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Lil Lolita

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Re: the term prostitute?
« Reply #60 on: 27 June 2013, 09:48:39 pm »
Inna, what on earth are you talking about

Lil Lolita

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Re: the term prostitute?
« Reply #61 on: 27 June 2013, 10:21:24 pm »
I think I walked into that one lol  ;D

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« Reply #62 on: 29 July 2013, 10:09:54 pm »
The word doesn't offend me. But I'd be pretty pissed to be called it in the street - I have a child.
People always think the worst of you and I don't need that kinda drama in our life's.

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« Reply #63 on: 02 August 2013, 12:15:16 pm »
The word doesn't offend me. But I'd be pretty pissed to be called it in the street - I have a child.
People always think the worst of you and I don't need that kinda drama in our life's.

I use it when I need to talk about what I do. Talking to a potential client for example. It's very clear and concise to most people, escort is too wishy washy and means different things to different people. I find a lot of men are excited by the word prostitute and it's often a deal maker. Their eyes tell you they are interested even when the rest of them (apart from the obvious) is pretending to be ambivalent. I have another job that I put when I have to fill in application forms and things like that. If I want to avoid embarrassing other people, like at social gatherings, I just say I do counseling as well as my other work. With my friends who know me I just refer to it as my whoring. That often raises a smile and when people overhear they usually think it's a joke.

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« Reply #64 on: 05 August 2013, 10:16:32 pm »
i think that alot of punters dont even like the word prostitute. i use it candidly in conversation and love seeing their face drop lol!

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« Reply #65 on: 05 August 2013, 10:22:47 pm »
Just for the avoidance of any confusion, 'sexystephanie' and the deleted (shortly before reregistering) OP are one and the same.

i reckon this was the work of a prostitutes ex boyfriend/friend, trying to have a misogynistic dig

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« Reply #66 on: 27 July 2014, 09:22:08 pm »
I'm under no illusions. The names all mean the same thing and I know what I am...

  • I like the term "escort" or "sex worker" or "working girl"/"WG". I'm fine with "prostitute" though it seems a little clinical. I also really like "whore" for some reason, it kind of gets me off...
  • For some reason I don't like the words "Pro$$ie"/"Prossie" or "Hooker", especially from clients (it doesn't bother me so much on here).
  • Sometimes I wish for more exotic terms like "lady of the night" or "courtesan" or "scarlet harlot" just for kicks and giggles.

Anyone else have a similar thing or is it just me? If so, what do and don't you like to be called?
« Last Edit: 27 July 2014, 09:39:13 pm by StawberryFields »

amy

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Re: the term prostitute?
« Reply #67 on: 27 July 2014, 09:25:24 pm »
I've merged this with one of the other threads on the topic, although there are more :).

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« Reply #68 on: 27 July 2014, 09:34:42 pm »
Thanks amy! Sorry for effectively digging up something that had already died!

amy

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« Reply #69 on: 27 July 2014, 09:41:13 pm »
Oh, it's OK! It just saves the people who have already answered from doing so again if they can't be bothered, and if it wasn't for the same dozen or so topics coming up over and over again the whole place would be looking a bit thin :).

lailah terri

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Re: the term prostitute?
« Reply #70 on: 27 July 2014, 10:32:09 pm »
I hated the word prostitute when I first started, now it doesn't bother me as much.
I quite like 'lady of the night', even though I'm usually a lunchtime worker. Service provider makes me giggle, it feels so pink collar!

I had a client call me a dirty slut once, that didn't really sit too well with me, I'm really clean  :)
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meetingdiversity

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« Reply #71 on: 27 July 2014, 10:36:52 pm »
I don't find the word prozzy offensive as it is what I am doing. I am a proud prozzy, who enjoy others paying for exchange sexual services many do. The odd few only massage. I can call myself it with clients and still feel great about myself. It is what one associates the prozzy with. It is what we are doing seriously. Escorting is a politer word for prozzy but is still the same. Doing some thing society associates prozzys with then dislike getting called one.

Freya

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« Reply #72 on: 28 July 2014, 12:19:56 am »
As usual came late to this and did wonder if OP was a punter?..... Anyway. I don't like the word prostitute because of the sound it makes. It's got 3 syllables and sounds a bit clipped and cold to me. Proxie on the other hand sounds quite nice but I prefer the term Whore for myself, it's got a pleasing sound to me and having looked at definitions of the word am quite happy that it describes my behaviour and general ethos to a tee :-)

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Re: the term prostitute?
« Reply #73 on: 28 July 2014, 10:24:49 am »
I enjoy the word whore. Once got scolded by a client for calling myself it. Don't really care what I'm called. As long as I'm treated with respect. And paid. Being paid is nice.

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« Reply #74 on: 28 July 2014, 12:40:39 pm »
I don't mind what people call me. I have no qualms with the word prostitute. In fact I find it good with guys who are pushing boundaries to use that word for some reason it stops them in their tracks haba