When you have one does it put you on edge?

I hate them. Usually the ones who are more sociable and outspoken you know whether they will be okay or not. But the quiet ones don't give much to go on.

Just had one and he sounded okay over the phone but then he text me a couple of times with abrupt messages. I decided he probably wasn't going to come - he sounded like he just wanted my address. But he turned up and was okay apart from being very quiet. They just want 15 minutes which I'm not keen on anyway, but no doubt they want that time seeing as they don't want to talk.

We had a brief conversation at the end about the weather ... aren't we so British  but that was it. And he was okay, just the quietness really puts me on edge! 

I work in Massage during day and do out calls evenings if guys ask for full service. Nearly always older clients ask for this. Young guys just want HE that negotiate with me. Nearly all never talk, think younger seem lack social skill now. Doesn't bother me as music in background helps.

  me too! i dislike this kind of clients.
give me anxiety! weird to say...but real! i prefer over communicative to them. Well somethings in the middle is the best!

Usually 2 kinds of quiet ones.
The weird ones and the shy ones.
Weird ones are freaky and the shy ones are lovely,

Chatting on the phone before confirming anything is the best thing to avoid the weird ones

I used to see this man every so often.  He was always polite and nice.  As soon as the fun ended, he clammed up.  He would not look at me or talk to me and left quickly.  He did this each and every time.

One day he made an appointment and cancelled at the last minute.  I understood.  Real life comes first.  Then he did it again.

After a time he  emailed and asked me if I would see him again and I said 'yes but are you sure you will turn up'  to which he replied that he would.

Well he didn't.

Later on he emailed to apologise and explained why he was so odd after the session and this was because he loved his wife and felt guilty and ashamed.  He apologised for wasting my time and said he could not go through with the appointments any more because he could not live with the guilt he felt afterwards, and it got worse each time.    I wished him well and never saw him again.

I saw guys who went to massage parlours.  When they saw me it was a completely different experience and they never spoke.  Yes I found it odd, but they returned to see me again so I decided they wanted a service only and nothing more.

My own lack of confidence meant I talked to offset the nerves.  I still talked but some of them never replied !