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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Erotic flower on 15 June 2015, 08:11:24 am

Title: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Erotic flower on 15 June 2015, 08:11:24 am
From the long pointless email to the online booking to the call all for a quick wank is it really worth it?  ::)
or the chat the endless texting the potential meet up then the build up is so exciting for a wank.
 All this just for a wank !!!!
 
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Naked Chef on 15 June 2015, 11:10:36 am
 ;D ;D ;D ;D haha yes, these dudes are crazy!!!
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: VioletteUK on 15 June 2015, 02:44:52 pm
Googling porn would be so much easier.
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Erotic flower on 15 June 2015, 04:00:25 pm
Googling porn would be so much easier.
yea or spending credits on our private galleries
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Curvygal on 16 June 2015, 01:52:07 pm
In a way, and only on days they aren't really annoying me, they fascinate me.  What on earth is the point?  Ring loads of girls then say you'll call them back and never do?  What do they get out of that?

The ones that send you off on fake bookings/refuse to answer the door once you're outside/look then knock you back, OK I get that.  They like wasting your time, having the control, getting a free look.

But just calling? 

Men are very very very odd.
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Lucie268 on 16 June 2015, 06:01:04 pm
I think they just like the thrill of it, maybe the idea of seeing an escort is a fantasy for them but they'd never follow through.

Never mind the fact that we're real people who run our own businesses and generally have no time to entertain their shit. I just don't think they have any respect for us, otherwise they wouldn't do it.
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: The_Lynx on 16 June 2015, 06:50:31 pm
Honestly, if you think about it, it's no different from any other prank caller or internet troll - they get entertainment out of some (faint) knowledge that they annoyed/messed around with someone. As for it being disrespectful... Vast majority of people outside of our industry probably disrespects folks in our line of work to some extent, so that shouldn't come as a surprise, imo.
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: cheesypeas on 16 June 2015, 06:54:12 pm
I don't think it's disrespect.
There was no respect in the first place.
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Nia Hope on 16 June 2015, 07:07:43 pm
Honestly, if you think about it, it's no different from any other prank caller or internet troll - they get entertainment out of some (faint) knowledge that they annoyed/messed around with someone. As for it being disrespectful... Vast majority of people outside of our industry probably disrespects folks in our line of work to some extent, so that shouldn't come as a surprise, imo.
It's worse in some jobs, fake 999 calls are awful, some people fake illness and go to hospital, lots of tossers about x
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: BJC on 16 June 2015, 07:19:17 pm
In a way, and only on days they aren't really annoying me, they fascinate me.  What on earth is the point?  Ring loads of girls then say you'll call them back and never do?  What do they get out of that?

The ones that send you off on fake bookings/refuse to answer the door once you're outside/look then knock you back, OK I get that.  They like wasting your time, having the control, getting a free look.

But just calling? 

Men are very very very odd.

This puzzles me too, along with the time-wasting guys who like to waste our time via AdultWork messenger.
There's a guy on there who's messaged me about 4 different times over the last 2 years with a different version of the same message every time, basically along the lines of:

Hey I'm new to this and I've never seen an escort before. Would love to come and see you maybe one day this week, could you give me an idea of what exactly you'd do and how you'd do it during the booking to put me at ease and so I know what to expect?

Translation: Please give me a blow by blow explicit account of a booking I've no intention of making so I can wank over it and waste your time.

The guys been a member since 2008 and has a grand total of 0 feedbacks... Go figure!
I just don't understand why they do this, there's plenty of free porn on the internet nowadays, surely that's better wank material? The only conclusion I can come to is that wasting our time is part of the thrill.
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: The_Lynx on 16 June 2015, 07:21:06 pm
Honestly, if you think about it, it's no different from any other prank caller or internet troll - they get entertainment out of some (faint) knowledge that they annoyed/messed around with someone. As for it being disrespectful... Vast majority of people outside of our industry probably disrespects folks in our line of work to some extent, so that shouldn't come as a surprise, imo.
It's worse in some jobs, fake 999 calls are awful, some people fake illness and go to hospital, lots of tossers about x

Yeah, it's a fairly big problem at least for the police around here, too. As a result, using any emergency number for no good reason results in fines, big ones. For example, with an automatic fire alarm, if it gets triggered for a reason other than emergency and you do not call it off  immediately, you're looking at around 10000 NOK (around 850 GBP) fine.
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Nia Hope on 16 June 2015, 08:01:36 pm
In a way, and only on days they aren't really annoying me, they fascinate me.  What on earth is the point?  Ring loads of girls then say you'll call them back and never do?  What do they get out of that?

The ones that send you off on fake bookings/refuse to answer the door once you're outside/look then knock you back, OK I get that.  They like wasting your time, having the control, getting a free look.

But just calling? 

Men are very very very odd.

This puzzles me too, along with the time-wasting guys who like to waste our time via AdultWork messenger.
There's a guy on there who's messaged me about 4 different times over the last 2 years with a different version of the same message every time, basically along the lines of:

Hey I'm new to this and I've never seen an escort before. Would love to come and see you maybe one day this week, could you give me an idea of what exactly you'd do and how you'd do it during the booking to put me at ease and so I know what to expect?

Translation: Please give me a blow by blow explicit account of a booking I've no intention of making so I can wank over it and waste your time.

The guys been a member since 2008 and has a grand total of 0 feedbacks... Go figure!
I just don't understand why they do this, there's plenty of free porn on the internet nowadays, surely that's better wank material? The only conclusion I can come to is that wasting our time is part of the thrill.
I'm sure I've had that guy? If not him there's probably loads similar! They honestly must think we are stupid, I let them prattle on sometimes with the same old shit then make them aware I've spoken to them before and they're a well known timewaster x
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Erotic flower on 19 June 2015, 07:41:39 am
Many of them are retarded !
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Mirror on 19 June 2015, 09:31:06 am
I've had guys email, text, phone, use various forums to contact me asking about bookings, for 3, 4 and 5 years.........they use a slightly different name each time but it becomes obvious it's the same person each time.

When challenged it's always that they are nervous, I have told them they are actually making themselves look a bit strange, they then promise to stop, then start again ::)
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Erotic flower on 13 July 2015, 03:44:45 pm
the heavy breathing trying to disguise the fact they are trying to wank while appearing to be making a booking they wont turn up for !!
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Molasses on 13 July 2015, 04:29:15 pm
I once had a guy send me some messages on aw then booked webcam with me, he then booked me for an outcall, I called to confirm he said he couldn't wait to see me, I got to the place and it was a gated estate, the guy didn't answer the buzzer and refused to answer the phone, I was soooo angry and confused ???
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: Emma_C on 14 July 2015, 11:40:52 am
Spineless voyeurs, very cheap free thrill for them to contact us. Women don't behave like this, yes men are very weird & juvenile! This job is a real eye opener into how pathetic some men really are.

I think it's teenage boys alot of the time..
Title: Re: the lengths a timewaster will go to !
Post by: BibiofLeeds on 14 July 2015, 11:57:59 am
Oh I don't know. I have had several committed lady timewasters over the years.So they can be as bad but yes its mainly blokes who do it.