As has been said this guy is an idiot who has no idea what he is talking about and who is playing on your insecurities.

I was pregnant when I was 16, I was not having sex with lots of guys and can clearly remember my Dr putting most of his forearm up me during examinations. Yet I get lots of guys comment on how tight I am now.

I agree with the other ladies - I'm afraid he sounds a bit of a wally. Once you're ready to replace him tell him it's not your fanny that's big, but his cock is too small. Ideally, tell him in mid-fuck that he's not really touching the sides, while you look bored. Get a large vibrator out and do your own thing while he wilts, and you glance at his cock full of pity. You know, just for fun, as a parting shot. He'll never be so cock-sure again, the unkind fool.

How long have you been with this guy? It sounds to me like he's in the first stages of becoming abusive: working on lowering your self esteem and making you feel inadequate. He obviously has low self image himself and it makes him feel better to knock your confidence. These are all red flag signs that he may become abusive so get out now before it gets worse!! Xx

All of you ladies are so concerned of me. Thank you, I know how I sound like and I know how you'll think. He sounds like a dickhead and he sometimes really is, I am aware of it.

We are in a exclusive relationship we're not just playing (I know cause I practically live in his house and he don't go out a lot), but then again I am never gonna marry him or be too serious with him. He will never get violent with me, and I will never get pregnant with him. I know you may think 'oh come on, you're being played. You can not be sure, he may turn nasty later' and you may get really worried for me. But I am in well control and there are friends and family around me to make sure that nothing bad happen to me.

I do remember when I was actually virgin or had very few sexual experience. I also remember when I started used dildos in me and how it felt like. It's true I used to be tighter and now it's not the same. Dildos get in much more easily than before, and sensation I get from having sex is also different. I don't want to be emotionally comforted but I just want to know how do I deal with this physical change. I am not played on my insecurity, I know my body and honestly I can also feel it is rather looser than before.

Maybe there is two kind of vaginal tightness - virgin or almost virgin tight and then your normal tight. Maybe you're only very tight when you're almost virgin and then when it stretch to normal state it just stays that way.

Let's be completely honest ladies, maybe from some point after being sexually active, your vagina stays same. But you know it's not the same as when you had no or little sexual experience.

I also do duo plays with other girls and play with other girls bottoms too. There was this one occasion I felt like 'wow how can she be so loose like this?' I know this is not the most polite thing to think, and I never ever said this to her but yeah I am just being honest. I just felt it with my own hand and she really was surprisingly loose, that's just what I really felt. I fingered other girls before and most girls pretty much same but just this one girl was surprisingly loose to the point of hard to understand why so loose.

I mean there's nothing much I could do really, except for kegel exercise I guess. Or maybe using those balls inside.

I don't think a virgin vagina is tighter. More tense, very likely. But the vagina is made up of muscles. They can be stretched and they can lose their tone, but it takes something really traumatic like being torn in childbirth to do that. SEX WILL NOT MAKE A VAGINA "LOOSE." At most, when you become comfortable with sex (which generally hurts the first time) then you will be more relaxed.

I mean, does your throat become "looser" over a lifetime of gulping down food? No. Because it is made of muscles.

Your vagina is also made up of muscles. It is not a spandex thing that can lose its elasticity from being stretched. It renews and it gets stronger, if anything, from repeated flexing.

Vaginas, like penises, can be varying sizes. Like any other muscles, they can vary in tightness and tone. But the idea that getting fucked repeatedly stretches it is just not correct.

After childbirth, which can be pretty traumatic, it can be helpful to do exercises. The loss of pelvic muscle tone goes beyond how "tight" the vagina is and affects the ability to control urine. They're all tied in together. But if fucking will loosen a vagina in the same way, then we'd all be somewhat incontinent. Can you do a star jump, or sneeze, without wetting yourself? Then you are not "stretched" in that way. That said, doing kegals will increase the "tightness" of your vagina. But only in a different way.

Utterly pointless to compare an anus to a vagina.Both completely different things.