The big hello and welcome thread! Newbies introduce yourselves here

[SexySxxx]

 
Hello all
My name Is Serena and I'm an independent escort from London.
Nice to read all your posts and to feel part of a community. Look forward to reading more and contributing.

[ssnw]

Hi everyone. I've registered before but had some computer problems , I always found this site a huge help (big thankyou.to the mods and everyone who helped create such a wealth of info) it's  great to be connected again.

Stay saafe. (Lol)
Ss , x

[Sarah sweeties]

Hi my name is samanthasweetie not long joined. Hi everyone hope you all keeping safe and well x

[nat2013]

Hi folks!!

I have sent a few posts but now realise I have been very rude and not introduced myself!! 

I am an independent escort (I did work for agencies for a very short time!!) working in Liverpool.
I have been working for about 18 months but do it very sporadically and the odd job here and there.

I think this site is brilliant and only wish I had discovered it about 17 months and a week ago lol!

Genuine nice folk that take time out to advise and help others 

XXX

[CaraMxx]

Ooops! How rude of me!

Hi everyone! 

[MaddieMoo]

Hi all! My name is Maddie and I'm a newbie based in Manchester! Still finding my feet but I've found this site so helpful and it seems like the ladies on this forum have a very good rapport with each other, always friendly and supporting, so just had to sign up

[misslustful34]

Greetings everyone ! My name is Miss Lustful looking to become a BBW Escort in Georgia .

[hollytree]

Hi everyone

Was wondering how you sort out payment? Do I take the money first or after and what do you say as i don't want it to be awkward
Also if you do incalls, do you send them straight to your bedroom or sit them in your living room first? I'm sorry if these are silly questions. xxx

[hollytree]

Hi everyone

Super new escort and nervous for my first booking 
Was wondering how you sort out payment? Do I take the money first or after and what do you say as i don't want it to be awkward
Also if you do incalls, do you send them straight to your bedroom or sit them in your living room first? I'm sorry if these are silly questions. xxx

Welcome to SAAFE 

To begin with do have a good read of the main site...after that read it again as there's lots of useful info on there. If you're wondering about anything in particular then the odds are that it will have been discussed somewhere on the forum already so the search function can point you to some relevant topics if you have questions about anything. Type in something like "money etiquette" / "taking payment". Money should always be sorted out first (within the first 5-10 minutes), before any services begin - this is a very important point. Most clients will simply hand it over within this time. If they haven't just keep it light and cheery and say something like "shall we sort out the business side so we can begin to have some fun?" / "get the paperwork out of the way" - it isn't awkward and you ought not to feel that way about it - the odds are your client will have seen escorts before so they know how things work.

Also with an incall I'd invite them in, they'd go through to the living room, I'd offer them a drink and ask if I can take their coat (asking this usually prompts them to sort out the money side of things    before I take their coat too). I like to have a brief chat / kiss in the living room, I'd then offer them a shower and tell them to join me in the bedroom when they'd got out. Of course some clients will want the service to begin straight away, and each client is different and likes a different pace so the trick is just reading them.

I hope that helps - make sure you have a good look around the site and the forum as there's a wealth of valuable information.


P.s. always make sure you have a buddy to let know what times they ought to hear from you; contact them when the client arrives and when the client leaves and let your security buddy know what kind of margin is OK - i.e. the booking should finish at 1pm and you'll contact them no later than 1.15pm. There is a dedicated thread on the forum for people searching for buddies so do post in there if you don't have arrangements already sorted.

Thankyou ever so much. I will have a hunt around 
Re showering etc - it's normal to include that in the time they've paid for? 
thankyou xxx

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

Hi girls and welcome to SAAFE.

I think the question of "what happens ......." Shows that every girl works differently.  I NEVER take a client into my lounge, that is MY territory and not a place I want clients to be in.  Many girls use their home for Incalls (I don't but still don't like clients anywhere other than the bedroom) and if girls are using their home for Incalls  then you don't really want to have to depersonalise every room of your home.

The way I see it, my work is a business transaction and as my business takes place in the bedroom then there is no need for them to be anywhere else.  A lot of girls like to use the lounge in order to eek out the booking and less time in the bedroom but that is up to each individual.

There is no room for embarrassment in our business and if the guy is not forthcoming with the money in the first 5 or so minutes, simply say as suggested "lets get business out of the way" then you can get on with things that need to be done.

Good luck.

[isabellaescort]

Hello All,
My name is Isabella and I am an agency escort who is currently in the process of going independent.
I am currently finding it all a little daunting as despite having a business management degree, trying to find companies you can trust i.e to do your website/photos is proving difficult - especially in this industry.
Any advice or recommendations on this would be much appreciated. I think I am going crazy looking at different companies!
I x

[GirlyGirlx]

Hey Ladies 

Just popping up to say hello, I am a fairly well established escort based in Glasgow since 2011, I also tour other parts of the country mostly London, Berkshire & Oxfordshire.

I have only just started reading SAAFE as a few people mentioned that I should read it for support as sometimes I do feel I am going mad with the day to day life of escorting so I must say reading some of the threads is like a breath of fresh air as its made me realise I am not going mad, I am actually normal as you ladies are clearly going through the same things as me so thanks for posting.

I look forward to chatting with you all.

GG xx 

[Missdanni]

Hi I'm Danni

Independant Scottish escort based in northwest. I think this site is fantastic and love reading other WGs experiences, advice and thoughts.

Xxxx

[Vera]

Hello Ladies. My name is Vera. I'm new here and not English. Start to work independant. I'm lonely in London and getting frightening about the job. It not much bookings :-(.  Or maybe it normal do not get the job for a few days. The forum is verry helpfull for me. Maybe I have problem with a job ,because I covered my face?I'm very sorry about ,that I making mistakes in gramma. Thank you.

[English Mature Nicky]

hi my name is Nicky ,
I am new to this site been working a long time now , I find this site very helpful ,
I always cover my face in photo shoots for my own privacy and it does not stop the clients
that r genuine coming to see u ,