I'm really not sure where to start, so I am just going to add some rambling thoughts to this...which will all simply be my take on this, not saying it is the right stance...
I could not give a damn what their relationship status is. That is not because I am a cold hearted cow bag, but because it is none of my damn business. I'm providing a service and that is it. I'm not an 'enabler'. Is Tesc* an 'enabler' as it may sell a pack of Stella to a wife beating arse? Do they check whether you have a drink problem at the till?
Now, whilst it is none of my business, my clients have mostly revealed what their status is, I guess it is important to some regulars to do so.
Some of them have bloody good reasons to see an escort, forget the "my wife does not give me attention" balls, but some really valid ones. Like the client whose wife has been mentally ill for years, the one whose wife has been in and out of hospital for years, the ones whose wives are not into kinky stuff or BDSM etc. How the hell can I judge them based on those reasons? How would I know what walking a mile in their shoes feels like? Quite the opposite, I actually have shed loads of respect for some of them and ask them how their wife is doing when I see them each time. Life is not black and white and is mainly shades of slush grey, if I can add a splash of colour into their lives then that can only be a good thing.
I'm sure all of us will have brief fleeting thoughts as to the wives who are simply married to arses, but if they are any more than fleeting thoughts then I am of the thought that we need a break away from this, or maybe it is not for us. If the fact that some are married is going to get to someone, it could cause mental ramifications along the line.
H x