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Maiya

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my first strap-on
« on: 11 April 2010, 11:22:13 am »
Usually I don't do these things but I just received a message from a client who wants to be dominated with a strap-on. So I bought one on a website and it should arrive on next Tuesday-Wednesday.
My first strap-on ;) ;) ;)
« Last Edit: 11 April 2010, 03:38:37 pm by Maiya »

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Re: my first strap-on
« Reply #1 on: 11 April 2010, 03:54:28 pm »
I stopped providing this service because clients would be full of bravado before the booking but quickly decide it was "too much".  ::) So it would have to be a condom on my fingers. Im not being funny but if that were what I aspired to have my hands in all day, I would go and live on a farm!  ;D
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Re: my first strap-on
« Reply #2 on: 11 April 2010, 05:50:31 pm »
What size did you get, Maya? I've only had one client who was really interested in anal play and it was great; it's interesting when the client has lots of ideas for getting himself off and you get to practice them on someone. But I only have butt plugs so I didn't get to try the full dom/anal experience! I hope your client does go through with it cos then you can update us with how it went. ;D
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« Reply #3 on: 11 April 2010, 06:19:18 pm »
Mmmm...well he may be gay or bi LOL. In that case, yeah.

I dont know how he did it, but I had one guy who could take the hugest dildos up his ass. To the point where it made ME feel small. Im not sure if those were actual replicas, or something imaginary.

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« Reply #4 on: 11 April 2010, 08:01:14 pm »
Mmmm...well he may be gay or bi LOL. In that case, yeah.

No, Joey, a lot of straight guys also like anal play - anything from fingers to strap-ons and everything inbetween. This article mentions it with some studies.
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« Reply #5 on: 11 April 2010, 09:24:59 pm »
No, Joey, a lot of straight guys also like anal play - anything from fingers to strap-ons and everything inbetween. This article mentions it with some studies.

Honey, you dont have to tell me twice LOL. This is me you're talking to  ;)  One minute they are straight, the next minute they are getting fucked. Happens all the time LOL

I was meaning, it would be 'easier' to do so if he's gay or bi..since they tend to like the huge cocks. Cindy mentioned alot of guys would backout...assuming because it hurt too much?

Another thing...this may be slightly off topic, but I find some straight men (and gay) dont know how to properly prepare for anal. And lately, it has been ruining the sexperience for me. I dont want to see a bunch of crap after going inside them. I find it utterly disgusting, its messy...and no fun. I mean...if you're going to be talking about how much you want to get fucked, and that you like your hole to be played with...then please, clean it! And I have no qualms about asking someone to do so before they show up. Have you douched? No?...Then please do so before you come over.

However, the other day...a guy who I had seen prior had came by and I introduced him to Summer's Eve for the first time because he obviously was NOT clean. It was also my first time showing someone how to douche. He loved the sensation...and afterwards he was 'almost' completely clean. Had we waited atleast an hour, he'd been fine..But then that would have been a 2 hour booking  :P
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« Reply #6 on: 11 April 2010, 09:39:28 pm »
Oh how sweet, you got your first strap on. Did you name it yet, I give all my strap-on and toys names. Sad but true. There is Mr. Pinky, an 8 inch day glo pink strap on, Mr. Fleshy, a 6 inch strap on. Puff MaMa, and Puff baby, pump up rubber dildos. Princess Turbo-pink silicone vibrator(my personal favorite), Mr. Wiggles-anal toy in purple. Pinky Wiggles, anal toy in pink. You get the picture.

As to clients and strap ons, it is nice in theory, and the visual can be horny, but that isn't what they had in mind. I have traumatized a few clients with my various anal toys. Poor dears.

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« Reply #7 on: 11 April 2010, 10:24:23 pm »
As to clients and strap ons, it is nice in theory, and the visual can be horny, but that isn't what they had in mind. I have traumatized a few clients with my various anal toys. Poor dears.

do you get them to 'cleanse up' prior to that?

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« Reply #8 on: 11 April 2010, 11:16:24 pm »
What size did you get, Maya? I've only had one client who was really interested in anal play and it was great; it's interesting when the client has lots of ideas for getting himself off and you get to practice them on someone. But I only have butt plugs so I didn't get to try the full dom/anal experience! I hope your client does go through with it cos then you can update us with how it went. ;D

He told me that he already tryed the strap-on so there are not problems. However the size is 7 inch...
I believe it's enough!!  ;)

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« Reply #9 on: 12 April 2010, 09:01:12 am »
I was meaning, it would be 'easier' to do so if he's gay or bi..since they tend to like the huge cocks. Cindy mentioned alot of guys would backout...assuming because it hurt too much?

Oh, I getcha. Sorry! Of course that makes sense. And anyway, I do wonder whether if 'straight' guys weren't generally so homophobic (when it comes to "OMG dood I'm totally not gay, man! Gay guys are cool but I'm not gay!") and male bisexuality was as easily accepted as female bisexuality (or at least, porny female bisexuality) then there might be a lot more of a blurred line between homo- and heterosexuality with men and experimenting would be much more likely and all that. So, that was a crappy rambly sentence but I just think that it's possible that the current self-reported statistical group of heterosexual men might actually be a little more fluid than they're letting on. I mean, I've only met ONE client who said to me that he was openly and honestly bisexual and it would just be a shame if millions of not-quite-straight guys are cutting out possible sexual exploration out of their lives, even though they might enjoy it, due to a fear of being ridiculed by peers or made unwelcome in his own family, or whatnot. It's silly at the moment that a straight guy can't talk about enjoying being anally penetrated (in the media and certain groups) without mentioning his WIFE, cos he's MARRIED, to a LADY! ::)

Sorry, ramble. With regards to cleanliness of the back passage... I've had clients who couldn't even clean the area around it before. Talk about gagging. But I remember you said that you find guys to normally be really clean down there I think, maybe it's more common in the gay community to actually be considerate to your sexual partners? I remember being very jealous! :P Any client I get who is shaved and scrubbed down there gets absolutely hours of oral from me, should they wish it. And men don't even need to worry about getting infections if the pH of their crotch-soap isn't balanced! Tsk!
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« Reply #10 on: 12 April 2010, 07:43:19 pm »
As to clients and strap ons, it is nice in theory, and the visual can be horny, but that isn't what they had in mind. I have traumatized a few clients with my various anal toys. Poor dears.

do you get them to 'cleanse up' prior to that?
The concept of cleanliness is lost on the average Irish guy! I tell them to do this before they come to me, but usually they don't. So, this is why if they want anal play, I have a small supply of disposable douches. They are Summer's Eve spring time fresh when I am done with them!

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« Reply #11 on: 12 April 2010, 08:17:10 pm »
Violette I just had images of you having to open your case at customs and introducing all the toys  ;D

I've found lots of guys enjoy the thought of strap-on's but don't really like the feeling of it going in and out. Lots have preferred prostate massage rather than being 'taken' up the rear.

Good Luck trying it out Maiya, as Violette and Joey have said - encourage the client to get clean before putting 'things' up there. Let us know how it goes x 

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« Reply #12 on: 12 April 2010, 08:57:03 pm »
I say "thank you" to all of you.
Clean... Of course!!! Otherwise I don't want to imagine what might happen!  ;)
However, in these days I am also surfing on BDSM sites to learn more about this aspect of sexuality. The appointment with this man is on next Friday night (he is booked for 2 hours) then I will know something on the weekend.

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« Reply #13 on: 13 April 2010, 12:56:54 pm »
maybe it's more common in the gay community to actually be considerate to your sexual partners?

Willies and bums are pretty much the same from person to person, give or take (excuse the pun). If you like there's to be neat and clean, you are more likely to try and keep yours in the same condition...
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« Reply #14 on: 17 April 2010, 12:19:22 am »
GREAT! GREAT! GREAT!
I've just finished with the client  of the strapon.
Everything went well, Perfect!
;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D