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woowoomonster

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The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« on: 23 June 2021, 08:56:56 pm »
He texts you a question.
A minute or two passes.
Then you receive a text message that looks like this:

?

A single, solitary question mark. All on its own.
What purpose does this have apart from showing how impatient he must be?
I find this the most irritating, rude, aggravating thing in the world. Nagging me, just because I haven't yet responded to their message in a full three minutes.
Sorry, but I've got other things to do, other people to respond to, and I'm not glued to my phone every second.
As if it's going to achieve anything??!

So ladies, have you had much experience with the Solitary Question mark of impatience, and if you see the clients who send this message, do you find their character turns out to be as rude and impatient as their texting or are they generally okay people in real life?

misscleo

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #1 on: 23 June 2021, 09:12:17 pm »
Instantly blocked.

ana30

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #2 on: 23 June 2021, 09:30:43 pm »
I don;t block, but I don't respond either. I leave them hanging in a permanent state of interrogation...wondering...

Adds to the mistery.
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woowoomonster

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #3 on: 23 June 2021, 09:35:55 pm »
I don;t block, but I don't respond either. I leave them hanging in a permanent state of interrogation...wondering...

Haha, love it!!

Adds to the mistery.

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #4 on: 23 June 2021, 09:47:56 pm »
Similarly anyone who asks questions with a double ?? can get tae fuck.

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #5 on: 24 June 2021, 11:24:39 am »
This feels so rude, it's usually not a good sign.

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #6 on: 24 June 2021, 11:33:22 am »
He texts you a question.
A minute or two passes.
Then you receive a text message that looks like this:

?

A single, solitary question mark. All on its own.
What purpose does this have apart from showing how impatient he must be?
I find this the most irritating, rude, aggravating thing in the world. Nagging me, just because I haven't yet responded to their message in a full three minutes.
Sorry, but I've got other things to do, other people to respond to, and I'm not glued to my phone every second.
As if it's going to achieve anything??!

So ladies, have you had much experience with the Solitary Question mark of impatience, and if you see the clients who send this message, do you find their character turns out to be as rude and impatient as their texting or are they generally okay people in real life?

it irritates me no end, it's so rude and impatient  :FF

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #7 on: 24 June 2021, 12:00:00 pm »
I had someone ask if I was available, then because I didn’t answer in 10 minutes he text the classic ??, and then :

‘A simple yes or no will do.’

Had seen him before as well! Blocked and blacklisted! Some of them really do believe the world revolves around them...it’s pretty obvious why we’re not answering and I’m sure they wouldn’t like it if we were answering ‘are you available’ texts whilst balls deep inside our pussy  ::)
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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #8 on: 24 June 2021, 07:52:30 pm »
These are the sort that if you, God forbid, take more than 15 minutes to reply, they've already booked someone else. I'm afraid patience is a virtue so they get blocked immediately but, not before I give them a bloody talking to..
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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #9 on: 26 June 2021, 11:04:44 am »
It's rude and impatient.
Doesn't matter if it's a client or someone I know, if they do that they can get in the sea.

Kiss

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #10 on: 26 June 2021, 01:12:59 pm »
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« Last Edit: 03 July 2021, 11:22:34 am by Kiss »
Hot vintage 🙂

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #11 on: 30 June 2021, 09:31:38 am »
It’s passive aggressive -  answer me
If I get that I ignore the person
I will then text back later and tell them I  didn’t answer because I was busy with a client
I’m sure if we met and I was replying to texts all through the booking they wouldn’t be happy
And then I just block or ignore them

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #12 on: 30 June 2021, 03:51:25 pm »
I got the triple question mark yesterday.  He asked a question, I answered the question in a clear way and he replied with ???

F that.

I delete all question marks, ALWAYS.  If you can't be bothered to ASK me the question or you don't understand something, either ask me for clarity or bugger off.  I don't have time for all that nonsense.

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #13 on: 05 July 2021, 02:05:46 pm »
Only mega rude people ever do send this message. I agree with ana - leave them hanging forever.

There are polite alternatives. For example, a nice client yesterday text me in the afternoon to ask if we could bring our evening appointment forward by half an hour. I didn't reply straight away (fair enough) but he must have wanted confirmation in order to arrange his other plans (also fair enough) so he followed it up with a 'LMK babe x'

which amounts to the same as a solitary question mark but I felt was very friendly, not rude!

Selling on ebay, gumtree, etc... people who send questions followed by the single ? usually go on to ask for an 80% discount plus free delivery to the Scottish Highlands... wankers...
A woman, especially, if she have the misfortune of knowing anything, should conceal it as well as she can. - Jane Austen

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Re: The Solitary Question Mark of Impatience
« Reply #14 on: 21 October 2021, 05:21:47 pm »
I’m totally with you the ? Absolutely drives me mad  :FF
This post shows how often it happens 🤦🏻‍♀️