Oh god. I thought 2 people knew. All my friends, family friends and acquaintances know. I literally want to die, I don't know what to do!
Sorry to write on here, but I have no one to turn to. The proverbial sh*t hit the fan tonight.
I'm just sitting in my car crying, thinking how stupid I have been. My photos are obviously me.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated? Or any reassurance. Don't know who to turn to, especially at this time
Xxx

I know exactly how you feel hun.   Lucy gave great advice.  I'd go down the model route, some random is using your pics.   Or say its something you thought would be a good idea ages ago, set the site up but never went through with it.  Don't admit anything. 

And Lucys right, you haven't even done nothing wrong!  Hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Can you tell us more about how they got to know that?

What Lucy said, plus most of them probably think what you've been doing is illegal and telling them that it isn't will be one positive thing to do, which ever you decide.

My usual comment is think about who came better out of their sex 'scandal': George 'yeah, so what' Michael or Hugh 'omg, I don't know what came over me, I'm so sorry, I'll never do it again' Grant.

Thats why its extra good to have a pre-paid number citing a different name on your voicemail...but even then, people can hear your voice and tell its you possibly.

Thats one thing I couldn't stand about living in a small town. In a matter of weeks, the entire town knew I was an escort...Im just not going to make that mistake again in the future. Its separate numbers, no face-showing on local ads and hookup sites.

People dont need to know everything...

Good morning, Miss Bond.


So glad you stuck up for yourself-you tell em. I cannot bear sanctimonious people.

As to the AW, then you need to create your account from a different IP address, or it will auto link you. Another option is to create a AW group, and add yourself to the old account under your new name, in which case you will be able to use both (I didn't advise that, by the way ), or to change your exsisting nickname and area, or to email AW outlining your problem and see if they will make an allowance in this case.

Don't ever let anyone tell you that you are somehow less of a person because you do this job, you aren't.

My ex outed me on facebook, thankfully my friends all thought he'd created a fake profile as we'd just split up but it was honestly the most terrifying moment in the two years of escorting that I had previously had, and was defo a bit consideration before I made the choice to return.

Really hope things work out for you and doesn't cause too much damage.  X

or to change your exsisting nickname and area

The trouble with this is that if you are on their hotlist you still appear with all your new ID (so I've been told).  I was ok running two profiles for a couple of years (it's complicated) but the minute one of those profiles gets a negative feedback they both become visible together. If you change to seeking services to go off the radar for a few days  (as those seeking services cannot be found by search, although any correspondence already initiated can continue), anyone who has ever emailed you sees the two id's immediately (one of which comes up red).  It's complicated.  Has anyone noticed we can now tell on AW when/if they deleted our emails.  I'm certain that wasn't there before.

Also  Hotspot Shield http://hotspotshield.com/ is free and handy for instant IP address change, but for AW it means you come up in the right hand corner as being in the US and are broadcast as such.  I'm pretty sure that there is a UK alternative around; I've never looked though.  I think there is a program in which you can make up 'profiles' which you can change at the click of your mouse ie changing ip, deleting browser cache and even changing your MAC address (the hardware one, not the one from your ISP).

I'm amazed at how clueless some clients are who constantly browse AW at work and genuinely believe that their Sys Admin are unaware / are not having a good laugh at their antics while they eat their lunch.  They don't even clear their history afterwards.

Oh well best get on with my day.