I don't mind what people call me. I have no qualms with the word prostitute. In fact I find it good with guys who are pushing boundaries to use that word for some reason it stops them in their tracks haba

How exactly do you use it to stop them in their tracks? Might be useful to know!

I enjoy the word whore. Once got scolded by a client for calling myself it. Don't really care what I'm called. As long as I'm treated with respect. And paid. Being paid is nice.

Ha! Yes agree re. The money it's really nice isn't it? Gives me a really warm fuzzy feeling these days. I've been scolded for calling myself a whore too by a client.

The absolute best bit now is when they say 'we'll deal with the paperwork first of course'. Makes me want to skip. I used to find this a bit of a twee phrase but after writing report after bloody report for the day job (No I am not a teacher!!!!!) I love the 'paperwork' we have to deal with - reminds me that although in theory I earn a similar amount from my day job per hour that doesn't account for the bloody tedious paperwork, travel or stress, nor does it allow me quite so much fun when all is going well - although when it doesn't it's the pits.

But best of all I love being paid for going on 'dates' after my chequered past with the dreaded on line dating sites but anyway must stay on point rather than digressing into my favourite gripe so....yes I proudly claim the term Whore, - more Whore for me! It fits me very nicely and prossie comes an acceptable second, although if a nice, clean smelling, respectful punter with money came looking for a prostitute, hey honey, I'm your Girly, Babes, Hun! (Well perhaps not Hun and Hunny doesn't make it better either it just compounds the offence).

im not aa prostitue as i dont have any sex om a sub and on do hjs. so i do not like being called one xx

Rosaley, anybody who offers a sexual service to in-person paying customers is a prostitute, whether it's BDSM of some type, massage with HR or plain old shagging and blow jobs. A sexual service basically encompasses anything that would be viewed as being intended for somebody to get their rocks off.

This most certainly includes both pro subs and dommes - actual penetrative sex is nothing to do with the legal definition, and whilst if you don't like it you don't like it and it's not important here, it's important you know this should you ever decide to take on a flat share (say) with another person who's working, because it's no less a brothel.

Quote from: happyhappyjoyjoy on 28 July 2014, 12:40:39 pm

I don't mind what people call me. I have no qualms with the word prostitute. In fact I find it good with guys who are pushing boundaries to use that word for some reason it stops them in their tracks haba

How exactly do you use it to stop them in their tracks? Might be useful to know!

It's more the guys that try to go soft on you takeing the GFE too far wanting to know my real name or the "I thought you had a good time with me" just the sentence "I'm a prostitute." just clarifies to them the relationship we have is professional.

When a guy asks for bareback (only happened once in an appointment he asked if he could "quickly dip it in") I say "You really want to do bareback with a prostitute?" It just adds that dose of reality they clearly need at that point.

Quote from: TheChemist on 28 July 2014, 12:44:57 pm

Quote from: happyhappyjoyjoy on 28 July 2014, 12:40:39 pm

I don't mind what people call me. I have no qualms with the word prostitute. In fact I find it good with guys who are pushing boundaries to use that word for some reason it stops them in their tracks haba

How exactly do you use it to stop them in their tracks? Might be useful to know!

It's more the guys that try to go soft on you takeing the GFE too far wanting to know my real name or the "I thought you had a good time with me" just the sentence "I'm a prostitute." just clarifies to them the relationship we have is professional.

When a guy asks for bareback (only happened once in an appointment he asked if he could "quickly dip it in") I say "You really want to do bareback with a prostitute?" It just adds that dose of reality they clearly need at that point.

I agree here, despite the massive amounts of research some guys do and the value for money they demand they still dont like to see themselves as the sort of person who would visit a prostitute so you become the "lady they see" or "the working girl" or "escort" which is all fine with me but if they are pushing it and expecting time for free etc then reminding them that "prostitutes" charge does kind of bring them up short and make them stop in their tracks. Sometimes they stammer a bit too when explaining that they dont see you THAT way as if its an insult?not an insult to me x

I don't like the word 'prostitute' at all to be honest, i do use the term to describe myself on rare occasions but it'd irritate me somewhat if a client began saying something like "ooh that's it you dirty little prostitute" - i'd be very annoyed. Silly really because that's exactly what i am!

I'd prefer to be referred to as a "whore" which amounts to the same thing anyway, i actually quite like being called a whore..

But prostitute? However contradictory and silly i may sound to some - i just don't like being called one either 

Happy to be a whore, prostitute etc as the rest are saying, it comes with positives not negatives for me

I mean i see where it sounds negative as most the time it's used as hateful slur, but at the end of the day that is what we do. I always find it funny when time wasters call me whore, i'm like thanks for stating the obvious...

Quote from: StawberryFields on 31 July 2014, 04:34:51 am

My boyfriend laughs at me when I say "oh, it's my whorephone... I've got whoremail..." :') I very much consider myself a whore! 

I call it the whorephone too it makes me feel like a super hero like batman has the bat phone

I also like whoremail, as when typing hotmail.co.uk it is easily mis-typed as hormail.co.uk (one letter away, adjacent on the keyboard) so gives me chuckles all the time :')