haha yes, these dudes are crazy!!!

Googling porn would be so much easier.

yea or spending credits on our private galleries

I think they just like the thrill of it, maybe the idea of seeing an escort is a fantasy for them but they'd never follow through.

Never mind the fact that we're real people who run our own businesses and generally have no time to entertain their shit. I just don't think they have any respect for us, otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I don't think it's disrespect.
There was no respect in the first place.

In a way, and only on days they aren't really annoying me, they fascinate me.  What on earth is the point?  Ring loads of girls then say you'll call them back and never do?  What do they get out of that?

The ones that send you off on fake bookings/refuse to answer the door once you're outside/look then knock you back, OK I get that.  They like wasting your time, having the control, getting a free look.

But just calling? 

Men are very very very odd.

This puzzles me too, along with the time-wasting guys who like to waste our time via AdultWork messenger.
There's a guy on there who's messaged me about 4 different times over the last 2 years with a different version of the same message every time, basically along the lines of:

Hey I'm new to this and I've never seen an escort before. Would love to come and see you maybe one day this week, could you give me an idea of what exactly you'd do and how you'd do it during the booking to put me at ease and so I know what to expect?

Translation: Please give me a blow by blow explicit account of a booking I've no intention of making so I can wank over it and waste your time.

The guys been a member since 2008 and has a grand total of 0 feedbacks... Go figure!
I just don't understand why they do this, there's plenty of free porn on the internet nowadays, surely that's better wank material? The only conclusion I can come to is that wasting our time is part of the thrill.

Quote from: Curvygal on 16 June 2015, 01:52:07 pm

In a way, and only on days they aren't really annoying me, they fascinate me.  What on earth is the point?  Ring loads of girls then say you'll call them back and never do?  What do they get out of that?

The ones that send you off on fake bookings/refuse to answer the door once you're outside/look then knock you back, OK I get that.  They like wasting your time, having the control, getting a free look.

But just calling? 

Men are very very very odd.

This puzzles me too, along with the time-wasting guys who like to waste our time via AdultWork messenger.
There's a guy on there who's messaged me about 4 different times over the last 2 years with a different version of the same message every time, basically along the lines of:

Hey I'm new to this and I've never seen an escort before. Would love to come and see you maybe one day this week, could you give me an idea of what exactly you'd do and how you'd do it during the booking to put me at ease and so I know what to expect?

Translation: Please give me a blow by blow explicit account of a booking I've no intention of making so I can wank over it and waste your time.

The guys been a member since 2008 and has a grand total of 0 feedbacks... Go figure!
I just don't understand why they do this, there's plenty of free porn on the internet nowadays, surely that's better wank material? The only conclusion I can come to is that wasting our time is part of the thrill.

I'm sure I've had that guy? If not him there's probably loads similar! They honestly must think we are stupid, I let them prattle on sometimes with the same old shit then make them aware I've spoken to them before and they're a well known timewaster x

I've had guys email, text, phone, use various forums to contact me asking about bookings, for 3, 4 and 5 years.........they use a slightly different name each time but it becomes obvious it's the same person each time.

When challenged it's always that they are nervous, I have told them they are actually making themselves look a bit strange, they then promise to stop, then start again