though.

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Omg hilarious.  Iv had many who suddenly become american too!  I dont think they even fully get off on it all I think thats just what they thinks expected of them..
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Hehehehehe so funny. I mean I love the American accent but only on an American person x

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I don't allow men to finger me, period. In my experience they have absolutely no idea how to do it and I have no desire to be a mentor in "your fingers curve for a reason" games. Plus I find male hands a lot more rough texture wise than female ones and its something I reserve for my own personal sex life with my female partner(s). On the brief occasion I've let the rule slide, I've became instantly mentally uncomfortable to the point I find myself mildly disassociating from the entire meet, which isn't healthy in the long run for anyone so no-one gets a shot. I don't care if they play around the area externally provided they realise my clitoris isn't a button on a remote control with dying batteries.

Speaking of the American thing, I get totally turned off by British accents (yes, all of the British accents from Orkney to the Isle of Man) saying 'pussy' but oddly its quite erotic in an American accent to me? Conversely an American saying 'cunt' just elicits the same reaction in me as a Brit saying pussy? Odd. I guess some words just sound better in different accents. If someone started developing a faux American accent during sex it would take all my self control not to burst out laughing ::) There have been clients I've met that have brought out my own natural accent though because they're of a similar cultural background, which can be quite entertaining when after 10 minutes in their company, I sound like a completely different person...

I don't get the slobbers at all. And if they have really bad oral hygiene/care I just can't do it. They can be lovely guys but I feel sick kissing them; I've always had a thing about my mouth and dental care and bad teeth/waterwell saliva mouth just... I'm making myself retch thinking about it

Emilia

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I don't allow men to finger me, period. In my experience they have absolutely no idea how to do it and I have no desire to be a mentor in "your fingers curve for a reason" games.

This this this! The amount of times I've had to try and explain that literally straight poking my vagina is hurting me is unbelievable! It's insane the amount of men that don't realise that a woman's vagina is not just some straight tunnel, I used to love fingering but it makes me so uncomfortable nowadays because of the amount of guys that are incompetent at it, think I'll start keeping it to my personal life. What annoys me the most about these situations where a guy is literally disgusting us and/or causing us pain is they are usually so clueless that if we stop them they just think we're being a bitch or being cold, I think guys like that would be best investing in a blow-up doll.